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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
Maybe read the rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
They don't fancy you mate... Just move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
I do try to reply to those that have gone above and beyond in terms of message but sometimes us ladies get so many messages in one day (especially if we post a picture) sometimes its really hard to read all of them, I do understand your frustration I really do but it's not as simple as logging on, seeing a few messages and replying to them, sometimes you log on and see over 60 messages and sometimes you look at them and might pluck a few out but more often than not, it's easier just to mass delete, especially for people that have a word in the heading from their profile to tell us your at least scanned it to the bottom, if that's not in the subject heading, that's a straight in the bin for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing. |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing."
I love this analogy!
And let's not forget she never even asked for a drink! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should familiarise yourself with the site FAQ's OP as this has been covered. The site owbers themselves state that a non-reply or a delete should be taken as a 'no, thank you' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing."
Fuckin bitches  |
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We get lots of single men message, some with very long well written messages, but still they've not once read despite the big header that pops up this couple isn't looking for anyone of your sex.
Saying that the ones who note that and compliment the profile or a photo I will reply to, the ones who send me their cock can do one, no reply to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Fuckin bitches "
Exactly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Fuckin bitches
Exactly.
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Who do l we think we ARE! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Fuckin bitches
Exactly.
Who do l we think we ARE!"
Just impolite aren’t you all.
Shocking.
Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages "
On your part, not theirs.
Your not owed a reply or anything else.
If you sent your well written CV for a job application and didn’t get the job would you go in the place kicking off and slagging them off because you didn’t get the job? |
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The main problem with this site (as well as others) is that single men vastly outnumber women and couples.
You can write a polite, detail and well thought out message but the women get so many they simply delete without reading just to clear the back log.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one owes anyone anything when it comes to getting a reply to a message on here.
No reply is not interested.
The number of guys who don't get this is not that high to be honest but we do get some who keep messaging.... you not like? why you not respond? or they simply keep having a one way conversation sending multiple messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Fuckin bitches
Exactly.
Who do l we think we ARE!
Just impolite aren’t you all.
Shocking.
Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message."
Noted. Must try harder
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Fuckin bitches
Exactly.
Who do l we think we ARE!
Just impolite aren’t you all.
Shocking.
Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message.
Noted. Must try harder
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That’s the spirit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Fuckin bitches
Exactly.
Who do l we think we ARE!
Just impolite aren’t you all.
Shocking.
Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message.
Noted. Must try harder
That’s the spirit."
Thank you kind man, for showing me the error if my (frankly, shocking) ways |
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Oh I love the daily thread from tearful men accusing ladies of being rude for not replying to every lame message they receive.
What were you going to do with that rejection? Somehow turn it around into a date? Or delete it? I think I know which is more likely... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Fuckin bitches
Exactly.
Who do l we think we ARE!
Just impolite aren’t you all.
Shocking.
Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message.
Noted. Must try harder
That’s the spirit.
Thank you kind man, for showing me the error if my (frankly, shocking) ways "
Don’t mention it, I’m just glad I could help. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Op just delete the messages you send from hour outbox ,will cause you less stress.
You may send a detailed message,but that doesn't mean you'll appeal to them I'm afraid.
Some bits on your profile will only be attractive for a small amount of people .
Saying that ,if I can see someone has read my profile ,I do try and reply,even if a no thanks.Im not innundated with mail though like some ladies are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
They delete because they are not interested in meeting you. A no thanks often leads to men trying to get around any reason given.
From your post I get the sense you think if you send a well written message it will get you sex, that is not the case. It is for the recipient of the message to decide if you are what they are looking for, not you
Making a thread about not getting replies is a form of rudeness in itself.
Personally I would not meet anyone who started such a thread |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages "
How much time really? Honestly we're talking minutes surely? Maybe 15 minutes at most to read a profile and compose a message. That's not a lot of time unless you are messaging anyone and everyone and sending dozens of messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
I got sent a long detailed message by someone who had clearly read my profile.
He got one sentence back off me. Now we are a couple.
You just never know what will happen. If they aren't interested you'll get nothing. But it could go the other way. No harm in trying. Just don't turn to the one sentence first message types, or worse.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
I love this analogy!
And let's not forget she never even asked for a drink!"
Probably didn't even drink it either.
Just ungrateful.
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing."
Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude "
I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways.
A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job. |
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing."
What were you in for ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
What were you in for ?"
Not taking no for an answer. |
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
What were you in for ?
Not taking no for an answer."
No! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
What were you in for ?
Not taking no for an answer.
No!"
That’s what she said. |
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"Manners maketh a person my old gran said god rest her soul....."
Aksherlly your old gran would have said manners maketh the man ...... admit it!
Don't you try neutralising our gloriously outmoded tropes. |
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"Manners maketh a person my old gran said god rest her soul.....
Aksherlly your old gran would have said manners maketh the man ...... admit it!
Don't you try neutralising our gloriously outmoded tropes."
 can't pull the wool over your eyes Granny.... |
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude
I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways.
A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job."
At the very least... one good turn deserves another.
Thank you for your helpful instruction of how I can be more successful moving forward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude
I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways.
A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job.
At the very least... one good turn deserves another.
Thank you for your helpful instruction of how I can be more successful moving forward "
I’m here to help. |
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude
I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways.
A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job.
At the very least... one good turn deserves another.
Thank you for your helpful instruction of how I can be more successful moving forward
I’m here to help. "
Thank goodness, I'd be in a whole heap of trouble without guidance like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing."
So what happens if I buy the cool table drinks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
So what happens if I buy the cool table drinks? "
Orgy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away.
When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not.
I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees.
Manners cost nothing.
So what happens if I buy the cool table drinks?
Orgy."
Gigidy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes read a profile and think we’d be a perfect match.
I send what I think is a decent message and maybe include a face pic.
My message is read and ignored.
I delete my message and move on.
Clearly they didn’t share my enthusiasm.
It happens to a lot of us OP. Fab is not the right place if you can’t handle rejection. |
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages "
Fab needs men to have realistic expectations, if they are going to retain their wellbeing, when the majority of people they engage with, will ignore them, as there's no compatibility. |
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We currently have just under 700 messages in our inbox. I'm not replying to them all, in fact, I probably won't reply to 20 of them. That isn't rudeness, it's the fact I have better things to do than administrative duties on here and I get bored very quickly.
Saying that I do appreciate a lot of the messages received and find it very flattering. It's certainly an ego boost and I'm very thankful. I just can't physically respond to them, even when split with the hubs to go through them.
Don't take it to heart, take it for what it is - a no. I'd rather be ignored than receive a "sorry love, we don't fancy you".
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't take it to heart, take it for what it is - a no. I'd rather be ignored than receive a "sorry love, we don't fancy you".
D x"
Very valid point. I often wonder how all those who complain about not receiving replies would actually feel if they ended up with an overflowing inbox all saying exactly that.
Not a great confidence booster! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
Would you like a long and detailed reply about all the things about your profile that they don't find attractive? Would that be polite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women here log on and see a yellow wall in front of them , the ratio here of men and women is way lob sided , I have it in my updated status , if they're not interested they're not interested for whatever reason, they can't reply to all the messages , if they did they'd be here full time . |
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Allow me to give you an example of why women so often don't respond.
I get a message from a guy asked by if I'd like to meet.
I say 'no thanks'( profile states women only)
His response ' well it was worth a try, lol'
Actually, no, it wasn't. Do you think anyone has been successfully with that approach.
He then suggests he could 'tuck his tail away and lick my pussy'
And you wonder why women just hit the delete button.
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
From the site FAQ’s
There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can write the best first message but if you don't float my boat you won't get a reply.
The problem I've found is if you send a thanks but no thanks message people try and change your mind and then I've even been insulted simply for not being interested. |
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages "
You could write an epic tome, something Shakespeare himself would by proud of.
But if we don't fancy you, we don't fancy you.
No amount of words will change that.
Let's say you send 10 messages a day on a 30 day month.
At the end of the month you have 300 messages saying "no thanks, we don't fancy you"
Two questions;
Do you feel better for being told by 300 people they don't find you appealing?
Do you write back, thanking them for their no thanks?
I'd add more but I have to call 3 pizza shops, 2 double glazing companies, 4 life insurance companies and a taxi service to say no thanks to all their kind offers.
Winston
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr "
Have to totally agree with you |
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr."
"Have to totally agree with you "
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Ad Nuseaum. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Ok OP, just for you, I will now make a point of responding to all people I have no interest in and give them a full break down of why I am not interested. I'm sure that will make their fab experience much more enjoyable.
Actually, on second thoughts, I won't. |
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Welcome to fab. Suck it up, get used to it if you want to stick around. 
Winston 