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"Steve is straight but given the right situation hed enjoy it" I'm leaning towards this too.... | |||
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"If they can't get women to do it properly for them, they probably think gay men are better at doing it than women lol " That’s a whole different question that has been asked many times lol Ive known guys say “yes as part of a 3way but not 1 on 1” which I find interesting ad well. | |||
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"It’s only gay if they want to cuddle afterwards " So cuddling beforehand is the trick you say | |||
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"It’s only gay if they want to cuddle afterwards So cuddling beforehand is the trick you say " Or you kiss.... | |||
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"No because then I wouldn't be straight. Not even the slightest interest." Exactly. This keeps getting asked and no matter how much bi/gay guys fantasise about it the answer remains no. | |||
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"No because then I wouldn't be straight. Not even the slightest interest. Exactly. This keeps getting asked and no matter how much bi/gay guys fantasise about it the answer remains no." Seems it’s less acceptable to be straight these days. You always hear “but everyone’s been curious at some stage”’ “everyone’s thought of it” “sucking cock isn’t bi” etc etc. Some men are actually totally straight! | |||
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"No because then I wouldn't be straight. Not even the slightest interest. Exactly. This keeps getting asked and no matter how much bi/gay guys fantasise about it the answer remains no. Seems it’s less acceptable to be straight these days. You always hear “but everyone’s been curious at some stage”’ “everyone’s thought of it” “sucking cock isn’t bi” etc etc. Some men are actually totally straight!" Some people have an "any blow's a goal" approach but it's getting a bit tiresome on here when men are told how narrow-minded they are for not considering it or how they should embrace their nonexistent bi-side. | |||
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"No because then I wouldn't be straight. Not even the slightest interest. Exactly. This keeps getting asked and no matter how much bi/gay guys fantasise about it the answer remains no. Seems it’s less acceptable to be straight these days. You always hear “but everyone’s been curious at some stage”’ “everyone’s thought of it” “sucking cock isn’t bi” etc etc. Some men are actually totally straight! Some people have an "any blow's a goal" approach but it's getting a bit tiresome on here when men are told how narrow-minded they are for not considering it or how they should embrace their nonexistent bi-side." | |||
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"Steve is straight but given the right situation hed enjoy it I'm leaning towards this too.... " me too | |||
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"I don't see why some folks are so hung up on labels " I’m not a great fan but they are there and they are handy to have. Especially if you are looking to meet same sex people. | |||
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"I don't see why some folks are so hung up on labels " This is a question that's asked all the time which is fine and well if your sexuality is fluid but for those of us who have no interest in exploring beyond being completely straight that should be respected rather than dissected constantly. If I say I'm straight it means exactly that with no blurring of the edges. | |||
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"No because then I wouldn't be straight. Not even the slightest interest. Exactly. This keeps getting asked and no matter how much bi/gay guys fantasise about it the answer remains no." But it’s not just a fantasy, it happens. Maybe not in your case and that’s fine, but pretty much every guy who is bi had their first time with a guy once upon a time. Maybe when they were a teenager but sometimes when they are 50. In the last 12 months I’d say I’ve given their first guy on guy bj to at least half a dozen guys. All except one wanted a repeat Some people might say “well they were always bi they just hadn’t done anything”. Some might say having a guy suck your cock once or twice doesn’t make you bi, so they are still straight. I personally don’t think labels are important. | |||
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"I think for some men they worry about being judged for being bi- curious/sexual. Embrace who you are, have fun and enjoy! " It’s a shame really because on here people should be whatever they want. Nobody in real life knows I’m bi. There’s no need for anyone to know. Is there really high judging of bi people on here? Can’t say I’ve seen it much. Yeah there are women who prefer to meet straight men but that’s not judging that’s their choice. | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best" Of course it would. I’ve never got my head around the I’m straight but I suck cock thing. | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best" I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best Of course it would. I’ve never got my head around the I’m straight but I suck cock thing. " I’d have to go with, then you’re not straight buddy haha | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? " Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) " You’re straight Dan. Could you get it up for a bloke? Surely if you’re straight you can’t. I don’t have a willy so I know nothing really! | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best Of course it would. I’ve never got my head around the I’m straight but I suck cock thing. I’d have to go with, then you’re not straight buddy haha" Well yeah same. Although I know people can call themselves whatever they want but in my eyes you’re not straight. | |||
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"If you let a guy suck your cock then i’m sorry but youre not straight" | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) " You know there is people that are addicted to Cumming. (Not sure medical term ) but one attribute I read a paper research from USA is they no longer humanise the other person , they are simply nothing more than a hole to use Orally / anally / vaginal… to these persons they don’t even see the other person as a gender as such as it’s purely about their own release and on with the day | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best Of course it would. I’ve never got my head around the I’m straight but I suck cock thing. I’d have to go with, then you’re not straight buddy haha Well yeah same. Although I know people can call themselves whatever they want but in my eyes you’re not straight. " It’s like straight women getting munched out by other women but claiming straight playful | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) " Exactly! You kinda re asked my question, is he now bi? Some will say yes because he’s crossed the line so to speak. What if it’s only a one off? Never happens again? Surely he’s not bi in that case? What if the next time is 5 years later? Does it make any difference if it’s giving or receiving? Because I think it does. I think a guy who sucks cock and eats pussy is bi. But if you go to a gloryhole and get an anon bj, do you need to ask if they are male or female so you can determine if you’re now bi? There are clearly people who are straight and people who are clearly bi, but I personally think there’s a grey area when it comes to receiving the occasional bj off a bloke. Especially if it’s a darkroom or gloryhole type situation | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best Of course it would. I’ve never got my head around the I’m straight but I suck cock thing. I’d have to go with, then you’re not straight buddy haha Well yeah same. Although I know people can call themselves whatever they want but in my eyes you’re not straight. It’s like straight women getting munched out by other women but claiming straight playful " Exactly. I’m straight but I love licking pussy. Doesn’t make sense to me! | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) You know there is people that are addicted to Cumming. (Not sure medical term ) but one attribute I read a paper research from USA is they no longer humanise the other person , they are simply nothing more than a hole to use Orally / anally / vaginal… to these persons they don’t even see the other person as a gender as such as it’s purely about their own release and on with the day " Yeah I think most of these people are on fab | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) You know there is people that are addicted to Cumming. (Not sure medical term ) but one attribute I read a paper research from USA is they no longer humanise the other person , they are simply nothing more than a hole to use Orally / anally / vaginal… to these persons they don’t even see the other person as a gender as such as it’s purely about their own release and on with the day Yeah I think most of these people are on fab " | |||
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"Hands down the best BJ I’ve ever had was from a guy.." Lol that’s not the question though! | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? " . Close your eyes it could be anyone and guys give better blow jobs than girls are two of the comments that I have received in messages from guys and tv / ts. I normally message back saying sorry I am straight best of luck with your search.The majority message back saying thanks for replying | |||
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"Steve is straight but given the right situation hed enjoy it" Hate to break this to you but Steve isn’t straight. | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) Exactly! You kinda re asked my question, is he now bi? Some will say yes because he’s crossed the line so to speak. What if it’s only a one off? Never happens again? Surely he’s not bi in that case? What if the next time is 5 years later? Does it make any difference if it’s giving or receiving? Because I think it does. I think a guy who sucks cock and eats pussy is bi. But if you go to a gloryhole and get an anon bj, do you need to ask if they are male or female so you can determine if you’re now bi? There are clearly people who are straight and people who are clearly bi, but I personally think there’s a grey area when it comes to receiving the occasional bj off a bloke. Especially if it’s a darkroom or gloryhole type situation " I guess the simple test for me is “have you knowingly sought or received sexual relations (for want of a better word) from someone of the same sex?” If the answer is yes then, at the point you did so, you’re not straight. Can people change? Yes. Definitely. Straight people can turn bi or gay, and bi people can turn straight. So in the case of a man who wondered what it was like to have a bj off a fella, did so once, then decided nope, not for me, never again, then he’s moved from bi-curious at the time (the curiosity that led him to experiment) to straight (he now knows same-sex play isn’t for him and is now committed to heterosexual sex). So with this in mind, surely any man *contemplating* receiving a BJ from another man (even if after years of involuntary celibacy and only doing so for a release) must be bi-curious at that point? All I’m saying is “don’t kid yourselves”. If you’re bi-curious be proud of it, don’t feel you have to apologise for it or pretend otherwise! | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? " In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? Well it’s not straight behaviour is it? What if a month later he needs another “release”. And a month after that. At what point is he no longer “straight”? Or is he still indeedstraight if he lets another fella suck him off (but only cos he’s not getting any off women?) Exactly! You kinda re asked my question, is he now bi? Some will say yes because he’s crossed the line so to speak. What if it’s only a one off? Never happens again? Surely he’s not bi in that case? What if the next time is 5 years later? Does it make any difference if it’s giving or receiving? Because I think it does. I think a guy who sucks cock and eats pussy is bi. But if you go to a gloryhole and get an anon bj, do you need to ask if they are male or female so you can determine if you’re now bi? There are clearly people who are straight and people who are clearly bi, but I personally think there’s a grey area when it comes to receiving the occasional bj off a bloke. Especially if it’s a darkroom or gloryhole type situation " I can't speak for anyone else but as a straight guy I wouldn't go anywhere near a gloryhole so that issue would never arise. Speaking of rises and in answer to Noras question no I couldn't get it up for a guy in the same way I couldn't get it up for a woman I wasn't attracted to. | |||
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"I feel like that would make a straight guy no longer straight, bi curious at best I think if a “straight” guy watches gay porn and fantasises about being fucked in the ass, he’s definitely bi curious to say the least. But what about a “straight” guy who finds himself divorced in his late 50s, not played the dating game for 25 years and after 3 years of not getting any, decides to let a guy give him a blowie? Is he bi? Or just in need of a release? " You won't get a 'straight' answer on this one. It isn't purely a question of sexuality, it's as much about reputation. | |||
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"No because then I wouldn't be straight. Not even the slightest interest. Exactly. This keeps getting asked and no matter how much bi/gay guys fantasise about it the answer remains no. Seems it’s less acceptable to be straight these days. You always hear “but everyone’s been curious at some stage”’ “everyone’s thought of it” “sucking cock isn’t bi” etc etc. Some men are actually totally straight! Some people have an "any blow's a goal" approach but it's getting a bit tiresome on here when men are told how narrow-minded they are for not considering it or how they should embrace their nonexistent bi-side." Well said I think if your straight it wouldn't even enter your head to let a male suck you. T | |||
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"You won't get a 'straight' answer on this one. It isn't purely a question of sexuality, it's as much about reputation." Agree 100% | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? " Simple answer is no because I'm not sexualy attracted to guys because I'm straight | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny?" Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker " I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. | |||
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"If you let a guy suck your cock then i’m sorry but youre not straight" And that is fine. 'Straight' is a very simple label. It's the default. Man + woman When you start looking at same sex labels, you have to start shrinking the label and adding footnotes. A 'straight' man enjoying a blow-job from another man is bi. But the actual label is 'oral-bi-selfish with men' or 'oral-bi-top'as he only interested in getting a blow-job, not giving one, or indulging in anal either as a top (the one doing the fucking), bottom (the one being fucked) or switch (taking it in turns) or other acts etc. But fab has always been problematic when it comes to over-simple labels, and people making assumptions based on those. It's a 1 on the Kinsey scale. Heterosexual, with only incidental homosexuality (0 being straight, 6 is gay) Other scales are available, but this was the first. Check out Wikipedia https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale | |||
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"If you let a guy suck your cock then i’m sorry but youre not straight And that is fine. 'Straight' is a very simple label. It's the default. Man + woman When you start looking at same sex labels, you have to start shrinking the label and adding footnotes. A 'straight' man enjoying a blow-job from another man is bi. But the actual label is 'oral-bi-selfish with men' or 'oral-bi-top'as he only interested in getting a blow-job, not giving one, or indulging in anal either as a top (the one doing the fucking), bottom (the one being fucked) or switch (taking it in turns) or other acts etc. But fab has always been problematic when it comes to over-simple labels, and people making assumptions based on those. It's a 1 on the Kinsey scale. Heterosexual, with only incidental homosexuality (0 being straight, 6 is gay) Other scales are available, but this was the first. Check out Wikipedia https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale" You should tell the people that make dictionary as you seem to know more about definitions than they do | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load " Are you speaking for all guys here? I disagree. | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load " That’s maybe the case for you but no bloke will ever get his lips around my cock. Frankly I would rather wank. Of course if you are bi then that’s not a concern | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. " I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn " Only one way to find out if you like it | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load " Any sexual contact with the same sex isn't heterosexual, that's a fact | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn Only one way to find out if you like it " Although can you imagine trying to find 2 men you’re attracted to | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load " #someguys. You're right though. I don't have to be attracted to guys to take a bj because i wouldn't be taking one from a guy but I definitely do have to be attracted to a woman before taking one from her. | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load " Just to let you know your speaking for yourself not me on this one. T | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn Only one way to find out if you like it Although can you imagine trying to find 2 men you’re attracted to " Hard enough finding one | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load Just to let you know your speaking for yourself not me on this one. T" He's also talking from a bi curious point of view | |||
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" It’s a shame really because on here people should be whatever they want. " I think maybe some people don't know what they are. In a mmf threesome I held/stroked a guys cock while K was sucking it. So I accept that I might have to hand in my straight card and lower my straight flag... I've left myself as straight on my profile because, on balance, I feel that's what I am but I'm probably not as straight as some other guys. I'm not seeking bi activity so it doesn't seem right to update my profile to that, maybe I should. | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load " Your sexuality is determined by which gender you have sex with, it has nothing to do with attraction, emotion or situation - same gender sex = bi or gay. It really is that simple. | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. " Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. " Being hecto means you don't having any sexual contact with the same sex, that's a fact, not a matter of opinion | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? " It's not something that interests me in the slightest, I find the idea a turn-off. Cal | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. Being hecto means you don't having any sexual contact with the same sex, that's a fact, not a matter of opinion" Herero is about who you are ATTRACTED to not necessarily who you’d have sexual contact with. Heterosexual definition ‘a person sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.’ | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load #someguys. You're right though. I don't have to be attracted to guys to take a bj because i wouldn't be taking one from a guy but I definitely do have to be attracted to a woman before taking one from her. " Well said buddy | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. " . sampirory you say in a horny 3sum you would let a guy suck your cock and you are not bi which if it happens just the once I get.However let’s say it happens 3-4 times would you not start to think you are bi curious or would you consider yourself straight. | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. Being hecto means you don't having any sexual contact with the same sex, that's a fact, not a matter of opinion Herero is about who you are ATTRACTED to not necessarily who you’d have sexual contact with. Heterosexual definition ‘a person sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.’" It also covers who you would have sex with regardless of anything else. Think of pornstars, they do it for the money, not because they're necessary attracted to the person. I think you only really understand was being straight is if you really are straight | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. Being hecto means you don't having any sexual contact with the same sex, that's a fact, not a matter of opinion Herero is about who you are ATTRACTED to not necessarily who you’d have sexual contact with. Heterosexual definition ‘a person sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.’ It also covers who you would have sex with regardless of anything else. Think of pornstars, they do it for the money, not because they're necessary attracted to the person. I think you only really understand was being straight is if you really are straight " There’s a set definition though, your own feelings don’t come into it. Nor mine. I’d personally consider someone who plays with the same sex as well as the opposite sex as bisexual as I said further up but the set definition of the word is around attraction but of course there’s dictionary definitions and common usage to think about. | |||
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"The more interesting question would be to gay women?!… if you were to approach a woman and she said “no thanks I’m straight” would you then begin begging and bombarding them with messages trying to “turn them” or just take the polite “no” as an answer?" Or Bi of course | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. Being hecto means you don't having any sexual contact with the same sex, that's a fact, not a matter of opinion Herero is about who you are ATTRACTED to not necessarily who you’d have sexual contact with. Heterosexual definition ‘a person sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.’ It also covers who you would have sex with regardless of anything else. Think of pornstars, they do it for the money, not because they're necessary attracted to the person. I think you only really understand was being straight is if you really are straight There’s a set definition though, your own feelings don’t come into it. Nor mine. I’d personally consider someone who plays with the same sex as well as the opposite sex as bisexual as I said further up but the set definition of the word is around attraction but of course there’s dictionary definitions and common usage to think about." I just think when someone says they're still straight because they don't find them attractive to be a cop out. To me that just says they're a bit easy when it comes to sex but that's personal opinion | |||
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"If I was in a MMF situation and we were all having some sensual horny fun then quite possibly,if that means I'm bi curious then so be it" No, it would mean you're Bi. Not a value judgement in any way, obvs. Just that that's what it would mean. Same as you're only officially a shoplifter once you've actually pocketed that mars bar when the cashier turns their back to fetch you a packet of rizlas. Not before, just afterwards It's all good though! Fill your pockets, I say!! | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. " Absolutely | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. Being hecto means you don't having any sexual contact with the same sex, that's a fact, not a matter of opinion Herero is about who you are ATTRACTED to not necessarily who you’d have sexual contact with. Heterosexual definition ‘a person sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.’ It also covers who you would have sex with regardless of anything else. Think of pornstars, they do it for the money, not because they're necessary attracted to the person. I think you only really understand was being straight is if you really are straight There’s a set definition though, your own feelings don’t come into it. Nor mine. I’d personally consider someone who plays with the same sex as well as the opposite sex as bisexual as I said further up but the set definition of the word is around attraction but of course there’s dictionary definitions and common usage to think about. I just think when someone says they're still straight because they don't find them attractive to be a cop out. To me that just says they're a bit easy when it comes to sex but that's personal opinion " I don’t disagree! Just like I’d have no respect for guys who fuck women they don’t find attractive just to get their dick wet lol | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? In a horny 3 sum, yes, I’d never meet a guy 1 on 1, I’m not attracted to men, but when everyone’s horny and anything goes why not. I wouldn’t say this makes anyone gay/bi or bi curious, just a kinky fucker I can assure you that your sexuality is determined by who you have sex with - who else is present doesn't come into it. You are bi, accept it and enjoy it. Sorry, I think you’re wrong on this one, I’m not Bi, as much as you tell me I am. but hay that’s the beauty of a forum, we can all have our own opinions, it’s fun and help educate us all. Being hecto means you don't having any sexual contact with the same sex, that's a fact, not a matter of opinion Herero is about who you are ATTRACTED to not necessarily who you’d have sexual contact with. Heterosexual definition ‘a person sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.’ It also covers who you would have sex with regardless of anything else. Think of pornstars, they do it for the money, not because they're necessary attracted to the person. I think you only really understand was being straight is if you really are straight There’s a set definition though, your own feelings don’t come into it. Nor mine. I’d personally consider someone who plays with the same sex as well as the opposite sex as bisexual as I said further up but the set definition of the word is around attraction but of course there’s dictionary definitions and common usage to think about. I just think when someone says they're still straight because they don't find them attractive to be a cop out. To me that just says they're a bit easy when it comes to sex but that's personal opinion I don’t disagree! Just like I’d have no respect for guys who fuck women they don’t find attractive just to get their dick wet lol" Yeah it's a bit desperate | |||
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"If I was in a MMF situation and we were all having some sensual horny fun then quite possibly,if that means I'm bi curious then so be it No, it would mean you're Bi. Not a value judgement in any way, obvs. Just that that's what it would mean. Same as you're only officially a shoplifter once you've actually pocketed that mars bar when the cashier turns their back to fetch you a packet of rizlas. Not before, just afterwards It's all good though! Fill your pockets, I say!! " But on the other hand,if I'd not gone to just get a blowjob off the guy in the MMF meeting and I had been having wild sex with the female and the guy was let's say liking the females pussy as I was having sexy and he pulled my cock out and sucked it and then slide it back in her pussy, now obviously that's slightly different I'm personally not particularly bothered what it makes me bi,bi curious it is what it is | |||
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"Sex is Sex . Being gay is not just about what sexual preference is.. You can be straight and enjoy all sex with man & woman .. The being gay is the mind set .. so yes sucking straight cock is ok by me. " Just no. 'You can be vegan, and enjoy eating meat and cheese. The being vegan is a mindset.' Words have meanings. What they shouldn't have is moral judgment. Don't call yourself straight, if you are looking for sex with men and women. Be honest with yourself,and with others who you want to play with. | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? " First of all, I adore women. And I'm of the thinking that they do everything better than men. So my answer would be, no thanks. But I've known guys to say they'd be up for that. Although, they're usually pissed when admitting it. Enjoying everyone's view on this. A lot of great points. | |||
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"If I was in a MMF situation and we were all having some sensual horny fun then quite possibly,if that means I'm bi curious then so be it No, it would mean you're Bi. Not a value judgement in any way, obvs. Just that that's what it would mean. Same as you're only officially a shoplifter once you've actually pocketed that mars bar when the cashier turns their back to fetch you a packet of rizlas. Not before, just afterwards It's all good though! Fill your pockets, I say!! But on the other hand,if I'd not gone to just get a blowjob off the guy in the MMF meeting and I had been having wild sex with the female and the guy was let's say liking the females pussy as I was having sexy and he pulled my cock out and sucked it and then slide it back in her pussy, now obviously that's slightly different I'm personally not particularly bothered what it makes me bi,bi curious it is what it is " Hetero-flexible? Woman can be 'spaghetti lesbians' ,Straight, until wet. Not sure if there is a name for men who behave similarly. | |||
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"The thought of bi sexual men involved with a lady freaks me out . With the STI high risks . I love bare sex and I love to offer bare sex . I need to be clean . I’m OCD about it . I rather miss out then feel paranoid . And I’m not even on about letting him do things to me . Just the thought he cames back to her after homosexual sex with other men . Freaks me out . Don’t discriminate . Is not my thing . And it scares me . Really . Respect . " So you’re saying that bi men have more STDs? | |||
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"To all those that say no never Im str8 but enjoy dp.....what about when yr rubbing swords together inside the pussy and causing friction and stimulating each other. U can't say u don't enjoy or that the extra intensity isn't coming from yr cocks rubbing. Without the pussy it would be like dry humping one another. With the pussy its not bi? Yr helping each other get off Or maybe I'm over thinking it " Men that enjoy dvp or dp have to be confident in their sexuality and the fact that they might accidentally cross swords and not freak out about it but that definitely don’t make them bi tho. We only meet bi men so that wouldn’t be a issue for us. | |||
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"The thought of bi sexual men involved with a lady freaks me out . With the STI high risks . I love bare sex and I love to offer bare sex . I need to be clean . I’m OCD about it . I rather miss out then feel paranoid . And I’m not even on about letting him do things to me . Just the thought he cames back to her after homosexual sex with other men . Freaks me out . Don’t discriminate . Is not my thing . And it scares me . Really . Respect . " 'Don't discriminate, except when I'm discriminating' - excellent approach. | |||
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"The thought of bi sexual men involved with a lady freaks me out . With the STI high risks . I love bare sex and I love to offer bare sex . I need to be clean . I’m OCD about it . I rather miss out then feel paranoid . And I’m not even on about letting him do things to me . Just the thought he cames back to her after homosexual sex with other men . Freaks me out . Don’t discriminate . Is not my thing . And it scares me . Really . Respect . 'Don't discriminate, except when I'm discriminating' - excellent approach." | |||
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"The thought of bi sexual men involved with a lady freaks me out . With the STI high risks . I love bare sex and I love to offer bare sex . I need to be clean . I’m OCD about it . I rather miss out then feel paranoid . And I’m not even on about letting him do things to me . Just the thought he cames back to her after homosexual sex with other men . Freaks me out . Don’t discriminate . Is not my thing . And it scares me . Really . Respect . " If it scares you that much then don’t do bareback how do you genuinely know the women you have sex with have never had sex with bi men . | |||
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"The thought of bi sexual men involved with a lady freaks me out . With the STI high risks . I love bare sex and I love to offer bare sex . I need to be clean . I’m OCD about it . I rather miss out then feel paranoid . And I’m not even on about letting him do things to me . Just the thought he cames back to her after homosexual sex with other men . Freaks me out . Don’t discriminate . Is not my thing . And it scares me . Really . Respect . " As a bisexual, the thought of STIs freaks me out too, so I use condoms (except for a long term monagamous relationship) The problem for you is not the honest bisexual, but rather the dishonest 'straight' guy who also enjoys bare-back. The lady you are seeing may not know she is playing with a 'high-risk' person, because he considers himself straight. Personally I think the issue with high-rise groups is exaggerated, because they know they are high risk and consequently most take precautions. Like how racing drivers wear helmets and fire resistant clothing. Low risk groups don't consider the danger, like people driving home from the pub after a single pint. | |||
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"To all those that say no never Im str8 but enjoy dp.....what about when yr rubbing swords together inside the pussy and causing friction and stimulating each other. U can't say u don't enjoy or that the extra intensity isn't coming from yr cocks rubbing. Without the pussy it would be like dry humping one another. With the pussy its not bi? Yr helping each other get off Or maybe I'm over thinking it Men that enjoy dvp or dp have to be confident in their sexuality and the fact that they might accidentally cross swords and not freak out about it but that definitely don’t make them bi tho. We only meet bi men so that wouldn’t be a issue for us." My point is those men that freak out and claim they're fully str8 and don't do anything bi but then do this...... Surely there is a hint of "bi-activity" in this act when yr both receiving stimulation from each other while inside her. | |||
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"Guys can dis associate sex with attraction You don’t have to be attracted to guys to take a bj It’s an unattached means of blowing your load Just to let you know your speaking for yourself not me on this one. T He's also talking from a bi curious point of view " I’m more than curious I’ve had a fair bit of experience now with guys I really don’t need to be attracted to a guy to enjoy a bj It has to be a decent firm one as if a guy is just licking and messing about I can’t get or stay hard With women it’s completely different Such as I lose my erection as soon as I try to get into a guys ass But with a dresser I can do the deed I know I’m fooling myself he’s feminine but that’s how it works for me I see myself as straight in my sexual preference but I come on here for sex the urge to cum I accept also I’m not speaking for others or trying to be provocative | |||
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"Although I know people can call themselves whatever they want but in my eyes you’re not straight. " You can call an apple an orange but it's still an apple. | |||
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"Although I know people can call themselves whatever they want but in my eyes you’re not straight. You can call an apple an orange but it's still an apple." Well this is my thinking too but evidently it’s not everyone’s thinking | |||
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"The thought of bi sexual men involved with a lady freaks me out . With the STI high risks . I love bare sex and I love to offer bare sex . I need to be clean . I’m OCD about it . I rather miss out then feel paranoid . And I’m not even on about letting him do things to me . Just the thought he cames back to her after homosexual sex with other men . Freaks me out . Don’t discriminate . Is not my thing . And it scares me . Really . Respect . " Wow, I love it when people say they don’t discriminate but are actually discriminating. What hypocrisy! On the whole the gay/bi community practice safe sex, certainly a lot more than the hetro community. And they are a smaller community. How you can state you’re worried about catching an sti yet you engage in unprotected sex with strangers is just an absolute joke. I’m just lost for words by this level of stupidity | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn Only one way to find out if you like it " Indeed so. You may be curious, who isn't? However, unless you're taking steps to follow up on that curiosity then it means nothing. If though you're watching, and getting off on, gay porn then maybe you're bi curious. If so ask yourself what's holding you back? | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn Only one way to find out if you like it Indeed so. You may be curious, who isn't? However, unless you're taking steps to follow up on that curiosity then it means nothing. If though you're watching, and getting off on, gay porn then maybe you're bi curious. If so ask yourself what's holding you back? " Not me. It’s not for me. I was talking to duchess x | |||
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"If a straight guy puts his cock through the car window, but the male half of the doggers leans across to suck him and he enjoys it, has straight guy now caught gay? " In my case there would be a yelp of shock and my cock would be quickly retracted. No fear | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn Only one way to find out if you like it Indeed so. You may be curious, who isn't? However, unless you're taking steps to follow up on that curiosity then it means nothing. If though you're watching, and getting off on, gay porn then maybe you're bi curious. If so ask yourself what's holding you back? " I’m a woman | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn Only one way to find out if you like it Indeed so. You may be curious, who isn't? However, unless you're taking steps to follow up on that curiosity then it means nothing. If though you're watching, and getting off on, gay porn then maybe you're bi curious. If so ask yourself what's holding you back? " Yet again another sweeping generalisation from someone who is actually bi. The "who isn't" question has already been answered numerous times in this thread alone. Many many people are not curious at all. | |||
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"Does the lady in a relationship find a bi 3some horny? Depends on the lady. A lot do from what I’ve seen on here. I find the idea of a bi 3-some horny but then my porn taste veers towards gay porn Only one way to find out if you like it Indeed so. You may be curious, who isn't? However, unless you're taking steps to follow up on that curiosity then it means nothing. If though you're watching, and getting off on, gay porn then maybe you're bi curious. If so ask yourself what's holding you back? Yet again another sweeping generalisation from someone who is actually bi. The "who isn't" question has already been answered numerous times in this thread alone. Many many people are not curious at all." It just makes me laugh every single time I see someone write it because they have absolutely no idea | |||
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"How can a man be straight if another man sucks his cock. So if someone did that to you unwillingly on your part, does that mean you're still bi/gay? That's it, you have to shack up with a guy for life? Are you seriously asking that question?! " The point was that it seems fairly arbitrary where people draw the line here and not very logical. | |||
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"How can a man be straight if another man sucks his cock. So if someone did that to you unwillingly on your part, does that mean you're still bi/gay? That's it, you have to shack up with a guy for life?" I'm pretty sure he meant if willingly let them do it but that's my logical thinking | |||
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"I think many guys still have the attitude of "any hole is a goal"....even if that hole happens to be another guy's gub." Can’t say I have ever met a genuine straight guy who is that relaxed about who comes into contact with his cock! I can’t help but recall the reaction of Begbie in Trainspotting when he unwittingly encounters a tv. A bit extreme perhaps but you get the drift. | |||
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"To the straight guys, would you let a guy suck your cock? Close your eyes and it could be anyone? Or…. Now way, I’m not gay? What’s your views? " Same sex , means your gay or bi sexual thems the facts all this I’m really straight nonesense | |||
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"Sexual acts between people of same sex is bisexual provided the people have sexual acts with both sexies some may be gay etc and yeah I know shouldn't label bla bla bla but it's not straight " If a straight guy lets another guy have a quick suck, that's just having fun - it doesn't need a label... Lots of reasons or scenarios where it might happen - if the F wanted to see a bi partner suck another man's cock, it would be rude not to let them have their fun! | |||
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"Sexual acts between people of same sex is bisexual provided the people have sexual acts with both sexies some may be gay etc and yeah I know shouldn't label bla bla bla but it's not straight If a straight guy lets another guy have a quick suck, that's just having fun - it doesn't need a label... Lots of reasons or scenarios where it might happen - if the F wanted to see a bi partner suck another man's cock, it would be rude not to let them have their fun! " The thing is a "straight" guy wouldn't have his cock in the mouth of another male | |||
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"Sexual acts between people of same sex is bisexual provided the people have sexual acts with both sexies some may be gay etc and yeah I know shouldn't label bla bla bla but it's not straight If a straight guy lets another guy have a quick suck, that's just having fun - it doesn't need a label... Lots of reasons or scenarios where it might happen - if the F wanted to see a bi partner suck another man's cock, it would be rude not to let them have their fun! The thing is a "straight" guy wouldn't have his cock in the mouth of another male " No he definitely wouldn't have his cock in another guys mouth if straight | |||
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"So you're in an MFM threesome and the other M is a bit curious, and the F says she wants to see him do it, wouldn't you let him? It wouldn't 'define' your sexuality if you're worried about that sort of thing..." No I wouldn’t let him because I'm straight, why would I do something I don't want to just to please someone else? | |||
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"What if a gay man wanted to let a women suck him off? Is he still gay or bi? Same question really isn't it? " A gay man isn't going to want a women to suck him off if he's gay | |||
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"What if a gay man wanted to let a women suck him off? Is he still gay or bi? Same question really isn't it? A gay man isn't going to want a women to suck him off if he's gay " Even if he shuts his eyes and pretends it's a man? that's the logic in this thread for some people. | |||
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"What if a gay man wanted to let a women suck him off? Is he still gay or bi? Same question really isn't it? A gay man isn't going to want a women to suck him off if he's gay Even if he shuts his eyes and pretends it's a man? that's the logic in this thread for some people. " Even then And yes it is, some people say they're straight and some are actually straight so won't do anything sexual with a guy. One big tell is do they actually have guys filtered out on here or not | |||
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"So you're in an MFM threesome and the other M is a bit curious, and the F says she wants to see him do it, wouldn't you let him? It wouldn't 'define' your sexuality if you're worried about that sort of thing..." Where’s that fox man who can’t understand why straight men don’t want to meet bi men in an mfm?! This is one reason! | |||
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"So you're in an MFM threesome and the other M is a bit curious, and the F says she wants to see him do it, wouldn't you let him? It wouldn't 'define' your sexuality if you're worried about that sort of thing... Where’s that fox man who can’t understand why straight men don’t want to meet bi men in an mfm?! This is one reason!" | |||
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"Either use labels or don’t use them I say. Nothing irks me more than people wanting to play with straight men, and the play in question is the straight man is sucking dick or having their ass fucked by another penis… If you’re straight and you like to receive oral from another man…I think that doesn’t fit the definition of heterosexual…" | |||
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"Makes you wonder why straight men use glory holes. Possibly it's like Schrödinger's blowjob. You are both straight and gay at the same time, but until you observe the other side of the glory hole, and collapse the wave-form, you don't know. And if you don't look, you can be 'straight'. " That’s one awesome scientific observation. It deserve to be published somewhere publicly | |||
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"I always read these threads like this If you want to get intimate with someone of the same sex, go right ahead. Own it, enjoy it, and have fun. But you’re not straight. I can appreciate a beautiful woman and think women can look sexy, great boobs, beautiful figure etc but wouldn’t want them in my knickers. It wouldn’t matter to me how good she was at licking pussy, fingering, using a strap on etc… the turn for me is as much the person doing it as well as the physical pleasure." Well there goes my fantasies... | |||
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