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So recently me and my girlfriend started the journey of a female led relationship. But also recently she’s told me how much she loves me but also admitted that I can’t get her off sexually. And I’m not particularly sure what to do about it. Should I man up and try to please her more or I don’t know if she’s implying she would like to cuckold me. Or whether I should bring up the topic myself. Does anybody have any advice please |
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The main thing you have to ask yourself is "how strong is the marriage"? Any hairline fractures in it will be cracked open if that's he path you go down. My husband only wants me to have the best cock/sex, and he has no anxieties about it, and neither do I. We know that the sex is just extra toppings, and he's the one I sit around watching TV with on a lazy evening.
The question to ask her is "what would it take to sexually satisfy you"? She might not instantly say other men, dropping you into a situation where she might take offence and read it as suggesting she's some kind of slut. Or that you think that you don't value your marriage all that much.
It might be as simple as getting some decent sex toys, so don't just go jumping in with cuckolding or even hot-wifing, as it could blow up in your face. |
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From your previous thread from earlier, you appear to have jumped from trying it to doing it and now this, personally speaking from everything I have read (on both threads) and you haven't been together that long really to be in a relationship that is that in-depth, I would say you need to take a step back and really look at your relationship.
Does it make you happy? That's one of the most important questions.
Just my advice. |
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Drop the term and concept of 'man up'. It's sexist and places undue pressure, when the solution you may find will likely be better without such influence.
Communication is key to us learning with our partners. That includes our needs, as well as potentially thinking around issues, solutions and more.
Too often we jump to a solution before we have really grasped where we're at and then go headlong into an outcome, whilst possibly overlooking significant things that could be the better focus of our energy and attention. |
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