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Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general.  |
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over a year ago
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"Some men don’t do oral?
They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)
In all my years on here I’ve never heard one say that. "
I can't imagine theres many men who wouldnt on fab to be fair. But in general day to day life I know guys that don't. It may be because they aren't getting it back, who knows? |
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"Some men don’t do oral?
They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)
In all my years on here I’ve never heard one say that. "
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"Some men don’t do oral?
They genuinely don't. So I've heard. It's not me I promise (runs away)
In all my years on here I’ve never heard one say that.
I only do it with you because you’re my special one "
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self"
We had a few disrespectful guys but we also met on out first time to chams a load of tidy guys to. Its a shame the dickheads mess it up for the good ones on here. Not all are bad guys. |
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"I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general. "
Oh it's totally worth it when it does work out though. And it's simple really, message, if no response or no thanks, move on. But yeah can't take it too seriously on here, it's just nice bonding with fellow kinksterss |
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"I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general.
Oh it's totally worth it when it does work out though. And it's simple really, message, if no response or no thanks, move on. But yeah can't take it too seriously on here, it's just nice bonding with fellow kinksterss"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some men don’t do oral?
Probably not worth reading too much into it.
Or reading at all.
Hard as it was.
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Fancy a slice?
Someone's missing theirs over here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know why men persevere on here, they routinely get slated for doing things were all guilty of at times. Yes there are some bawbags but that's life in general.
Oh it's totally worth it when it does work out though. And it's simple really, message, if no response or no thanks, move on. But yeah can't take it too seriously on here, it's just nice bonding with fellow kinksterss
Exactly "
I'm glad we agree! So when are where shall we meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self"
That all works both ways.
And men are not sex workers either, they are not here just to satisfy women and couples.
They are human beings with feelings.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
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Do homework? …. that sounds like school. I’m not in school. 
. Don’t wrap us up in the same bunch. Cos I could say ‘some women wouldn’t know how to chat up a guy on here if their life depended it on it. (Notice I said ‘some’ but it sounds like I’m saying it about every women)
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I really don't receive a treasure trove of shite messages that the majority of women who start this sort of thread seem to. At worst I might get someone telling me they want to breed my *insert a guess at my heritage* pussy but that's about it.
I think the men who are going to send you those type of free sex worker messages are unlikely to be reading the fora so really you're just pissing in the wind. |
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"Some men don’t do oral?
My favourite type of man
Mine too 
But what about all those poor guys whose sole claim is that they 'can lick for hours'? Must their tongues cramp in vain?"
Yes… they are going to have to wait for a cold day in hell with me |
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"I really don't receive a treasure trove of shite messages that the majority of women who start this sort of thread seem to. At worst I might get someone telling me they want to breed my *insert a guess at my heritage* pussy but that's about it.
I think the men who are going to send you those type of free sex worker messages are unlikely to be reading the fora so really you're just pissing in the wind. "
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self"
Has someone been at the cooking sherry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self"
Believe it or not some guys know a lot of that already , whatever a person does or is into is their own business, as you say if a person isn't into Oral and a person is well don't message that person . |
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"Some men don’t do oral?
My favourite type of man
Mine too
But what about all those poor guys whose sole claim is that they 'can lick for hours'? Must their tongues cramp in vain?
Yes… they are going to have to wait for a cold day in hell with me "
Licking on a cold day is inadvisable, too,in case their tongue sticks.
Some chaps just can't catch a break. |
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The homework rule applies equally across the board. Some women and couples are reading a different guidebook and send messages to the cock rather than the man attached to it.
What they do or don't do sexually isn't an issue but stop expecting everyone else to do the work for you. Make an effort or move along.
Treat men as actual human beings without being patronising and you may be surprised at the results. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i had the free time and will to be shagging all the time it wouldnt be hard we dont have it as hard as a lot make out
Its as hard as you want it to be plus many women have it just as hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, very informative, thank you for your valued contribution to this emerging research area, yes."
Let swinging come to you, if there's one thing to always, always remember, it's that |
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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago
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It’s a site where people have sex with others. Just be fit and physically attractive and the rest will take care of itself. If you’re having to put tons of effort into getting a simple reply then chances are you’re probably too ugly to be on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Follow the green arrow.
I dare ya.
Motherflipper.
Also, shocked that OP claims to be a woman!"
Yeeeeees.
Yeeeeeeeeees.
Welcome to the darkness.
Have a match? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Follow the green arrow.
I dare ya.
One of several prolific posters of mind numbing threads! "
Now now, you keep being all subtle like that people might get the wrong idea.
Say how you really feel. |
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self"
This, all day.
It's a means to an end, I use this site to browse the forums, do a spot of perving, but occasionally I find a polished diamond. I message if I think that person may be someone who could attend the same clubs, or if they just said or did something I really like - like random acts of kindness - or if their pictures really hit the spot, give recognition. It's highly unlikely I going to drive to Land's End or Scotland to meet someone so if I message and you are there, just accept the compliment and maybe a nice word back again. Anyone that I do meet in a club, either from here or I find here afterwards, will be a good chat first. Make a connection. |
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self"
Many people don't understand what swinging is. Even Swingers can't agree what it is.
They probably have no luck from nice messages so try sending sex stuff. Because the site is full of sex pics and sex menus... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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There's a very simple solution to your problem OP if you find the quality of messages you get upset you so much. Use your filters and block men from messaging you then put in practice what you say,and send a message to them using exactly the methods you want them to use. Simple and to be fair for women,usually effective as we usually get replies to first messages we send.
I don't get too many crap messages on here especially as my filters are already pretty tight. And the few I do get that don't appeal I just delete and don't give them another thought. I find most are okay messages and I can see why men don't make massive efforts in first messages as lots do get deleted or just sitting there unread. I'm sure it can be very disheartening when it happens a lot of the time.
And also I've had some awful messages off women and couples on here so it's not just men who are capable of sending crap messages or not reading profiles. |
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"Would help if they did their home work on the person they are messaging
Two some assume and folk shouldn't not every one on here is a swinger
Three this isn't a free for all some think it is
Cos your taking to someone don't mean it will lead to sex
This id swinging we not sex workers this isn't porn
And you cant assume folk are into everything there are even women who don't give blow jobs and some men don't do oral either
Swinging is best when it finds its self"
I hope this isn't aimed at all men OP it would be pretty offensive to the ones (like myself ) that are not like the ones you have experienced |
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