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Sex with a friend (mate)
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By *ex4u4 OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her
Is it ok to play with him in this situation..
Or should we stay away
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"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her
Is it ok to play with him in this situation..
Or should we stay away
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You really have to ask?
Really ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wot they said ^ except don’t question him on his motives for being here - it’s his journey that led him to the site for whatever reasons he has, and he will have to live with any consequences arising from it without outside assistance!
But yeah. Steer clear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go for it. What could possibly go wrong……"
I'm with Nora.
Ignore that detractors.
This is going to be marvelous.
One request, please come back with regular updates.
Ta. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Well in theory it sounds exciting.
But, in reality, if she finds out she could wring his neck and blab about so called friends turning out to be swingers who enticed her hubby to sleep with them, to anybody who will listen.
That’s the sort of thing you read in The Sun!
So if you value discretion…..maybe just block him. |
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"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her
Is it ok to play with him in this situation..
Or should we stay away
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100% stay away. Nothing good can come of it. You'll be walking yourself into a whole load of agro. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well in theory it sounds exciting.
But, in reality, if she finds out she could wring his neck and blab about so called friends turning out to be swingers who enticed her hubby to sleep with them, to anybody who will listen.
That’s the sort of thing you read in The Sun!
So if you value discretion…..maybe just block him."
Yeah, this.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's pretty staggering that you've typed this out and still thought, a meet might be fun
Men. 
#notallmen
Wait that reads more like no tall men."
Yes. It does read like that.
*slenderman gif* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's pretty staggering that you've typed this out and still thought, a meet might be fun
Men.
#notallmen
Wait that reads more like no tall men.
Yes. It does read like that.
*slenderman gif* "
Well thats my next Halloween outfit sorted.
If I ever do a Halloween themed party.
I won't.
Nice suit though. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Ask his wife if it's OK.
She may say go for it.
Or she may be surprised, angry, gobsmacked at both him and you and decide to make everyone's life hell by publicising his and your activities at the pub, supermarket, school gates etc.
Maybe take a few moments to consider the potential consequences and then weigh up if a shag is really worth it..... 
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some mates you are if you'd fuck him behind his wife's back!"
Couldn’t agree more Sparkle…just the fact they are considering to fuck him but not telling the wife (that is supposed to be their friend too) gives me such cringe… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her
Is it ok to play with him in this situation..
Or should we stay away
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Are you friends with his wife? How do you know she doesn't know he's on here?
Do your other friends etc know that you are on a Swingers site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imagine getting asked to go round for Christmas dinner, how's your Christmas been then? Well I've been cheating on my wife if with her best friends I'm sure that would go down very well at the table |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
Have you already spoken to him about this at all, is he aware you are on the site or have you just seen that he is on here and not let him know who you are yet? Certainly the risks of everything blowing up if you peruse this are very high, maybe talk to him about the ideas of ethical non manogamy although presumably he feels it’s not something he could ever talk to his wife about, or maybe she does know and is ok with him doing this sort of thing but doesn’t want that to be common knowledge. |
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"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her
Is it ok to play with him in this situation..
Or should we stay away
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you know the answer to that so why you asking?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her
Is it ok to play with him in this situation..
Or should we stay away
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Your adults and if you want to explore it then you should
Don't place any pressure and see if they are even interested in playing
I will probably get some flack on this but ah well |
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"Just wondered what the thoughts of the group are, so we have now found a fabber on here who is also a mate in the vanilla world and didnt know he was on here, is married and his wife doesnt know he is on here...we know her
Is it ok to play with him in this situation..
Or should we stay away
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How would it be if you approached him and he doesn't want to play with you guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As convenient as it would be
For friends or very local
It’s just a big no no
Fab and real world do not mix that’s how things get messy
The amount off people that don’t understand this concept is astounding to say the least |
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