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This site isn’t what it used to be
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"In what sense?
I don’t think it’s changed
It just seems to have dropped off a little.I’ve so many people are rude this time round! "
The site goes in waves of activity and it always has. It was quiet last month but this month is 
I don’t find people are rude but then I am not being harassed by single guys the whole time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Care to elaborate on this?"
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "
How does that make them rude? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what sense?
I don’t think it’s changed
It just seems to have dropped off a little.I’ve so many people are rude this time round! "
What is it they do that’s rude? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "
theres a diffrrence with talking to someone and meeting them if you didnt do a good enough job seducing them thats on you not the site really |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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How would we expect the forums to stay the same when the world around us is changing, rather rapidly, at the moment?
Forums are a reflection of society and therefore, undergo change, good and bad.
And yes, sometimes it is just a bit of luck whether a thread becomes a bit aggressive or turns out to leave me with a real good feeling about people.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet
How does that make them rude?"
It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet |
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"How would we expect the forums to stay the same when the world around us is changing, rather rapidly, at the moment?
Forums are a reflection of society and therefore, undergo change, good and bad.
And yes, sometimes it is just a bit of luck whether a thread becomes a bit aggressive or turns out to leave me with a real good feeling about people.
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Literally my favourite person, proving why again |
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"How would we expect the forums to stay the same when the world around us is changing, rather rapidly, at the moment?
Forums are a reflection of society and therefore, undergo change, good and bad.
And yes, sometimes it is just a bit of luck whether a thread becomes a bit aggressive or turns out to leave me with a real good feeling about people.
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Yes well said that lady  |
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"Pretty much the same as it was a decade ago...only less sky remote and cock pictures
Haha! They do seem to
Have disappeared
See there is a god looking after us after all!!!!!  "
And of course a can of lynx cock shot too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on and off since around 2008. The more things change the more they stay the same. The site is not any different, how some people use it may well have. It's the people that make it good/bad/ugly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not. Have been on and off the site for years and had some good meets with all sorts. But very few these days.
A lot of my old friends seem to have vanished.
Covid to blame maybe? |
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Maybe its an age thing, but ten years ago the chatrooms were good for pulling when actually used for directing. You didnt need anything esle. I once got fixed up for 8 f78ucks in one week...they all turned up.! !!!! although one actually changed his mind ( quite rife in those days) and one couldn't cum but charmingly .allowed me to explore his delightful little flower bud with considerable gusto. Putting on a live show these days can go down a little drearily. you are luckky to get two ot three wanking and no negative comments.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet
How does that make them rude?
It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet "
If they don’t want to meet that is perfectly cool.. if you don’t float there boats there has never been an obligation to go any further…. That last statement almost sounded like a sense of entitlement and that you are owed just for being here!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet
How does that make them rude?
It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet
If they don’t want to meet that is perfectly cool.. if you don’t float there boats there has never been an obligation to go any further…. That last statement almost sounded like a sense of entitlement and that you are owed just for being here!! "
Not at all. We can be talking for weeks and agree to arrange a meet then nothing happens! It’s frustrating. I get people have different tastes and wants and I totally respect that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I havent been on the site for along time. Nothing has changed apart from not knowing anyone on the forums"
Your profile is hidden. Where are you from? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet
How does that make them rude?
It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet
If they don’t want to meet that is perfectly cool.. if you don’t float there boats there has never been an obligation to go any further…. That last statement almost sounded like a sense of entitlement and that you are owed just for being here!!
Not at all. We can be talking for weeks and agree to arrange a meet then nothing happens! It’s frustrating. I get people have different tastes and wants and I totally respect that "
….. but yet you are complaining because they are not going at a speed you want to go…. Or maybe you said something that turned the “yes I maybe want to meet “ into a “nope, not happening!”
That respect doesn’t sound like you are respecting their decisions at the moment! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet
How does that make them rude?
It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet
If they don’t want to meet that is perfectly cool.. if you don’t float there boats there has never been an obligation to go any further…. That last statement almost sounded like a sense of entitlement and that you are owed just for being here!! "
why do you use that overused word ' entitlement' it's not applicable when like the guy says he's been chatting to them for ages, an expectation would be more appropriate  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet
How does that make them rude?
It doesn’t…. I’ve found a few rude people. Others that message then don’t want to meet
If they don’t want to meet that is perfectly cool.. if you don’t float there boats there has never been an obligation to go any further…. That last statement almost sounded like a sense of entitlement and that you are owed just for being here!! why do you use that overused word ' entitlement' it's not applicable when like the guy says he's been chatting to them for ages, an expectation would be more appropriate "
Why?…… if someone is a yes then a no do I owe them an explanation as to why? Is that going to change someone’s mind?
I have spoken to people and then they have something that for me was an instant turn off…
Maybe a change of mindset is what a lot of people need here! Go into everything thinking that it’s a no until told otherwise, it would save a lot of the angst some people seem to have |
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"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "
They won't meet others who aren't mutually compatible, which most of us are not.
If you're picking an increasing proportion of incompatible people this time, compared to earlier Fab use, then you may need to improve your tactics.
Otherwise, you may not be as in demand as in the past, for whatever reasons, including greater competition. |
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"Care to elaborate on this?
It may be my personal experience but I’ve found a few rude people. Others will message for a while but never want to actually meet "
The trouble is men outnumber cpls and women 10/1 on here. Most join here thinking it will be pussy on tap but that is not the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone agree?"
Same old for the past 10 years.
Its what you make it. Ive had great times ive had quiet times came back several times.
Hope you find what your looking for!
Dont worry be Happy
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