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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?
Sex, and a daughter  
A good consequence I hope."
Of course  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"i went to the adult cinema with a guy for a dirty afternoon and ended up meeting the love of my life"
There's a story in there somewhere. What a consequence - I usually just find popcorn in my bra. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Fell in love with a cheating rat...
Now have no intention of ever using the L word ever again"
That doesn't have to be the consequence. I'm sure not all of them will be cheating rats (just don't meet any of the ones I fell in love with). |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?"
I have been pondering about this since the awful events surround the nurse who took her own life.
I have also been thinking about the degree of culpability...the personal consequences to me if I were in that or a similar situation and tbh I dont know.
Sorry I have not answered your question... not yet anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nuffin - nothing like that happens to me at all ............... stands there with hands behind back whistling .....   
Good things cum to those who wait...."
I think u might have missed the tongue in the cheek look here lol   |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Nuffin - nothing like that happens to me at all ............... stands there with hands behind back whistling ..... "
Changing a lightbulb as a way to get some dishy blokes through your day was a wholly intended consequence, was it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nuffin - nothing like that happens to me at all ............... stands there with hands behind back whistling .....
Good things cum to those who wait....
I think u might have missed the tongue in the cheek look here lol "
How can you say that minxie, without a cheeky grin on your face |
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"Nuffin - nothing like that happens to me at all ............... stands there with hands behind back whistling .....
Good things cum to those who wait....
I think u might have missed the tongue in the cheek look here lol "
Deliberately saucy!!! |
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When i was 24 i was stood on a train platform, i had three things i could do, go to ireland with my friend, move to london with a guy, or be with my ex husband. I choice my ex husband and found out latr that i was already pregnant by him whilst i made the decision |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Married the ex husband had two daughters (best thing to ever happen) best outcome was definatley the divorce lol
You couldn't have had the divorce without the marriage."
Good point well presented  best escape of my life |
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?"
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Met a guy on a site similar to this, discoverd he was the love of my life (good consequence) but also a lying cheating scumbag (not so good consequence) and took me 5 years to find out (defo not good consquence) 1 year on I'm back on my feet (great consequence) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nuffin - nothing like that happens to me at all ............... stands there with hands behind back whistling .....
Good things cum to those who wait....
I think u might have missed the tongue in the cheek look here lol
How can you say that minxie, without a cheeky grin on your face "
does it count if the fingers are crossed ???? lol |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?#
Met a guy on a site similar to this, discoverd he was the love of my life (good consequence) but also a lying cheating scumbag (not so good consequence) and took me 5 years to find out (defo not good consquence) 1 year on I'm back on my feet (great consequence)"
Being back on your feet and stronger than ever is a very good consequence. Enjoy yourself, it's later than you think... |
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?#
Met a guy on a site similar to this, discoverd he was the love of my life (good consequence) but also a lying cheating scumbag (not so good consequence) and took me 5 years to find out (defo not good consquence) 1 year on I'm back on my feet (great consequence)
Being back on your feet and stronger than ever is a very good consequence. Enjoy yourself, it's later than you think..."
But NEVER too late.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Many moons ago I was unemployed and I turned down a day's work labouring for my uncle on a building site because I thought it was beneath me. Had I gone to work for him that day I would have missed the phone call that led to a very good job in telecoms (this was before mobile phones). |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Many moons ago I was unemployed and I turned down a day's work labouring for my uncle on a building site because I thought it was beneath me. Had I gone to work for him that day I would have missed the phone call that led to a very good job in telecoms (this was before mobile phones)."
What would you say to the young person turning down a days work now? A good consequence for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Went to meet my best mate int uni bar but she got weylayed by a lecturer and my ex's date did not turn up either .......... 
I think I may be missing a bit here...   "
Lol - we got wed later ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?"
I would like to answer, and saw this earlier...so much I could say, but I never like to look back..past is the past and should stay so. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?
I would like to answer, and saw this earlier...so much I could say, but I never like to look back..past is the past and should stay so."
So, no anniversary celebrations for you? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I found Fabswingers on a google search...the rest as they say is history.
What were you searching for?
I saw something on the regional news that eventually led to me being here."
i typed in swingers...joined Fab...had my first meet next day....i was shocked it was so easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found Fabswingers on a google search...the rest as they say is history.
What were you searching for?
I saw something on the regional news that eventually led to me being here.i typed in swingers...joined Fab...had my first meet next day....i was shocked it was so easy."
or U were so easy
runnnnns fast! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I found Fabswingers on a google search...the rest as they say is history.
What were you searching for?
I saw something on the regional news that eventually led to me being here.i typed in swingers...joined Fab...had my first meet next day....i was shocked it was so easy.
or U were so easy
runnnnns fast!"
naaaaaaaaaaaa just gagging for it! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I found Fabswingers on a google search...the rest as they say is history.
What were you searching for?
I saw something on the regional news that eventually led to me being here.i typed in swingers...joined Fab...had my first meet next day....i was shocked it was so easy."
I wouldn't have known to look for that. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I found Fabswingers on a google search...the rest as they say is history.
What were you searching for?
I saw something on the regional news that eventually led to me being here.i typed in swingers...joined Fab...had my first meet next day....i was shocked it was so easy.
I wouldn't have known to look for that."
I had been curious for a while, dipped my toe eventually, not looked back since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?
I would like to answer, and saw this earlier...so much I could say, but I never like to look back..past is the past and should stay so.
So, no anniversary celebrations for you?"
I think possibly why I am more deep and meaningful at this time of year now, an anniversary of not a happy time and one I still can think not answering my phone had an unintended consequence.
However I am not one to talk openly I suppose.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?
I would like to answer, and saw this earlier...so much I could say, but I never like to look back..past is the past and should stay so.
So, no anniversary celebrations for you?
I think possibly why I am more deep and meaningful at this time of year now, an anniversary of not a happy time and one I still can think not answering my phone had an unintended consequence.
However I am not one to talk openly I suppose.
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Reflection is natural and whilst we may not want to dwell on the past it shapes us. I'm sending a virtual hug. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?
I would like to answer, and saw this earlier...so much I could say, but I never like to look back..past is the past and should stay so.
So, no anniversary celebrations for you?
I think possibly why I am more deep and meaningful at this time of year now, an anniversary of not a happy time and one I still can think not answering my phone had an unintended consequence.
However I am not one to talk openly I suppose.
Reflection is natural and whilst we may not want to dwell on the past it shapes us. I'm sending a virtual hug."
Yes indeed and makes us a stronger person I believe, and thank you. xx |
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I Went on a girls holiday whilst getting over an ex, met my husband. Got married within 18 months.
Within 6 weeks of getting married I was covered in bruises with a host of broken bones.
So....I trusted too soon and as a consequence realised I will never completely trust a man ever, ever again. Self preservation is priceless |
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"What have you done that has had an unintended consequece?
What has happened to you that had unintended consequences?
Farted and shit myself
Not a good consequence "
Damn right it wasn't. Luckily for me I was at home at the time |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I Went on a girls holiday whilst getting over an ex, met my husband. Got married within 18 months.
Within 6 weeks of getting married I was covered in bruises with a host of broken bones.
So....I trusted too soon and as a consequence realised I will never completely trust a man ever, ever again. Self preservation is priceless "
No one falls in love and expects a battering. I'm sorry that you had to experience that. Trust is hard to give when it has been abused, protect yourself but don't close yourself off - that leads to other consequences (as I know). |
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"I Went on a girls holiday whilst getting over an ex, met my husband. Got married within 18 months.
Within 6 weeks of getting married I was covered in bruises with a host of broken bones.
So....I trusted too soon and as a consequence realised I will never completely trust a man ever, ever again. Self preservation is priceless
No one falls in love and expects a battering. I'm sorry that you had to experience that. Trust is hard to give when it has been abused, protect yourself but don't close yourself off - that leads to other consequences (as I know)."
The walls are high at the moment, they'll come down eventually. But until then I'm getting back to being me - and FAB is part of that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i went to the adult cinema with a guy for a dirty afternoon and ended up meeting the love of my life"
very similar had a 3sum with my then FB and his friend my now partner and gorgeous sexy man and master
Jo x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Getting into the wrong crowd at 18 who basically messed up my whole life...they were vile horrible people....
My past being dragged up 13 years on.."
I've read your posts over the last few months and I think the real unintended consequence might be the closeness you now feel to your family and what you give back in your work.
The past has a way of rearing its head when we least expect it. I gave an interview to a national newspaper many years ago but I am still surprised at some of the consequences that arise from that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I Went on a girls holiday whilst getting over an ex, met my husband. Got married within 18 months.
Within 6 weeks of getting married I was covered in bruises with a host of broken bones.
So....I trusted too soon and as a consequence realised I will never completely trust a man ever, ever again. Self preservation is priceless
No one falls in love and expects a battering. I'm sorry that you had to experience that. Trust is hard to give when it has been abused, protect yourself but don't close yourself off - that leads to other consequences (as I know).
The walls are high at the moment, they'll come down eventually. But until then I'm getting back to being me - and FAB is part of that "
Be safe - be strong - xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Getting into the wrong crowd at 18 who basically messed up my whole life...they were vile horrible people....
My past being dragged up 13 years on.."
The way I see it, people will always have a way of reminding you of your past, no matter who it is.
As long as you are happy, and you've left it in the past, regardless of any mistakes the future will always be more important to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When my Dom took on new sub and lied to me about it for 3 months.
When i found out, i was somewhat pissed off!!
She probably never intended the consequences her behaviour caused, but that is what happens when you play with taken men..... |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"When my Dom took on new sub and lied to me about it for 3 months.
When i found out, i was somewhat pissed off!!
She probably never intended the consequences her behaviour caused, but that is what happens when you play with taken men....."
That is probably very true. |
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