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“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. |
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Is it because everyone is different and allowed their own preferences? |
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
because that’s what they are looking for
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"I'd assume it's because people want different things. The people posting "vwe" etc won't be the same ones saying size doesn't matter. It does to some, doesn't to others? "
Actually I have seen on a few profiles
‘Preferably VWE but size is not all, it is what you do with it’
 I was okay, you sure know how to convey your thoughts without any contradictions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men who think having a large cock is the sole criteria for attracting women have a lot to learn.
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In my experience guys who think like that don’t have big cocks
As if you talk to someone who has they tell a different story off being turned down more than getting some
It’s a good way to find who’s lieing about have a big one as guys with big ones no the pain |
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Maybe because a lot of guys don't know what to do with it so bigger has a better chance of hitting the spot. Who knows. Some do some don't. Be boring if we were all the same |
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Because they have preferences. The first half of your sentence doesn’t invalidate the second. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
So I'd suggest that for most, it is a preference, however for some motion in the ocean is a risk for a short term dalliance.
As a woman, you have the right to choose to feel stretched, have your cervix bashed, find an upwards bending cock to hit your gspot, prefer oral, enjoy electrostimulation.
Most women I've met (I'm neither small, average or huge (but more average than huge) say their one off sexual preference is one thing, but their preference in a long term relationship is probably different.
I'd rather meet a lady who knows what she wants. Sometimes that will mean it isn't me |
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By *0IAN00Man
over a year ago
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Maybe it's size AND what you do with it. In all honesty I feel for black guys who are sick of the whole BBC thing. It must be annoying and remember there are a lot of guys who just don't have BBC's. How must they feel? It's a hell of an expectation to live up to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Do you think there is a correlation between body size and internal vaginal dimensions?
Some men get terribly annoyed when an 'unsuitable' woman turns them down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd assume it's because people want different things. The people posting "vwe" etc won't be the same ones saying size doesn't matter. It does to some, doesn't to others? "
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking..
Is it because everyone is different and allowed their own preferences?"
Probably not. Especially if they're larger ladies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not a size queen but I am a BBW. If you have a 3 inch cock (I have met a few on here that have) it's not going to do anything for me. You've kind of joined the dots up yourself by mentioning larger women, or is that just a snidey dig?
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
I dunno, but we should search for an answer together and solve this important conundrum. |
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"I'm not a size queen but I am a BBW. If you have a 3 inch cock (I have met a few on here that have) it's not going to do anything for me. You've kind of joined the dots up yourself by mentioning larger women, or is that just a snidey dig?
Wanna try mine again
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Even if there was zero physical effect, there would still be the aesthetic/psychological difference; some men have preferences re: boobs, bum, hair colour etc. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not a size queen but I am a BBW. If you have a 3 inch cock (I have met a few on here that have) it's not going to do anything for me. You've kind of joined the dots up yourself by mentioning larger women, or is that just a snidey dig?
Wanna try mine again
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"I'd assume it's because people want different things. The people posting "vwe" etc won't be the same ones saying size doesn't matter. It does to some, doesn't to others?
Actually I have seen on a few profiles
‘Preferably VWE but size is not all, it is what you do with it’
I was okay, you sure know how to convey your thoughts without any contradictions "
Well, I'm not sure that's a direct quote but in any case, it's not a contradiction, it's a non-dealbreaker preference. |
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"I'd assume it's because people want different things. The people posting "vwe" etc won't be the same ones saying size doesn't matter. It does to some, doesn't to others?
Actually I have seen on a few profiles
‘Preferably VWE but size is not all, it is what you do with it’
I was okay, you sure know how to convey your thoughts without any contradictions
Well, I'm not sure that's a direct quote but in any case, it's not a contradiction, it's a non-dealbreaker preference."
Yes like saying I like pizza with olives but without is OK.
Not really a contradiction. |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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"I'd assume it's because people want different things. The people posting "vwe" etc won't be the same ones saying size doesn't matter. It does to some, doesn't to others?
Actually I have seen on a few profiles
‘Preferably VWE but size is not all, it is what you do with it’
I was okay, you sure know how to convey your thoughts without any contradictions
Well, I'm not sure that's a direct quote but in any case, it's not a contradiction, it's a non-dealbreaker preference."
I agree with the hot lady! |
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"Fat lasses need a couple of extra inches before it’s even in, maybe..? I think people maybe watch too much porn, and expect all guys to be 9” or something ridiculous.. fantasy island bullshit.."
What a lovely way to put it  |
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"Fat lasses need a couple of extra inches before it’s even in, maybe..? I think people maybe watch too much porn, and expect all guys to be 9” or something ridiculous.. fantasy island bullshit.."
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"Fat lasses need a couple of extra inches before it’s even in, maybe..? I think people maybe watch too much porn, and expect all guys to be 9” or something ridiculous.. fantasy island bullshit.."
I've played with men of all shapes, both build and penis, and sizes and genuinely had a good time with all. It's an untruth that fat lasses need monster cock. Some may prefer it but it isn't a requirement for a lot. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Because they can.
Because they know what they like and are entitled to seek it.
Because everyone can have whatever preferences they wish and if that excludes you.....suck it up.
And women of all shapes and sizes have preferences to cock size, not just as you so eloquently put it 'larger ladies'. Some like big, some definitely don't and yes, some don't care.
Unless you're willing to shag anything with a hole I'd be surprised if every guy on this site didn't have some preferences too.
The golden rule of Fab. People can ask for whatever they want. That may mean it takes longer to find the right person but most people won't drop their standards just for a fuck. And if those preferences exclude you then that's not a problem for them at all, just you if it causes angst and upset.
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"Fat lasses need a couple of extra inches before it’s even in, maybe..? I think people maybe watch too much porn, and expect all guys to be 9” or something ridiculous.. fantasy island bullshit.."
Yeah, "fat lasses" need extra inches. That's how anatomy works  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen some guys fucking girls on vids here with monster cocks. And porn obviously.
Can they put it all the way in? Hell no! I actually feel for them cause I like to go like an animal at times and have just the perfect tool (I think? Haha)
Everyone's entitled to what they like but yeah, women do seem to be more choosy than men generally with what they want and can get in their millions of messages. Just how any 'dating' pool goes!
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
Of most of those you see asking that question, it's probably a Man doing the asking. Especially couples, it's likely he'd like to see his Lady with a big cock. There are always exceptions of course. |
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I think each to their own, but for example some people have a great sex life but their partner is small, why would they want another small cock. They want to experience something they don't get at home. For others they are much more interested in having good quality sex.
I'd say that partnered people are more likely to be bothered about size than someone looking for quality regular sex.
Not that anyone needs to justify their desires. |
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over a year ago
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
ive noticed this and its becoming more and more profiles with it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd assume it's because people want different things. The people posting "vwe" etc won't be the same ones saying size doesn't matter. It does to some, doesn't to others?
Actually I have seen on a few profiles
‘Preferably VWE but size is not all, it is what you do with it’
I was okay, you sure know how to convey your thoughts without any contradictions
Well, I'm not sure that's a direct quote but in any case, it's not a contradiction, it's a non-dealbreaker preference.
Yes like saying I like pizza with olives but without is OK.
Not really a contradiction."
What baffles me is that if it is a non dealbreaker preference why stating it ?
Unless you want to makes sure to get what you want without sounding shallow or fuck up your chance to meet someone who will catch your eyes but lack in that department.
Either way, I see it as something that could have been omitted especially if it really doesn’t matter.
I’ll fuck you if you know what to do with but you must also know that if someone who I believe is better than you physically, you are out.
Yet all we are disposable commodity.
Comparing food with human with feelings is not the best example to convey that that said preference is not based on a belief that certain body size differences are better than others.
As soon as you start to compare body size on their level of attractiveness you definitely contradict yourself when you state that you knowing what to do with it is better than having the body size you seem to prefer in the first place. Well at least this my perspective on it at the moment, but it may change with the different point of views I may across.
‘You’ generally speaking , not you personally.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I've seen some guys fucking girls on vids here with monster cocks. And porn obviously.
Can they put it all the way in? Hell no! I actually feel for them cause I like to go like an animal at times and have just the perfect tool (I think? Haha)
Everyone's entitled to what they like but yeah, women do seem to be more choosy than men generally with what they want and can get in their millions of messages. Just how any 'dating' pool goes!
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Women may seem to be more choosy but maybe they're just less likely to drop their standards and desires just to get laid?
Men are perfectly capable of expressing personal preferences and turning down offers from those they're not interested in/attracted to. It just seems that a higher percentage of men will take anything on offer so yes, it'll look like they're 'less choosy'.
As for the 'can they put it all in' question?
Unless you're packing a serious monster I've never struggled to find people more than capable of accommodating an 8 1/2" cock. I really do think some men need to go back and learn about female anatomy a little more....... 
But if it helps some men justify getting turned down or ignored because they think most women want a hefty size then I suppose that's easier for them to rationalise than something else, like a duff profile, bland photos or an inability to send an interesting message.
Probably less likely to dent an ego.
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"I've seen some guys fucking girls on vids here with monster cocks. And porn obviously.
Can they put it all the way in? Hell no! I actually feel for them cause I like to go like an animal at times and have just the perfect tool (I think? Haha)
Everyone's entitled to what they like but yeah, women do seem to be more choosy than men generally with what they want and can get in their millions of messages. Just how any 'dating' pool goes!
Women may seem to be more choosy but maybe they're just less likely to drop their standards and desires just to get laid?
Men are perfectly capable of expressing personal preferences and turning down offers from those they're not interested in/attracted to. It just seems that a higher percentage of men will take anything on offer so yes, it'll look like they're 'less choosy'.
As for the 'can they put it all in' question?
Unless you're packing a serious monster I've never struggled to find people more than capable of accommodating an 8 1/2" cock. I really do think some men need to go back and learn about female anatomy a little more.......
But if it helps some men justify getting turned down or ignored because they think most women want a hefty size then I suppose that's easier for them to rationalise than something else, like a duff profile, bland photos or an inability to send an interesting message.
Probably less likely to dent an ego.
A"
I agree with all this which may surprise you! Of course men are capable of it, but they're less likely to generally. Again, they can't afford to be. If a gorgeous woman wants to get laid, she will have a much higher pool of candidates up for it then a single man would. Simples! Not a problem at all it's just the way it goes!
And while 8 and a half is certainly big, that's not what I would describe as monster. I'm talking guys that look like they are packing at least 10 here. The BIG boys! While the female anatomy can certainly take it, there's only a certain point until your stabbing a cervix.
But you're right, most of the time the men that get NOTHING is due to all the reasons you mentioned.
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Guys swooning over dick sizes are kind of missing the point a bit. It's swinging, it's not marrying a schlong.
If you want to meet a woman with blonde red hair, with big tits, with a fat arse you will. If you find tattoos a turn on you'll seek them out.. it doesn't mean you're going to date, marry, fb them. It doesn't mean in 6 months you'll even be on the site.
People get their thrills is many kinds of ways, dick size is just one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a bi guy I feel like big cock can be nice in some situations but a nightmare in others
Sure it's fun worshipping a big dick but sometimes you look at a cock and think that would kill me haha |
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"Fat lasses need a couple of extra inches before it’s even in, maybe..? I think people maybe watch too much porn, and expect all guys to be 9” or something ridiculous.. fantasy island bullshit.."
All the cocks on porn are clean. Proper fantasy stuff right there. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I've seen some guys fucking girls on vids here with monster cocks. And porn obviously.
Can they put it all the way in? Hell no! I actually feel for them cause I like to go like an animal at times and have just the perfect tool (I think? Haha)
Everyone's entitled to what they like but yeah, women do seem to be more choosy than men generally with what they want and can get in their millions of messages. Just how any 'dating' pool goes!
Women may seem to be more choosy but maybe they're just less likely to drop their standards and desires just to get laid?
Men are perfectly capable of expressing personal preferences and turning down offers from those they're not interested in/attracted to. It just seems that a higher percentage of men will take anything on offer so yes, it'll look like they're 'less choosy'.
As for the 'can they put it all in' question?
Unless you're packing a serious monster I've never struggled to find people more than capable of accommodating an 8 1/2" cock. I really do think some men need to go back and learn about female anatomy a little more.......
But if it helps some men justify getting turned down or ignored because they think most women want a hefty size then I suppose that's easier for them to rationalise than something else, like a duff profile, bland photos or an inability to send an interesting message.
Probably less likely to dent an ego.
A
I agree with all this which may surprise you! Of course men are capable of it, but they're less likely to generally. Again, they can't afford to be. If a gorgeous woman wants to get laid, she will have a much higher pool of candidates up for it then a single man would. Simples! Not a problem at all it's just the way it goes!
And while 8 and a half is certainly big, that's not what I would describe as monster. I'm talking guys that look like they are packing at least 10 here. The BIG boys! While the female anatomy can certainly take it, there's only a certain point until your stabbing a cervix.
But you're right, most of the time the men that get NOTHING is due to all the reasons you mentioned.
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Yep.
Fab is no different to the outside world. If a gorgeous woman wants to get laid via a pub, club or supermarket aisle, she'll generally have a much easier time of it than someone slightly out of shape, carrying a few extra lumps and bumps, not wearing make up and looking like she's just done a week of 18 hour days with little sleep. That's life!! On here as much as the big wide world.
Swinging and the kind of encounters often sought on here are fantasy fulfilment rather than looking for anything serious or long term. So people will be choosy and seek out specifics rather than just take the first Tom, Harry or Dick (pun intended) that sends a message.
At least that's often the case with women and couples. Not all of course, but most. The sad fact is that men will usually be less choosy given they get less interest (most) due to the ratios. But settling for everyone that makes them an offer does them no favours and perpetuates the view that men aren't fussy and will accept a shag, blowie and quick wank from anyone that offers.
Stick to your guns, don't drop your standards and state your preferences and you'll do well. Be seen as someone who doesn't give a toss where their dick ends up and you'll just join the ranks of those who get passed by.
It's better to want quality over quantity when it comes to meets. Even if your a single guy.
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"I've seen some guys fucking girls on vids here with monster cocks. And porn obviously.
Can they put it all the way in? Hell no! I actually feel for them cause I like to go like an animal at times and have just the perfect tool (I think? Haha)
Everyone's entitled to what they like but yeah, women do seem to be more choosy than men generally with what they want and can get in their millions of messages. Just how any 'dating' pool goes!
Women may seem to be more choosy but maybe they're just less likely to drop their standards and desires just to get laid?
Men are perfectly capable of expressing personal preferences and turning down offers from those they're not interested in/attracted to. It just seems that a higher percentage of men will take anything on offer so yes, it'll look like they're 'less choosy'.
As for the 'can they put it all in' question?
Unless you're packing a serious monster I've never struggled to find people more than capable of accommodating an 8 1/2" cock. I really do think some men need to go back and learn about female anatomy a little more.......
But if it helps some men justify getting turned down or ignored because they think most women want a hefty size then I suppose that's easier for them to rationalise than something else, like a duff profile, bland photos or an inability to send an interesting message.
Probably less likely to dent an ego.
A
I agree with all this which may surprise you! Of course men are capable of it, but they're less likely to generally. Again, they can't afford to be. If a gorgeous woman wants to get laid, she will have a much higher pool of candidates up for it then a single man would. Simples! Not a problem at all it's just the way it goes!
And while 8 and a half is certainly big, that's not what I would describe as monster. I'm talking guys that look like they are packing at least 10 here. The BIG boys! While the female anatomy can certainly take it, there's only a certain point until your stabbing a cervix.
But you're right, most of the time the men that get NOTHING is due to all the reasons you mentioned.
Yep.
Fab is no different to the outside world. If a gorgeous woman wants to get laid via a pub, club or supermarket aisle, she'll generally have a much easier time of it than someone slightly out of shape, carrying a few extra lumps and bumps, not wearing make up and looking like she's just done a week of 18 hour days with little sleep. That's life!! On here as much as the big wide world.
Swinging and the kind of encounters often sought on here are fantasy fulfilment rather than looking for anything serious or long term. So people will be choosy and seek out specifics rather than just take the first Tom, Harry or Dick (pun intended) that sends a message.
At least that's often the case with women and couples. Not all of course, but most. The sad fact is that men will usually be less choosy given they get less interest (most) due to the ratios. But settling for everyone that makes them an offer does them no favours and perpetuates the view that men aren't fussy and will accept a shag, blowie and quick wank from anyone that offers.
Stick to your guns, don't drop your standards and state your preferences and you'll do well. Be seen as someone who doesn't give a toss where their dick ends up and you'll just join the ranks of those who get passed by.
It's better to want quality over quantity when it comes to meets. Even if your a single guy.
A"
Couldn't agree more!
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"“It’s not the size that matters but what you do with it”. So why do so many women ask for BBC and VWE etc. I do notice these tend to be often larger ladies asking.. "
I hardly ever see women asking for big dicks, maybe I'm just looking in the wrong places. Dress size also has absolutely nothing to do with preferences. I'm a size 18 and would much prefer an average cock because I used to have vaginismus. - Xeno |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Men who think having a large cock is the sole criteria for attracting women have a lot to learn.
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The thing is that the women who want VWE are quite vocal about it. They make it clear and put it out there, while those that don't care much just don't state it so it's less blatant to some how interested (or disinterested) in actual size. So when you see size preferences stated it stands out more.
To point out though, size does matter of course. If its too big or too small then some just won't find it appealing. The actual preferred size varies but size is very important for that individual. |
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Do you just have a problem with women unapologetically having preferences, OP?
Do you also get pissy when men express their lust for big women, booby women, women with blonde hair, women with tattoos, hairy women, shaven women, short women, you know, all the things men very vocally demand? |
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"We are entitled to our own preferences whether its bbc bwc ."
Totally and those who are excluded from them are entitled to voice their opinions too. It may be translated through bitterness or articulated thoughts.
Fucking vicious circles |
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"Fat lasses need a couple of extra inches before it’s even in, maybe..? I think people maybe watch too much porn, and expect all guys to be 9” or something ridiculous.. fantasy island bullshit..
All the cocks on porn are clean. Proper fantasy stuff right there. "
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