"Is one just an excuse to not feel bad about the other? "
This is the social conditioning of centuries of government, religion and media tell you it is wrong to be sexually free.
Break free, be free. Ignore what you have been told. It has been designed to kept the commoner down. To be 2 point 4, Generate childern. Generate work force. Grow wealth in country for the rich...
Screw the system. Screw each other instead and fucking well enjoy it... |
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"Is one just an excuse to not feel bad about the other? "
Good morning .
Depends .
If you are hiding and lying and cheating you welcome to feel as bad ,as guilty , as u like .
If All cards on the table , no issues , whatever it is , if is open , there’s nothing wrong about any of it .
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"Is one just an excuse to not feel bad about the other?
Good morning .
Depends .
If you are hiding and lying and cheating you welcome to feel as bad ,as guilty , as u like .
If All cards on the table , no issues , whatever it is , if is open , there’s nothing wrong about any of it .
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Exactly, and if something makes one feel bad, well, don't do it then. We all make our choices |
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"Is one just an excuse to not feel bad about the other?
Good morning .
Depends .
If you are hiding and lying and cheating you welcome to feel as bad ,as guilty , as u like .
If All cards on the table , no issues , whatever it is , if is open , there’s nothing wrong about any of it .
Exactly, and if something makes one feel bad, well, don't do it then. We all make our choices "
But alcohol makes me feel bad the next day. Should I stop  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is one just an excuse to not feel bad about the other?
Good morning .
Depends .
If you are hiding and lying and cheating you welcome to feel as bad ,as guilty , as u like .
If All cards on the table , no issues , whatever it is , if is open , there’s nothing wrong about any of it .
Exactly, and if something makes one feel bad, well, don't do it then. We all make our choices
But alcohol makes me feel bad the next day. Should I stop "
Your choice |
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By *lackroses85Woman
over a year ago
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Swinging for me is about connection, chemistry, socialising and being open about sex.
If I was just going to sleep around I would go out and pick the hottest guy I could find each wee and have a quicky behind the pub x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sleeping around is a negative way to frame things.
There isn't a definite line between sexually liberal lifestyles like swinging or non-monogamy, and socially frowned upon acts like promiscuity and cheating.
A couple could meet someone at a club, get on with them, have sex, and then realise down the line the person was cheating on a partner. Not on the couple at all but the connection between swinging and cheating is there.
Two people, both in loveless marriages could meet at a club and fall into each others arms with a shared sense of freedom. Again, there's the connection between the lifestyle and the bit that's frowned upon.
Promiscuity though - that's nothing to be frowned upon. Some folk have high sex drives or even addiction issues. Better than they're part of supported safe community that you can find on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being a swinger is a state of mind. A relaxed & open attitude towards sex. Sharing that with like minded people…"
How is this different to sleeping around? Like minded people find like minded people to fuck? |
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