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The "HI" message
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A number of women have over the years. I just reply hi back .. not playing that “one-sided convo” game that a lot of ladies seem to think they can get away with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone messages me "hi" I always message back "ho!" And hope they come back with the next line. Happened once lolsilver lining or its off to work we go  "
Yes that man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always do the “Ho” thing straight back.
Usually a profile with a shadow avatar, “will fill in later” and 2 or 3 crappy cock pictures.
Fuckwits of the highest order. |
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By *hiversMan
over a year ago
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"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”! "
I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'
I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those  |
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First time Hi messages are 9/10 deleted and blocked. Even though we are a couple a bit of thought would be nice. If we message someone new it’s at least a full sentence. We rarely look at the profile of anyone who does it and def not if they don’t have a profile pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My initial messages are always short though maybe not that short. Hate writing 4 or 5 lines to get no reply or blocked "
 No point spending time writing long messages when most women and couples don't reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”!
I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'
I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just "hi", there are people who manage to send messages that don't actually say anything, trying to make you take things further. (I don't rise to the bait...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not just "hi", there are people who manage to send messages that don't actually say anything, trying to make you take things further. (I don't rise to the bait...)"
If they don't say anything they are probably not interested. It's not sex bait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not just "hi", there are people who manage to send messages that don't actually say anything, trying to make you take things further. (I don't rise to the bait...)
If they don't say anything they are probably not interested. It's not sex bait. "
Could be - but they are the ones who started the conversation! |
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"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”!
I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'
I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those "
I was coming on to say since I last posted I’ve had literally just
“…” in a message!
I wouldn’t even bother trying to open such a lazy message. Considering where we are if they’re too lazy to type they’re not gonna make nearly enough effort in a fuck! |
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By *hiversMan
over a year ago
Dinas Powys |
"Instant delete for me. I’ve had slightly worse - one letter “H”!
I've had worse, a few where the subject line is just a '.'
I fab on my phone and its a bloody nightmare trying to open those
I was coming on to say since I last posted I’ve had literally just
“…” in a message!
I wouldn’t even bother trying to open such a lazy message. Considering where we are if they’re too lazy to type they’re not gonna make nearly enough effort in a fuck! "
That is true... theyve never been worth the effort when I have finally opened them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope I put effort in to everything I do but I can totally understand why people get them and can totally understand why people send them
The whole what effort you put in you get out is totally bs
As when people do put effort on it’s not respcated one bit
And watch as this post has proven a point say something controversial everyone jumps at you
Be nice respectfully and get blanked funny how that work
Funny when what you post and preach people don’t show it back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope I put effort in to everything I do but I can totally understand why people get them and can totally understand why people send them
The whole what effort you put in you get out is totally bs
As when people do put effort on it’s not respcated one bit
And watch as this post has proven a point say something controversial everyone jumps at you
Be nice respectfully and get blanked funny how that work
Funny when what you post and preach people don’t show it back "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope I put effort in to everything I do but I can totally understand why people get them and can totally understand why people send them
The whole what effort you put in you get out is totally bs
As when people do put effort on it’s not respcated one bit
And watch as this post has proven a point say something controversial everyone jumps at you
Be nice respectfully and get blanked funny how that work
Funny when what you post and preach people don’t show it back
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It’s the truth I am on a bs calling out day and this is one off I have been running tests for months on months
Started as a little experiment to see something and my test data is very accurate as it’s been data take over a very long sample time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bit of a talker. Love long conversations and I'm attracted to men who like to talk a lot so people who just message 'Hi' aren't going to be compatible with me.
P.S.
I wonder if theres a word for people who are attracted to people who talk loads. Like there are some people attracted to brainy people and they're a certain thing, or people only attracted to people they know and have an emotional connection, they get a label.
I wonder what attracted to chatty people is... I'm talksexual perhaps? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm never sure what to write in these messages, small talk is inherently difficult for me. Once we have a topic, then I can chat however we may get as far a 3rd message before I get ghosted  |
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"I'm never sure what to write in these messages, small talk is inherently difficult for me. Once we have a topic, then I can chat however we may get as far a 3rd message before I get ghosted "
I always find gaging people’s opinions on the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre a good topic of conversation…
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm never sure what to write in these messages, small talk is inherently difficult for me. Once we have a topic, then I can chat however we may get as far a 3rd message before I get ghosted
I always find gaging people’s opinions on the pedestrianisation of Norwich city centre a good topic of conversation…
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Do you know the puppet man?
Back to main topic I truly believe the messages don't really matter too much and that people will reply no matter if they find the person who's messaged a shexy beast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer hiya...takes a little more time...but it shows that I can afford to spend a bit more time composing the message 
...or mix it up and use a 'hey up' "
Or when feeling really seductive a Matthew Mcconaughey 'alright alright alright...' |
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