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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

True! But you have to take the risk

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Is it not the same off line ? is anyone who they portray themselves to be these days ? Online fakes are easier to spot.

The mr

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"Are you?"

Straight away this sparks doubt

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"Is it not the same off line ? is anyone who they portray themselves to be these days ? Online fakes are easier to spot.

The mr "

Positive input from you and the bloke above who both have pics .. then you have the random first comment saying are you ? This is what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

What do you classify as fake? There is a real person behind every profile. Some people use photo filters. Some don't meet people they don't find attractive. Some don't ever meet.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I dunno, I have seen many active men and women on here with lots of verifications. So still think there's plenty of genuine swingers. But yes, since the pandemic, there's more fantasists joining the community.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am as genuine as they come

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I am as genuine as they come "

Me too , we must account for more than 20% of all the sex here too, so it’s officially not 80% fake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either "

Where do you take them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am as genuine as they come

Me too , we must account for more than 20% of all the sex here too, so it’s officially not 80% fake

Yip ha ha

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By *olden PoleMan over a year ago

Kent

I think the only fake profile I’ve encountered was a guy saying it was a couples account and he wanted me to meet his wife. Asking me for dick picks and chatting away which ultimately gave him away as guy trying his luck.

Silly really.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I am as genuine as they come "

I wouldn't doubt you at all your honest show pics and vids and let people know Everything they need to know on your profile

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "
why you say that, I don't find anything fake about it?

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By *rettyboylloydMan over a year ago

Manchester

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

Sure I've found men pretending to be either couples or sometimes single women. It happens. It'll likely always happen.

But there is no way its "80%" of here

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Sure I've found men pretending to be either couples or sometimes single women. It happens. It'll likely always happen.

But there is no way its "80%" of here "

Yeah that figure might have been a bit dramatic but what you said is exactly that

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By *ARKblondeCouple over a year ago

london

OP...our number one way of deciding who's who they say they are is looking through verifications, and verifications of verifications...so because your verifications aren't showing we'd treat you as fake/suspicious until you either showed us a verification that we trusted or we had an in person call with you...long winded, but we'd get to that within a couple of messages...and if it turns out to be fake, we'd treat it like a trip to the zoo

But still totally agree, lots of people who aren't who they say they are...weirdos

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either "

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

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By *B1000Couple over a year ago

North Lakes and Manchester

"OP...our number one way of deciding who's who they say they are is looking through verifications, and verifications of verifications...so because your verifications aren't showing we'd treat you as fake/suspicious until you either showed us a verification that we trusted or we had an in person call with you...long winded, but we'd get to that within a couple of messages...and if it turns out to be fake, we'd treat it like a trip to the zoo

But still totally agree, lots of people who aren't who they say they are...weirdos

Exactly as above, makes it tough for newbies but socials & clubs are great ways to get verified

we also have an enormous block list from unsolicited friends invites (picture collectors!)

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By *arcosaMan over a year ago

London

Well, I'm certainly genuine, even to my own detriment. What you see is what you get.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

So much anger not sure who to respond to first!! I mean the profiles that message you that have no pics and say my misses wants to fuck you but we can't show any pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the real deal here, just unfortunate in that I can’t seem to find the me time to play. soon be free in one or two weeks time and will be back at sleazy but fun club Legs800 servicing plenty big dicks like a practiced whore.

cum & c4 yourself.

also, 80% seems high since plenty genuine peeps on-site, admit have encountered a fair few fantasists & there are some peeps who aren’t interested in real time play but just idle chit chat.

So don’t lose hope, is just a matter of time before u cum across your gem once you’ve sifted though the mud...!

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

I don’t either

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

I don’t either

Neither did I..

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

I've never had a conversation with a fake profile in 6 years here but I have chatted to a few fake people.

Those who pretend to be nice but are anything but.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I've never had a conversation with a fake profile in 6 years here but I have chatted to a few fake people.

Those who pretend to be nice but are anything but. "

That's an interesting input

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

OP, is it possible you're interacting with profiles that are a tad too good to be true?

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP, is it possible you're interacting with profiles that are a tad too good to be true?"

Elaborate please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

Women can turn you down - it doesn't mean they are fake.

Use your common sense. If a woman doesn't want to chat to you she's probably real. If a woman wants sex chat it's probably a man.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP, is it possible you're interacting with profiles that are a tad too good to be true?"

What's your idea of a profile too good to be true

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"OP, is it possible you're interacting with profiles that are a tad too good to be true?

What's your idea of a profile too good to be true "

I'm probably barking up the wrong tree as we've hardly come across any dodgy profiles, but I imagine some of them seem too good to be true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It certainly depends upon your definition of fake and the amount / quality of the interactions that you have with people.

We respond to or message people that fit in with our desires and don’t have any red flags.

Our experience then is discovering far less than your 80% “fakes”.

Are you using a scattergun approach or ignoring those red flags perhaps?

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By *lym4realCouple over a year ago

plymouth

Well we are proudly 99.5% fake and mainly because Mrs4 won't drop her drawers or have them moved aside for just about anyone who can type one handed !!!

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP, is it possible you're interacting with profiles that are a tad too good to be true?

What's your idea of a profile too good to be true

I'm probably barking up the wrong tree as we've hardly come across any dodgy profiles, but I imagine some of them seem too good to be true "

I'd have no reason whatsoever to think your profile is fake .. people are missing the point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

It's because someone in Fab admin watched "Stepford wives"

Which gave them the idea to infiltrate the site with clones... (I think there was a bit of Dolly the sheep mixed in) Xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"So much anger not sure who to respond to first!! I mean the profiles that message you that have no pics and say my misses wants to fuck you but we can't show any pics "

Where's the anger?!

There are a lot of fantasists and time wasters on here for sure but I wouldn't say 80% are fake.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Women can turn you down - it doesn't mean they are fake.

Use your common sense. If a woman doesn't want to chat to you she's probably real. If a woman wants sex chat it's probably a man."

You just keep giving yourself away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have "fakes" on every platform. They're easy to spot.. just ignore and move on. Plenty of genuine people here too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am as genuine as they come

I wouldn't doubt you at all your honest show pics and vids and let people know Everything they need to know on your profile "

Thanks I do try my best

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Women can turn you down - it doesn't mean they are fake.

Use your common sense. If a woman doesn't want to chat to you she's probably real. If a woman wants sex chat it's probably a man."

Can confirm sex chat bores me rigid - Xeno

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"You have "fakes" on every platform. They're easy to spot.. just ignore and move on. Plenty of genuine people here too"

Completely agree of course and I have no problem. With anyone being whoever or whatever they want to be .. the point that made me post this was if these profiles approached me being truthful it would be fine .. it's the fact of trickery and lies .. done now anyway made my point peace out

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

To be honest I couldn’t care less who is fake and who isn’t as we just can’t be arsed with all the hassle any more

If we meet someone on our holidays and chat that’s different but on here who knows but why worry

It really isn’t worth the time and chat

Move on……..get a real,life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So with that type of maths, at least one of us that is in this thread is fake? But who is it? ….

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"So with that type of maths, at least one of us that is in this thread is fake? But who is it? ….

The mild mannered janitor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So with that type of maths, at least one of us that is in this thread is fake? But who is it? ….

The mild mannered janitor"

Could be!

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By *rtyIanMan over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

I don’t either

Neither did I.. "

My head hurts reading that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So with that type of maths, at least one of us that is in this thread is fake? But who is it? ….

The mild mannered janitor"

I’ve not got a Scooby Doo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So with that type of maths, at least one of us that is in this thread is fake? But who is it? ….

The mild mannered janitor"

He’d have gotten away with it too, if it wasn’t for these pesky forum posts….

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Sure I've found men pretending to be either couples or sometimes single women. It happens. It'll likely always happen.

But there is no way its "80%" of here

Yeah that figure might have been a bit dramatic but what you said is exactly that "

..........................

Ah, so you're using fake statistics to justify your position!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly you can easily spot a fake profile and if you actually struggle to say if the woman is legit behind the profile, there is a myriad of ways to check if she is who she is or not without wasting too much time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not just women that are "time wasters", last week I was talking to at least 6 men I had quite a few booked in with socials this week, you know how many I've had this week, zero. Things happen and I appear to choose complete knobheads aswell sometimes but here I am, still here and putting in the effort all over again.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"It's not just women that are "time wasters", last week I was talking to at least 6 men I had quite a few booked in with socials this week, you know how many I've had this week, zero. Things happen and I appear to choose complete knobheads aswell sometimes but here I am, still here and putting in the effort all over again."

I never said it was women !! It's mostly men saying it's a woman's profile or coupes profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never said it was women !! It's mostly men saying it's a woman's profile or coupes profile "

I am seeing more "women" look at me and message me (which as a woman, I know that never happens or hardly ever), I can spot a blokes profile a mile away when pretending to be a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reckon there’s probably about 20 unique accounts replying to this thread so far, roughly, so that means only about 4 accounts on average will be genuine.

I wonder which ones they are? Certainly not me (I’m one of the fake ones) ..

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

If a supposed girl calls you bud ...instant giveaway

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"If a supposed girl calls you bud ...instant giveaway

And when they message saying yo yo after you don't reply

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

We have veris that prove beyond all doubt that we exist. Also, that I’m a woman!

(a very convincing one)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's like anything else in life. If something sounds too good to be true then it probably isn't. Every once in a while though, it is. Best bet is to go to socials listed on here or club meets. Many people talk a good game from a keyboard and get cold feet or just can't be arsed after they've had a wank. I think you get out of fab what you put in.

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By *yron69Man over a year ago

Fareham

I'm not a bot. Honestly. Gen guy here.

I'm not a bot. Honestly. Gen guy here. Gen guy here.

I'm not a bot...

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I'm not a bot. Honestly. Gen guy here.

I'm not a bot. Honestly. Gen guy here. Gen guy here.

I'm not a bot..."

Enter self destruct mode

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

Define *fake.

Winston

*someone who won't meet you isn't fake

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

For Couples and Single Women profiles, that's probably an accurate number. That still leaves a lot of genuine people who do actually meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Define *fake.

Winston

*someone who won't meet you isn't fake"

Let’s call them *missleading profiles.

Defined - single woman, wants to meet men for sexy times. (Probably not a woman, and zero sexual intentions)

but will talk and swap pictures etc.

Very easy to spot a misleading g profile. Just ask them to meet up.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Define *fake.

Winston

*someone who won't meet you isn't fake"

Wowwwww

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By *umbiyaMan over a year ago

Halifax

Don’t worry. The weirdos and repulsive ones are 100% real.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Glad it wasn't just me.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Glad it wasn't just me."

I don’t either

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Glad it wasn't just me.

I don’t either

Quite an epic profile too! Enjoyed reading it over my coffee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Glad it wasn't just me.

I don’t either

Quite an epic profile too! Enjoyed reading it over my coffee

Thank you

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By *adMerWoman over a year ago

Sandwich

OP.

Have you considered the possibility that you are using the wrong bait to attract genuine couples and females?

You haven’t actually asked for any profile advice, so I am not offering any. Also, get to clubs and socials. Genuine real people go to these!

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP.

Have you considered the possibility that you are using the wrong bait to attract genuine couples and females?

You haven’t actually asked for any profile advice, so I am not offering any. Also, get to clubs and socials. Genuine real people go to these!

Interesting comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whilst there are definitely fakes on here, I don’t think the number is that high.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

Those pesky 3am fake profiles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 socials booked . . Try being a guy on here 'putting in the effort' hundreds of messages zero meets, so of course zero verifications and yet in many women's opinions I'm fake .. lol

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple over a year ago

manchester

Like many others, our account profile name is made up. We will not use our real names on here or other sites. We are both new to the site and already suffered two catfish. We read lots of other ‘couples’ profiles for tips on what our profile would say and added that we do not reply immediately as we discuss what we both want to do. We also chose to photo verify and have now paid for a year.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Define *fake.

Winston

*someone who won't meet you isn't fake

Let’s call them *missleading profiles.

Defined - single woman, wants to meet men for sexy times. (Probably not a woman, and zero sexual intentions)

but will talk and swap pictures etc.

Very easy to spot a misleading g profile. Just ask them to meet up.

I wouldn’t call them “misleading” either if you ask them to meet up, and they don’t want to. It doesn’t make them anything, they just don’t want to meet you.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Glad it wasn't just me.

I don’t either

Quite an epic profile too! Enjoyed reading it over my coffee

Wow! I’m lost for words

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By *assConductorMan over a year ago

the wild

While I have spotted the odd few fake profiles, on the other hand I

have been accused of being a fake profile, and I was even on cam at the time. So who knows..

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"Whilst there are definitely fakes on here, I don’t think the number is that high. "

Was definitely exaggerating

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

You can spot the fake profiles a mile away but I’ve only encountered a few

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I honestly don’t see them. I can’t remember the last time I encountered a “fake”

I think it’s really easy to spot and avoid them so maybe that’s why I don’t see them.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Glad it wasn't just me.

I don’t either

Quite an epic profile too! Enjoyed reading it over my coffee

Thank you

Love yours

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

OP if you think all these profiles are fake, then seeing as few others appear to encounter them 80% of the time (your own statistic) then why are they all being drawn to you?

The odd one or two attempt to dupe would be expected. But they're easy to spot generally and with a couple of simple procedures avoid prolonged contact with.

Like anything on Fab. If something happens frequently then you need to review what you're doing. Because there's only one common denominator......

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP if you think all these profiles are fake, then seeing as few others appear to encounter them 80% of the time (your own statistic) then why are they all being drawn to you?

The odd one or two attempt to dupe would be expected. But they're easy to spot generally and with a couple of simple procedures avoid prolonged contact with.

Like anything on Fab. If something happens frequently then you need to review what you're doing. Because there's only one common denominator......

I've said a few times in the comments I was exaggerating with 80%

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"OP if you think all these profiles are fake, then seeing as few others appear to encounter them 80% of the time (your own statistic) then why are they all being drawn to you?

The odd one or two attempt to dupe would be expected. But they're easy to spot generally and with a couple of simple procedures avoid prolonged contact with.

Like anything on Fab. If something happens frequently then you need to review what you're doing. Because there's only one common denominator......

I've said a few times in the comments I was exaggerating with 80%"

Regardless of the statistic.

If you're constantly encountering 'fakes' then there's a pattern.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im 100% genuine OP, more than happy to meet and show you my tits.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"OP if you think all these profiles are fake, then seeing as few others appear to encounter them 80% of the time (your own statistic) then why are they all being drawn to you?

The odd one or two attempt to dupe would be expected. But they're easy to spot generally and with a couple of simple procedures avoid prolonged contact with.

Like anything on Fab. If something happens frequently then you need to review what you're doing. Because there's only one common denominator......

I've said a few times in the comments I was exaggerating with 80%

Regardless of the statistic.

If you're constantly encountering 'fakes' then there's a pattern.

Never said constantly

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"Im 100% genuine OP, more than happy to meet and show you my tits.

Hahaha you legend !!! Subtle but clever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have "fakes" on every platform. They're easy to spot.. just ignore and move on. Plenty of genuine people here too"

this 100%

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By *ixenandhoundCouple over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

We tend to meet in clubs as they are defo real people then.

We've had messages from 'couples' who are very much a single man, they get pretty easy to spot.

But, we've been called fake by people because we don't want to meet them!! We are defo not fake, but we are picky and think our profile makes it pretty clear that we don't meet with anyone who messages lol.

Veris are always a good place to start, but we've been called out as fake on that too as we choose to only display a few recent ones, it's like some people are trying to prove that we are fake even when we are not lol!

With anything you gotta read between the lines a bit, but I think the proper fake profiles are pretty easy to spot and head straight to our block list x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've started chatting to one women several times under different but very similar profile names (hers not mine). So can only assume its the same woman. just seems odd that that forget their password or maybe they are stalked by other members and have to change...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Those pesky 3am fake profiles "

I was online at 3am!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Getting worked up about fakes is a waste of time. There are fakes that stand out a mile and there will be fakes that a difficult to spot.

Fakes aside the biggest problem on this site is people's expectations

We have not been here long but the number of people who think sending a couple of messages is enough to make you want to meet them is actually hilarious.

Wether they want to meet for real or not - quite simply put none of them interest us. We know why we are here and we know what we want out of the site and thats all that matter. Messages are dealt with by either a polite no thanks or an ignore delete.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

80% of stats are made up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems a bit OTT to say this site is "out of control".

And im at a loss how you attract or find so many fakes!!!

Ive been on sex and fetish sites since 2006. And also vanilla dating sites.

Its no different on any of them (althoughi admit some are worse than others).

Some fakes, some spam, some time wasters, some photo collectors, some keyboard w*****s. Its an unfortunate reality of online dating/meeting sites.

I think a lot of people would agree the number of fakes/time wasters/fantasists increased during lockdown.

But from what ive seen, genuine outnumber the wasters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op I think you're the fake one!

Not once have I seen a body like that walking around MK supermarkets......

Busted

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"Op I think you're the fake one!

Not once have I seen a body like that walking around MK supermarkets......

Busted

Hahaha you legend that actually made me

Laugh out loud !! I'll bina you the heads up next time I head to Mk market xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's part and parcel.

Keep your wits about you, don't be a raging hard on of a man and it's easy though.

Do they like me?

Fake.

Do they ask to meet me?

Fake or organ trafficker.

Do they do the sex with me?

Where are my car keys.

Rife with risk and danger OP.

Quit and hump pillows.

Real ones, not the synthetic aka fake ones.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I don't get this. Meet at clubs and they will be real

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

It's true. I am 80% fake and so is Hannah. Luke

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm approximately 0.001% fake - I have a metal collar bone; other than a bit of metal work I'm all real

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

the site is not out of control at all its the same now as its always been just a lot more people especially men ... lucky for most of us women and couples we seem to be able to spot the fake quite easy ..so its not too much of a big deal.

you wont get better by far the best site on the net for meeting ..

men will always always find this scene hard just because of the % or men vrs women/couples

i do find it funny that its mostly men that moan its fake when you consider ..

men set up fake womens profiles

men set up fake couples profiles

men set up more than one single profile

men delete profiles weekly/monthly to look new and avoid block list

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By *arpediemgentMan over a year ago

France

More worrying is well verified people ( not just one or two Veris) using others’s face pictures in private messages.

A women I chatted to informed me of this.

When contacting Admin I have very evasive answers to what they’ve done etc. have they blocked the guy, how can he be prevented to set up a new account and do the same.

As much as this site is great to connect people, there is nothing in place or seem to be genuine concern how for Fab to improve their process and protect genuine members

“

Hi,

We've now resolved the sto len photos issue you reported. If you believe your photos are being used still, let us know ASAP.

Admin x

“

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Existential statement but I'm starting to question whether anyone is fully real to anybody else or even themselves.

Think from place to place, home to work, friends to family we are all slightly different people. So there's a deep musing for the day is there a real anyone!

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By *elenshubbyMan over a year ago

Uxbridge

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

I don’t either

Neither did I.. "

Me neither

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

" the site is not out of control at all its the same now as its always been just a lot more people especially men ... lucky for most of us women and couples we seem to be able to spot the fake quite easy ..so its not too much of a big deal.

you wont get better by far the best site on the net for meeting ..

men will always always find this scene hard just because of the % or men vrs women/couples

i do find it funny that its mostly men that moan its fake when you consider ..

men set up fake womens profiles

men set up fake couples profiles

men set up more than one single profile

men delete profiles weekly/monthly to look new and avoid block list

Do you think this was against women ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's part and parcel.

Keep your wits about you, don't be a raging hard on of a man and it's easy though.

Do they like me?

Fake.

Do they ask to meet me?

Fake or organ trafficker.

Do they do the sex with me?

Where are my car keys.

Rife with risk and danger OP.

Quit and hump pillows.

Real ones, not the synthetic aka fake ones. "

Wanna meet? I have a bucket of ice.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's part and parcel.

Keep your wits about you, don't be a raging hard on of a man and it's easy though.

Do they like me?

Fake.

Do they ask to meet me?

Fake or organ trafficker.

Do they do the sex with me?

Where are my car keys.

Rife with risk and danger OP.

Quit and hump pillows.

Real ones, not the synthetic aka fake ones.

Wanna meet? I have a bucket of ice..... "

There's something wrong.

I can feel it.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I think some profiles attract the fakes.

Having a tight body means lots of men want to wank over you, while you chat to them.

The women here to drum up business should be reported.

You'll get women looking for an ego boost too, and some who have good intentions but lose interest for no fault of yours.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"It's part and parcel.

Keep your wits about you, don't be a raging hard on of a man and it's easy though.

Do they like me?

Fake.

Do they ask to meet me?

Fake or organ trafficker.

Do they do the sex with me?

Where are my car keys.

Rife with risk and danger OP.

Quit and hump pillows.

Real ones, not the synthetic aka fake ones.

Wanna meet? I have a bucket of ice.....

There's something wrong.

I can feel it."

You know that

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By *arkandlovelyWoman over a year ago

South Derbyshire

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By *arkandlovelyWoman over a year ago

South Derbyshire

What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know."

There's nothing about your profile that looks fake ?

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By *hil most chillMan over a year ago

South East & Europe

I've never had a problem with fake profiles. I avoid the new ones with a great pic, and suspiciously generic, short bios. Generally most of my interactions and meets have come as a result of forum activity, which further reduces the chance of them being fake. Not trying to insult you OP, but if you're encountering so many "fake" profiles (I'm still not sure what the definition of this is), then possibly you need to change your tactics?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shall we play the is the poster above you real of fake game?

It is hard on this site when everyone (understandably!) wants discretion. I've chatted to someone who was verified and I'm not even sure she was really real. Plays with your mind haha!

It's hard to know for sure until you jump on Kik and do a live cam selfie or something (I do rate Kik for that but even then, bots can send fake cam pictures)

Don't trust anyone and never leave your house is what I say!

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By *arkandlovelyWoman over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

There's nothing about your profile that looks fake ? "

I assume it's butthurt at not getting a reply but who knows. What does a fake profile look like?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

There's nothing about your profile that looks fake ?

I assume it's butthurt at not getting a reply but who knows. What does a fake profile look like?"

No reply usually makes me think they are more genuine haha!

I guess if people thought you were fake it's because your body looks incredible and 'too good to be true'.

I don't think there is an easy way to spot a fake one personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not fake im just a time waister carry on

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

I’m just a figment of your imagination

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So much anger not sure who to respond to first!! I mean the profiles that message you that have no pics and say my misses wants to fuck you but we can't show any pics "

That’s because it’s a guy perving pics and vids for he’s wank bank….easily spotted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you apply zero logic it makes senses

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

There's nothing about your profile that looks fake ?

I assume it's butthurt at not getting a reply but who knows. What does a fake profile look like?"

You can't work out what's fake ? When people aren't being honest or legit ? If you have meets how do you go about it ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m just a figment of your imagination

To be fair it's a happy place to think about!

PS - strong status this morning haha x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is another case of language, subjective assessment and interpretation, the typical miscommunication and misunderstanding leading to nothing.

Time wasters, bots, fantasist's, pic collector's, liars, only fans entrepreneurs.

Whatever they are, you will probably encounter them.

If you haven't the nose to sniff out the problems early doors.

That's on you.

Be better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So much anger not sure who to respond to first!! I mean the profiles that message you that have no pics and say my misses wants to fuck you but we can't show any pics

That’s because it’s a guy perving pics and vids for he’s wank bank….easily spotted

Hahaha

Haha

Fuck

I was doing so well

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

This was a rollercoaster of a thread

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"This was a rollercoaster of a thread

Aye it rolled along like all the other moaning threads about fakes! lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know."

I get accused of being fake a fair bit too

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"This was a rollercoaster of a thread

Aye it rolled along like all the other moaning threads about fakes! lol

You sound like you've got involved in a few ?

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By *arkandlovelyWoman over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

I get accused of being fake a fair bit too "

Does this also tend to happen after you haven't had the "decency" or "manners" to reply to the 72648264th "u ok wna fck bby" message of the day?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

I get accused of being fake a fair bit too

Does this also tend to happen after you haven't had the "decency" or "manners" to reply to the 72648264th "u ok wna fck bby" message of the day?"

Wait, they all messaged you too

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By *onestjohn1962Man over a year ago

Sheffield

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Thank goodness I thought it was just me that was thick!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rubbish!!

It's the odd idiot

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By *ames-77 OP Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

I get accused of being fake a fair bit too

Does this also tend to happen after you haven't had the "decency" or "manners" to reply to the 72648264th "u ok wna fck bby" message of the day?

Wait, they all messaged you too

Why would you get accused of being fake ? To both of you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Thank goodness I thought it was just me that was thick!!!"

I think it's a wind up of what a shitty bot might type.

I mean I hope.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"This was a rollercoaster of a thread

Aye it rolled along like all the other moaning threads about fakes! lol

You sound like you've got involved in a few ? "

only to point out that those of us who have been here many years get bored with them!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

Where do you take them?"

I dont thats the point, I dont meet thats why this Guy posted this thread,

Same with the others

Bullcrapping their livelihood

Pretty rubbish dont you agree?

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan over a year ago

All over the place

Sadly mate this is reflected in society as a whole.

I never meet until somebody is able to verify and always ask for a social first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

I genuinely didn't understand a word of this

Thank goodness I thought it was just me that was thick!!!"

Is that a Sauna Close-up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

Remind me again why you complained ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So still 20% real then. Woohoo! that should fill a Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is a "fake profile"? I'm fairly often accused of being one but never get an answer when I ask what it means.

Is it people touting for "business" elsewhere? Bots doing something botty? I'd love to know.

I get accused of being fake a fair bit too

Does this also tend to happen after you haven't had the "decency" or "manners" to reply to the 72648264th "u ok wna fck bby" message of the day?

Wait, they all messaged you too

Why would you get accused of being fake ? To both of you "

Because apparently I can’t be real. I have no idea why…

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By *asycouple1971Couple over a year ago

midlands

Most are fakes on fab. You cant call it out on your profile or updates though.

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By *eard and TattsCouple over a year ago

Cwmbran

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

Threaten to leave

That gets the ladies super wet

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan over a year ago

All over the place

"So still 20% real then. Woohoo! that should fill a Sunday. "

You can fill my Sunday if you like? Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Define *fake.

Winston

*someone who won't meet you isn't fake

Wowwwww"

You disagree?

Winston

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometime I think people feeding outside the website on purpose - bit of a coincidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

Which 20% of yours is real?

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By *rx1Couple over a year ago

North Devon-ish

But still totally agree, lots of people who aren't who they say they are...weirdos

spot on,well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely I'd say, everytime I got to a club,

99.9% said - its fake here

Normal hit first time in any website

But must say its evil being picked out/off by others, just for slight interest, or those watching.

The Op Editor probably being paid over too

Very boring

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

Firstly, yay, another single guy complaining about Fab because they don't get any.

Secondly, you have zero verifications on display.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

its no more or less risk to any other website or dating app that involves meeting other people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But still totally agree, lots of people who aren't who they say they are...weirdos

Exactly as above, makes it tough for newbies but socials & clubs are great ways to get verified

we also have an enormous block list from unsolicited friends invites (picture collectors!)

tbh its negative things like this that are shared publicly for everyone to see, really grates, and ill tell you why, there will be a high percentage of People that will read something like this ands instantly believe it to be facts, which means by reading this they have now got doubts in fab and probably wont come back to explore their sexual desires, kinks etc,

its like all the negative things people say about single men on here, just because a handful of people have given other members a bad experience, all of a sudden every single man is tarnished with the same brush, just because someone is single it doesn't mean they dont have sexual interests they want to explore I.e swinging,3sums etc etc.

so basically the hugely public negativity is effectively ruining somebody else's experience with broadening their interests.

what makes your frustration more important than someone elses fab experience ?

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By *evonshireboyMan over a year ago

North Devon

I reckon you're doing well to get any messages at all, even if they are pretending to be something they are not.

At least you can have some fun winding them up lol

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

But still totally agree, lots of people who aren't who they say they are...weirdos

Exactly as above, makes it tough for newbies but socials & clubs are great ways to get verified

we also have an enormous block list from unsolicited friends invites (picture collectors!)

so basically the hugely public negativity is effectively ruining somebody else's experience with broadening their interests.

what makes your frustration more important than someone elses fab experience ?"

What do you see as particularly negative about the post you quoted? Don't we all use filters of some sort? I know I do most of the above by ignoring unverified women and couples because of negative experiences and blocking people who send unsolicited friend requests. I also block people I've never engaged with because we have nothing in common and I don't want them showing in my local updates.

The verification trail is a great way to filter out others and avoid them because of the associated drama.

All of that leaves for a much more enjoyable experience and means I'm only tarnishing those that deserve it in my personal opinion.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

But still totally agree, lots of people who aren't who they say they are...weirdos

Exactly as above, makes it tough for newbies but socials & clubs are great ways to get verified

we also have an enormous block list from unsolicited friends invites (picture collectors!)

so basically the hugely public negativity is effectively ruining somebody else's experience with broadening their interests.

what makes your frustration more important than someone elses fab experience ?"

The 'all single men' tarnishing you claim doesn't exist. It's an urban myth that single men use to rationalise why they're unsuccessful on fab.

Nobody's behaviour affects tou and what you do on here doesn't affect anyone else.

People aren't dumb enough to think all men are the same, nor single women or couples. People are individuals.

The good stand out.

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By *ent in BlackMan over a year ago

Silsden

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

That’s a pretty accurate quote, how did you do the stats?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That explains why people won’t meet me, they’re not who they’re claiming to be.

It’s nothing to do with my face at all, the absolute liars.

Thanks for highlighting this OP.

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By *ent in BlackMan over a year ago

Silsden

"That explains why people won’t meet me, they’re not who they’re claiming to be.

It’s nothing to do with my face at all, the absolute liars.

Thanks for highlighting this OP.

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By *angerous123Man over a year ago

Leeds

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either "

Gibberish... trying to sound profound

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

Define *fake.

Winston

*someone who won't meet you isn't fake

Wowwwww"

Wow what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I use this is as short drop,

Most the stupid neighborhood hit this place 24/7 and are really unhealthy

They stop the Best Life Arriving & being supplied

Physical sight of what +25years Gay web scratting is disgusting

Things growing out of faces & nappies being wore in carpark food pickups

Or potential beatings for spying

Did I mention the payments??

Arousings

TBH I wouldn't bring anybody home At-All

No Apologies Either

Gibberish... trying to sound profound "

Maybe not there could be a subliminal meaning hidden in the text?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a Jungle tbh..there's all kinds here ... welcome to the Jungle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a Jungle tbh..there's all kinds here ... welcome to the Jungle

I just don’t get this hubris.

On the whole I find most folks to be very genuine?

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

People use all sorts of words and phrases to throw at a wall to see what sticks!!

In a way it’s actually a kop out because it’s blaming everything else and not looking in the mirror and saying “what can I do to make myself better “

It’s about processes…. If you keep finding fakes, the common denominator is you, change the process

The truth is so many people think with their genitalia to the point it takes over sensible processes…

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake . "

What does fake mean to you ?

If someone has a profile and uses it just to chat or wank it doesn't follow that they are fake.

People tend to call anyone that doesn't work according to their rules.... a fake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don't know what is legit anymore it's literally 80% fake .

What does fake mean to you ?

If someone has a profile and uses it just to chat or wank it doesn't follow that they are fake.

People tend to call anyone that doesn't work according to their rules.... a fake."

I'm a fake professional

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People use all sorts of words and phrases to throw at a wall to see what sticks!!

In a way it’s actually a kop out because it’s blaming everything else and not looking in the mirror and saying “what can I do to make myself better “

It’s about processes…. If you keep finding fakes, the common denominator is you, change the process

The truth is so many people think with their genitalia to the point it takes over sensible processes…

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By *thfloorCouple over a year ago

Hove

May be fair to say 80% of the people approaching the OP may well be "fake"/fantasists. Some couples are a wild goose chase, and not always easy to tell or find out without getting entangled in the conversation that reveals it.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

I wonder if the OP has any actual evidence?..

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By *ent in BlackMan over a year ago

Silsden

"I wonder if the OP has any actual evidence?.."

That’s what I thought too.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I wonder if the OP has any actual evidence?..

That’s what I thought too."

Probably not.. but it’s a easy thing to throw out!

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