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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t get exclusivity and swinging as a joint term. Surely exclusivity is what it is _not_ about?"
This is exactly it. If I wanted a boyfriend I'd be on a completely different site. I want to experience different things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does that happen often?
I’ll shag ya OP, and you’re free to do whoever else you want afterwards   "
2 separate guys have recently got annoyed that I wanted/have had meets before them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or say that they're honest... Obviously not "
Definitely. We ask people really early on what their situation is. We don't judge we just appreciate honesty. We are getting better at sniffing out the lies |
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over a year ago
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It’s always been this way
For a site built around swinging and such
There is a lot off judgment at times
Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person
Or this one has to meny meets
Or like you say people expect exclusive
If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like
As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other
Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s always been this way
For a site built around swinging and such
There is a lot off judgment at times
Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person
Or this one has to meny meets
Or like you say people expect exclusive
If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like
As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other
Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead
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I wish I had that many offers to choose from.  |
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"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!"
Is this behaviour the exclusivity of single guys??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does that happen often?
I’ll shag ya OP, and you’re free to do whoever else you want afterwards
2 separate guys have recently got annoyed that I wanted/have had meets before them"
Ah that’s the male ego being bruised I’d say rather than exclusivity.. what do you mean there’s someone ahead of me in the queue!? |
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"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!"
I don't..... No sorry..... After you've been here a while you realise its common place a few women doing it to shock horror, just accept that it exists and you won't be bothered by it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s always been this way
For a site built around swinging and such
There is a lot off judgment at times
Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person
Or this one has to meny meets
Or like you say people expect exclusive
If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like
As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other
Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead
I wish I had that many offers to choose from. "
Ha ha |
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"It’s always been this way
For a site built around swinging and such
There is a lot off judgment at times
Like wouldn’t meet xxxx person because they meet this person
Or this one has to meny meets
Or like you say people expect exclusive
If I am not in a closed relationship with the person I am free to do and see who I like when I like
As long as I am not putting one person in front off the other
Ie ment to be meeting John to day but mark’s message asking if I can meet to night marks hotter than John so I going to Pam John off and meet mark instead
"
Is it judgement though? People just know what they want. All those things you mentioned probably apply to me. Doesn’t mean I judge people who do what they want and meet loads of people and meet people I really don’t like.
I know exactly what I want and that won’t change but I don’t judge others on what they want x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!
Is this behaviour the exclusivity of single guys?? "
I very much doubt it is. Just going by my recent experiences |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does that happen often?
I’ll shag ya OP, and you’re free to do whoever else you want afterwards
2 separate guys have recently got annoyed that I wanted/have had meets before them
Ah that’s the male ego being bruised I’d say rather than exclusivity.. what do you mean there’s someone ahead of me in the queue!?"
I think it was bruised ego from one, the other was definitely that he wanted to be the only one.
Well the queue is pretty short to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!I don't..... No sorry..... After you've been here a while you realise its common place a few women doing it to shock horror, just accept that it exists and you won't be bothered by it "
I didn't say it bothered me, just that it made me laugh. We have been here before so well aware of all the problems that come with it. |
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"Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!
Is this behaviour the exclusivity of single guys??
I very much doubt it is. Just going by my recent experiences"
So why start a post that specifically digs out single guys ?? |
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