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By *xydadbod OP Man
over a year ago
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This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter? |
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This has happened to me a couple of times with new girls I just put it down to nerves trying to impress and it just gets the better of you as you don't want to disappoint |
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By *xydadbod OP Man
over a year ago
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"This has happened to me a couple of times with new girls I just put it down to nerves trying to impress and it just gets the better of you as you don't want to disappoint "
See I've had this issue since I lost my virginity at 17 and I tried figuring out why and so far, I'm nowhere near to figuring that out still lol |
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"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter? "
As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes. |
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By *xydadbod OP Man
over a year ago
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"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?
As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes."
I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol |
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"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?
As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.
I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol"
Well, it’s their job  and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot |
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must admit I do enjoy receiving multiple cum loads. luv creampies & facial glazing to wear as a souvenir; allowing cum to drip dry whilst my arsehole is being pummelled...
have only met one guy to-date who never cums but he can fuck for hrs so it’s all good...! |
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By *xydadbod OP Man
over a year ago
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"Does it bother or worry you at all? I dont in general cum from sex either so we would be at it all night if we hadnt talked before hand 
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Doesn't bother me really.. well fab has taught me that I can be who I want to be and to accept myself as myself. Just recently talking to someone outside fab and she mention how insecure she would be if she was unable to make a guy cum so it kinda knocked me a little. I won't want someone to feel insecure about it even though its not something I can or anyone can control but kinda got me thinking really |
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By *xydadbod OP Man
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"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?
As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.
I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol
Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot"
Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though |
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"Does it bother or worry you at all? I dont in general cum from sex either so we would be at it all night if we hadnt talked before hand
Doesn't bother me really.. well fab has taught me that I can be who I want to be and to accept myself as myself. Just recently talking to someone outside fab and she mention how insecure she would be if she was unable to make a guy cum so it kinda knocked me a little. I won't want someone to feel insecure about it even though its not something I can or anyone can control but kinda got me thinking really "
Can you cum when it is just you? I think just talking beforehand will help with insecurities from both sides. I would appreciate the honesty and it wouldnt then bother me at all, if she is making you hard then you are enjoying her company still. |
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Climaxing and cumming are two separate actions. The pheromones are released regardless whether a male cums, you can build this up by masturbating and stopping before you reach climax, then repeating and repeating and so on. Some of the best climaxes I've had have been without cumming |
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"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?
As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.
I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol
Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot
Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though "
Pretty sure there would be, not sure how ethical would be though lol |
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By *xydadbod OP Man
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
"Does it bother or worry you at all? I dont in general cum from sex either so we would be at it all night if we hadnt talked before hand
Oh I wank til the cows cum home and no problem at all. But sex wise, be it penetrative, oral, hand job.. nothing at all. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but very rarely it happens. But on occasions it does happen, recreating the same situation won't have the same effect
Doesn't bother me really.. well fab has taught me that I can be who I want to be and to accept myself as myself. Just recently talking to someone outside fab and she mention how insecure she would be if she was unable to make a guy cum so it kinda knocked me a little. I won't want someone to feel insecure about it even though its not something I can or anyone can control but kinda got me thinking really
Can you cum when it is just you? I think just talking beforehand will help with insecurities from both sides. I would appreciate the honesty and it wouldnt then bother me at all, if she is making you hard then you are enjoying her company still. "
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"This has happened to me a couple of times with new girls I just put it down to nerves trying to impress and it just gets the better of you as you don't want to disappoint
See I've had this issue since I lost my virginity at 17 and I tried figuring out why and so far, I'm nowhere near to figuring that out still lol"
Some medicines can cause this so if you are on medication it might be worth talking to your dr |
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By *xydadbod OP Man
over a year ago
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"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?
As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.
I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol
Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot
Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though
Pretty sure there would be, not sure how ethical would be though lol"
Its fine.. I'll just waiver that lol |
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"This is more a question for the ladies really but men, feel free to add your input as well.
I'm a little curious to find out.. does it bother you ladies if during sex, if the man doesn't cum at all? I have that issue and once before, I used to refer it as my "problem" but after being on fab, I've learned to accept thats a part of who I am. But talking to someone outside of the fab world, it seems to be a big deal so thought I ask what's your views on the matter?
As long as the meet what satisfactory for both, I don’t see the issue. Sometimes I don’t orgasm at all during sex and some of the experiences have been the best I’ve ever had. However, anorgasmia might be symptom of something else, so you might want to have some checks. For me is my adhd, I can’t be focused long enough to climax sometimes.
I had all the checks years ago and anything physical has been ruled out but the consultant did suggest it may be psychological. I don't think any therapist would want to explore the depths of my mind lol
Well, it’s their job and if it bothers you or affects you on any level, I’d say is worth to give it a shot
Are there any therapist on here that would take a gander what's under the hood of my brain then? I'll definitely give it a shot though.. I got nothing to lose really. Be interesting to finally figure out though "
After being with someone and not cumming do you then finish yourself off or do you not bother? |
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By *xydadbod OP Man
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I don't bother as I'm sure it normally leads to round 2, then 3 and so forth. Does kill your ab muscles though lol I think I get to a point where I've exhausted myself then I will make myself cum but I do try to get the company I'm with at the time involve as well as I do |
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Sometimes if I've been having a long session with someone, I might eventually lose that feeling you need to cum. By then we'd usually be pretty tired, so I'm happy to sleep on it... the orgasm will come when it's ready. I think ploughing on relentlessly trying to get there isn't actually fun for either party  |
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