Yes swinging is about people
Most people look like People
A good half on here looking like your mother and father
The old term dolly Birds are few and far between
Some join thing swinging is a free for all which its not
Swinging isn't porn is about people
For me its about the person first
So why have some got the wrong idea of what swinging is about?
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over a year ago
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"Yes swinging is about people
Most people look like People
A good half on here looking like your mother and father
The old term dolly Birds are few and far between
Some join thing swinging is a free for all which its not
Swinging isn't porn is about people
For me its about the person first
So why have some got the wrong idea of what swinging is about?
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Some people just want sex and nothing else. Some want friendship and sex.
Those types of people just aren't compatible. Neither are wrong.  |
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"Maybe for some it’s not about the person first and it’s about the sex first. Have they got it wrong? Must admit I’m not sure of the swinging rules  "
First rule is cos you are talking to someone dont mean for sure sex is going to happen
No one should ever assume its going to it just find its self
not every one in the swinging swings some are just living their life style in place where can be their selfs |
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When I first joined here, I assumed it was the blanket description of couples having extra marital sexual enrichment.
But it's so much more, the variety of people on here is immense and their different wants and needs, do not all fit under the swinger umbrella |
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"When I first joined here, I assumed it was the blanket description of couples having extra marital sexual enrichment.
But it's so much more, the variety of people on here is immense and their different wants and needs, do not all fit under the swinger umbrella"
This person got it dead on you can never assume |
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I think it is about the sex _and_ it is about the people. I love to meet for one offs - the thrill of anonymous sex is great but sex does better over time as you get to know a person or couple. You can explore different things. What you might hate with one person you will absolutely love with another and vice versa.
The rich tapestry of life is what make fab so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a "swingle". I use clubs to meet, socialise and play with couples and I use this site to find what I cannot find in everyday day life. I agree its not a free for all but I use what ever resources are available when I need them. There is not a swingers "one stop shop" you have to explore and try different things on offer. |
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I keep getting told it’s a sex site.
I joined because I was getting fed up of the Fetish Club scene. So I thought I’d see what other clubs I could attend whilst dressed.
The site itself isn’t something I rely on for meetings but it has happened in the past. But I mainly use it for the club listing and making new friends. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
It’s whatever YOU make it, for YOU, it doesn’t matter the slightest what others believe it is.
Stop complaining.
If you don’t like the messages you get , switch them off. If you don’t like the forum posts , don’t click the big button that’s says Forums. If you don’t like OF , don’t click on hot photos  |
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"Yes swinging is about people
Most people look like People
A good half on here looking like your mother and father
The old term dolly Birds are few and far between
Some join thing swinging is a free for all which its not
Swinging isn't porn is about people
For me its about the person first
So why have some got the wrong idea of what swinging is about?
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they watched a ch5 documentary and think swinging is full of people who are here to fuck anyone that asks…if they did a proper documentary where people go into forums to discuss current events / seek help from other users on anything from legal to car problems/ and generally have a form of community which has nothing to do with sex - it would be accurate and incredibly dull viewing I guess xx |
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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago
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The way I look at it is,Us swingers have evolved we have taped into something that the ‘normals’ haven’t and they can and will never understand unless they venture out of there square box.But they still judge us. |
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