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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts?"
It shouldn't need to be said.
But in doing so publicly many will hope for a second opportunity to get their dick wet, as well as looking like one of the 'good guys', 'genuine' and 'not like all the other men on Fab'.
A
*other clichés are also available of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers 
I’m sure some are but there are definitely serious ones as well. I will have a Snickers though  "
I’d eat a snickers from your hole  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s tongue in cheek dude. Have a snickers
I’m sure some are but there are definitely serious ones as well. I will have a Snickers though
I’d eat a snickers from your hole
My cake hole?  "
Stop talking dirty to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts?
It shouldn't need to be said.
But in doing so publicly many will hope for a second opportunity to get their dick wet, as well as looking like one of the 'good guys', 'genuine' and 'not like all the other men on Fab'.
A
*other clichés are also available of course"
Totally agree, it is more about the guy itself that the woman they are verifying.
it is often followed by : she is a good friend. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts?"
they're just stock sayings like " don't mess this one around" and " she's a keeper" and "I'm definitely going back for more"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to treat women with Ronseal, one coat and you're done. Does what it says on the tin."
Nah hah haaaaa :
Have you ever seen the banned Kiwi Ronseal deck advert? Classic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts?"
Just one of the worn out phrases commonly used on here. To me sounds bit patronising to other men to follow;) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Short hand for "I can't think or don't want to say anything specifically nice about the person or what we did, so I will just provide a general platitude in lieu of original content" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has always read to me as a rather school-boyish bro-code for "nudge nudge wink wink, she'll give you a good rogering & do the 'super naughty' things if you butter her up enough so don't eff it up mate"
So yeah, charming.
Plus all the bits others have posted about why respect is a basic not an extra  |
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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago
Paisley Scotland |
"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts?
It shouldn't need to be said.
But in doing so publicly many will hope for a second opportunity to get their dick wet, as well as looking like one of the 'good guys', 'genuine' and 'not like all the other men on Fab'.
A
*other clichés are also available of course"
100% right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone "
Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets! |
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"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone
Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets! "
Brutal and completely true. |
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"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts?"
Interesting!
I haven’t read all the reply’s and obviously you have been inundated with the calm down retorts
But!
You have a point. We get told respect us earned.
So.. “treat her with respect” , is it earned ?
Lots of guys have advised to treat me sigh respect in my verifications, and I have always been grateful… but I don’t feel I need to be treat with respect …
If I meet a guy and he doesn’t treat me with any respect, I can deal with it ( I keep a fucking big hammer in my handbag )  |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
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"I see "Treat her with respect" written by loads of men when they verify women.
Does it actually need to be spelled out - treating someone respectfully? I for one, would never treat someone in any other way - but maybe that's just me. Am I being naïve or missing something?
Or is it just lazy writing? They've seen it in other verifications and not knowing what to write, have just blindly copied it without thinking it through?
Thoughts?"
I wonder how many who write this on verifications also have Sydney university or since Fab became a, on their profiles.  |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone
Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets! "
This was an argument Fabio used. However if the bad behavior causes couples and single women to stop meeting single men, does that not make meeting couples and single women more difficult by reducing the pool of people available to meet.
I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone
Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets!
This was an argument Fabio used. However if the bad behavior causes couples and single women to stop meeting single men, does that not make meeting couples and single women more difficult by reducing the pool of people available to meet.
I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.
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I’m not convinced it reduces the pool since new women and couples join all the time! |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone
Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets!
This was an argument Fabio used. However if the bad behavior causes couples and single women to stop meeting single men, does that not make meeting couples and single women more difficult by reducing the pool of people available to meet.
I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.
I’m not convinced it reduces the pool since new women and couples join all the time! "
I thought about that, but there are no statistics either way, just individual gut feeling. Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It shouldn't "need" to be said, but there's a lot of shady fuckers out there that ruin it for everyone
Nah the shady ones don’t ruin it for everyone! This is the excuse men use to justify their lack of meets!
This was an argument Fabio used. However if the bad behavior causes couples and single women to stop meeting single men, does that not make meeting couples and single women more difficult by reducing the pool of people available to meet.
I have no money on this debate, I am just curious of the counter argument.
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The crappy people do often put people off meeting anyone. |
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