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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way "
Is that like having a second-hand face...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always happy to play with a young cute guy as long as their not full of themselves! We may be older but claims of I know what I'm doing will be laughed at or I can be your daddy!!  "
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As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit.
If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list.
I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not |
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Is that like having a second-hand face... "
Like a clock face... Second-hand, minute-hand and hours-hand... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"define older? lol"
For me its 50+ but technically that's younger than me
As my age increases its no longer older, but around the same age.
Time stands still for no man. |
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"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit.
If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list.
I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not "
This is totally true, but I suck it up because they’re young and excited  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit.
If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list.
I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not "
I find the selection criteria a bit offputting. You phrased it really well!  |
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"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit.
If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list.
I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not
This is totally true, but I suck it up because they’re young and excited "
I’ll meet people younger than me, but if they approach me talking about my age then it’s a no from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a nice sentiment OP but maybe re-think the execution of your approach and the words you use and how they can be construed. A lived in body can be seen as a negative thing and I don't think I would find it very nice if anyone described my body in that way. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont "
To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody.
I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. |
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By *ougal2Man
over a year ago
Sunderland |
"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life
Here we go again! 
Agreed - being "chosen" for age and "lived in" are such a great way of selecting, isn't it? "
I find women older than myself very attractive but I think that's partly down to their attitude and sense of humour rather than anything physical necessarily. Just easier to get on with and more fun, I've found. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If face palmed myself too many times with these "granny fanny/vintage vag" posts today.
"I'm well into sex with a sexagenarian but all my photos are hidden"
Whys that then? don't want the lads to know you're boning the crypt keeper. |
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont
To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody.
I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. "
Same here. The lady thing I’m looking for it anyone in need of sexual instruction. I want someone who’s lived a bit and knows their way around a body. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont
To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody.
I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection.
Same here. The lady thing I’m looking for it anyone in need of sexual instruction. I want someone who’s lived a bit and knows their way around a body. "
that's me then I have a badge for it  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont
To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody.
I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection.
Same here. The lady thing I’m looking for it anyone in need of sexual instruction. I want someone who’s lived a bit and knows their way around a body. "
Could not have put it better myself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont
To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody.
I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. "
open n close Brackets . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A real body with curves and marks a body that has lived life
Here we go again! "
Careful, you’re not allowed your own opinion or to call things out, or you’ll get all sorts of accusations |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I find ladies older than me attractive because they tend to be more experienced and have a charm which generally my age dont
To me as an older, more mature woman this is quite offputting as well. I don't want to pass on experience... teach anybody.
I want good sex with somebody with whom I have a genuine connection. open n close Brackets . "
Said in a Scottish accent? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, Yes correct it’s just you
Not a single man here other that you likes older women. As evidence I bet your inbox is full of offers of sex from all those desperate older women now. "
That is hysterical! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way "
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way |
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way "
don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way "
In fairness to you, OP, I can see you meant no offense or harm.
It is just that most women do not want to be fetishised by their age, colour, race, accent etc.
We are people and want to be treated as that. We come as a package with different attributes and want to be celebrated as a whole female human being.
Does that make sense? (I am not being patronising, I am genuinely trying to explain where so many guys go wrong when they post this.) |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently "
You know it has nothing to do with being liberal (I am pretty liberal in most regards) but more with the issue of being fetishised.
Now I can understand that some guys do not understand that and that is cool.
It suffices if a guy understands that most women do not like it, find it offputting. You dont always need to understand why you are irritating or upsetting somebody, just realise that you do in order to avoid it? |
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"If face palmed myself too many times with these "granny fanny/vintage vag" posts today.
"I'm well into sex with a sexagenarian but all my photos are hidden"
Whys that then? don't want the lads to know you're boning the crypt keeper. "
Vintage vag
I'm so stealing that one |
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way "
You have to think VERY VERY carefully how you word things on here! |
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently
You know it has nothing to do with being liberal (I am pretty liberal in most regards) but more with the issue of being fetishised.
Now I can understand that some guys do not understand that and that is cool.
It suffices if a guy understands that most women do not like it, find it offputting. You dont always need to understand why you are irritating or upsetting somebody, just realise that you do in order to avoid it? "
in regards to the OP it looks like he’s fairly new to fab and the forums he’s even admitted to how he worded his original post I’m glad a few have gave him some pointers |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way don’t worry mate fab is full of laid back open minded liberal thinking people apparently
You know it has nothing to do with being liberal (I am pretty liberal in most regards) but more with the issue of being fetishised.
Now I can understand that some guys do not understand that and that is cool.
It suffices if a guy understands that most women do not like it, find it offputting. You dont always need to understand why you are irritating or upsetting somebody, just realise that you do in order to avoid it? in regards to the OP it looks like he’s fairly new to fab and the forums he’s even admitted to how he worded his original post I’m glad a few have gave him some pointers "
Absolutely agree - and we all could (I include myself here) probably do with remembering at times that opening posts are usually not intended to cause offense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to keep things balanced if any younger women out there want to start a discussion about older men with lived in bodies, I'm completely okay with being fetishised.
Totally okay with it |
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way "
I’m not offended. I understand that people like all kinds of things. My post was just a hint that you sometimes have to careful with how you word stuff. If a younger guy messages me and tells me he thinks I’m hot; great. If he messages me and tells me he loves old mature women with bodies like mine I won’t like it and I won’t want to meet him. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way
Ok I’m no words smith. I can definitely see how this I mis interpreted due to my lack of ability to word things. This was a genuine post to celebrate mature ladies did not mean to offend anyone. I do apologise if it’s been taken the wrong way
I’m not offended. I understand that people like all kinds of things. My post was just a hint that you sometimes have to careful with how you word stuff. If a younger guy messages me and tells me he thinks I’m hot; great. If he messages me and tells me he loves old mature women with bodies like mine I won’t like it and I won’t want to meet him. "
That is a clear way of explaining |
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I remember a post a few years ago from a very genuine young man who started a similar thread. He said that he loved older women because their sagging breasts and crepey, wrinkled skin, greying hair and looser bodies were very attractive to him. He wasn’t being derogatory at all. But the thread turned a bit unpleasant with lots of older women being very upset and defensive.
The Op was in his early 20’s and his naivety re dealing with women was apparent
So at least this isn’t that bad OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As I’ve entered my 40’s I’ve started to get messages from younger guys referencing my maturity and advancing years. I don’t enjoy those messages, I’ll admit.
If anyone ever mentioned me having a lived in body they’d find themselves swiftly on my block list.
I think those who seek out older women forget that said older women don’t necessarily want it pointing out that the thing you find attractive is often something we don’t want discussed. You may be excited by bits that sag and stretch marks, but we’re probably not "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just be who finds an older mature lady with a lived in body more attractive, and the fact they know what they are doing order all the way "
Quite a lot of them go gym most young girls don’t exercise and live off takeaway mature women have more social experience making them more attractive during conversation just my take from personal experience |
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