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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I consider myself as vanilla although I have been called "sexually dull" because I'm not into lots of the thingd many other on here are "
Each to their own really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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According to the BDSM quiz test online
I’m 100% vanilla just cause I don’t like humiliation or dark and extreme torture .
I thought vanilla ment boring . |
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For me...
Vanilla is sex with a man, indoors, multi positions in which I am wearing pretty lingerie. Vanilla doesn't have to mean boring...
Kinky is when we add toys to our sexual play and outdoor sex
Very Kinky are my bdsm playtime scenes which generically are non sexual
My only fetish is sensuality and that is non negotiable |
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"And what do you consider kinky?
As it’s different for everyone really.
What do you think is kinky?"
Some guy used "vanilla" to neg me....I don't partake in abuse.
If you don't talk to me properly, I don't want you fucking me properly.
I don't fall for that emotional manipulative bullshit anymore.
I view "vanilla" as anything that is mainstream or done by the majority. Nothing bad about it.
If people want to have missionary, procreative, hetero p in v sex for the rest of their lives that is their prerogative.
I'd like it when we all become sex-positive and stop shaming people for their sex lives as long as they are not harming anyone or breaking any jail-time laws. |
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"Labels that people use to try and belittle others while simultaneously trying to impress 
This
I disagree. To me it just means you're not into kinky sex"
Yeah this is a weird take. It's less trying to impress, more trying to find someone sexualy compatible.
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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago
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There are things I like that some people would call kinky. There are other people who would say the same stuff to them was vanilla. To me, it’s just regular stuff I like and I don’t differentiate or figure enough about it to care. I like what I like and it’s about finding other people who like it too |
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