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By *uddlesXXX OP Couple
over a year ago
Huddersfield area |
So more one for the ladies, but guys feel free to comment too.
I (Mrs) have quite uneven breasts, and find it's something I'm very conscious of, I hate how 'lop sided' they are, down to having kids and breastfeeding. I know no pair are identical, but I'm not talking just a small difference.
I am embarrassed to share frontal boob photos, and am anxious about getting them out.
Is there any ladies here who have this to deal with, and how do you embrace it?
Mr is perfectly happy with them and said he never noticed until I pointed it out. Surgery is not an option. |
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Surely we all have hang ups about our bodies. Shouldn’t let them stop you doing what you want tho. All bodies are different and have their own appeal.
Be happy be confident and have fun.
Btw m half here if that matters. X |
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I have a 2 cup size difference between mine, and I have a fault in one of my ducts. I can feel concious of it, especially the fold in my boob. But what I have noticed on fab is that rarely does anyone notice until I point it out. As with most things I suppose, if we are insecure it is more obvious to us. |
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By *uddlesXXX OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I have a 2 cup size difference between mine, and I have a fault in one of my ducts. I can feel concious of it, especially the fold in my boob. But what I have noticed on fab is that rarely does anyone notice until I point it out. As with most things I suppose, if we are insecure it is more obvious to us. "
From your profile pic, mine are pretty similar size difference.
Thank you for that. I think what's made it harder, is I've been for bra fittings and it's been commented on how one is quite a big bigger than the other  so then the anxiety is there that everyone sees what I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty sure nobody is symmetrical. I've certainly never looked at anyone, especially partners, and compared both sides or had a preference! My Ex wife was a cup different when we met, a little more after kids, my last partner was the same. Only know that through them bearing measured for bras, I've never actually just noticed or asked!
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"So more one for the ladies, but guys feel free to comment too.
I (Mrs) have quite uneven breasts, and find it's something I'm very conscious of, I hate how 'lop sided' they are, down to having kids and breastfeeding. I know no pair are identical, but I'm not talking just a small difference.
I am embarrassed to share frontal boob photos, and am anxious about getting them out.
Is there any ladies here who have this to deal with, and how do you embrace it?
Mr is perfectly happy with them and said he never noticed until I pointed it out. Surgery is not an option."
I couldn't see the difference...and no it shouldn't matter anyway  |
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"I have a 2 cup size difference between mine, and I have a fault in one of my ducts. I can feel concious of it, especially the fold in my boob. But what I have noticed on fab is that rarely does anyone notice until I point it out. As with most things I suppose, if we are insecure it is more obvious to us.
From your profile pic, mine are pretty similar size difference.
Thank you for that. I think what's made it harder, is I've been for bra fittings and it's been commented on how one is quite a big bigger than the other so then the anxiety is there that everyone sees what I do "
I hear you, elasticated top bra seams are your friend. Hides the difference in boobage size  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we over think these things. And I genuinely do believe nobody would look at your tits with as much judgement as you do.
It's hard I know, but beating yourself up about it does nothing but bring you down.
Your titties look fine to me. 
I have saggy tits, which is why I have barely any photos of myself with unsupported boobs. I think I've only got one on display. I buy nice lingerie to enhance them to make myself feel a bit better. One is also slightly bigger than the other. I've never had any negative comments and the truth is nobody really gives a shit. If they like your boobs they like your boobs.
I can't do anything about it so there's no point in being mean to myself. I'd highly recommend trying to look at yourself in a much kinder way as it does make a difference. And maybe buy some lingerie that makes you feel good? |
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"So more one for the ladies, but guys feel free to comment too.
I (Mrs) have quite uneven breasts, and find it's something I'm very conscious of, I hate how 'lop sided' they are, down to having kids and breastfeeding. I know no pair are identical, but I'm not talking just a small difference.
I am embarrassed to share frontal boob photos, and am anxious about getting them out.
Is there any ladies here who have this to deal with, and how do you embrace it?
Mr is perfectly happy with them and said he never noticed until I pointed it out. Surgery is not an option."
I've had 6 kids, the last 2 have been breastfed and both times i went through the same. I had one boob way bigger than the other, and i was very self conscious about it. Dean always reassured me about how they looked. Over time they have evened out and gone back to the size they were before. |
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I had gorgeous boobs until I got a lumpectomy and then radiotherapy.. the right one is I guess 3 sizes smaller than left and the scar makes the skin pucker when I lean forward pulls into a real dent , don’t like looking at it now at all 
Was proud of my body till then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a 2 cup size difference between mine, and I have a fault in one of my ducts. I can feel concious of it, especially the fold in my boob. But what I have noticed on fab is that rarely does anyone notice until I point it out. As with most things I suppose, if we are insecure it is more obvious to us. "
Awsome boobs  |
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My leftie is 3 lb lighter than my rightie. You can see it in my pics if you look hard enough. One is spilling out of the bra.
But honestly, nobody has ever noticed or said they look odd. I generally don’t care if they do. It’s what makes them my special boobs 
Try and embrace the body you have, it’s yours to enjoy.
(Yeah a guy weighed them for me after I had a few beers) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just boobs
99% off people have lopsided bodys
One side is bigger than the other
It’s normally the prodonat side that bigger
This includes shoulders bicep forarm thighs and chest
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had gorgeous boobs until I got a lumpectomy and then radiotherapy.. the right one is I guess 3 sizes smaller than left and the scar makes the skin pucker when I lean forward pulls into a real dent , don’t like looking at it now at all
Was proud of my body till then. "
You should be very proud of your body! Every scar is a part of your story and it sounds like you may have gotten through something tougher than most others would ever go through! |
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By *uddlesXXX OP Couple
over a year ago
Huddersfield area |
Thanks for all the replies, it's nice to know I'm not alone in having an obvious (to the individual) difference in size, and good to know that others most likely won't pick up on it, or be bothered by it. 
Now to work on the confidence to show them off! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Since having kids and breastfeeding I’ve got one boob noticeably (to me) bigger than the other. I usually only am aware of it if I take a pic on all fours, nobody else has ever mentioned it.
That doesn’t actually bother me, it’s the fact my boobs are quite saggy and not at all perky that bothers me more, but I’m not bothered enough to do anything about it. Again, no man has ever said anything negative, it’s just when I see pics of other boobs I feel a bit meh.
Still, all part of life’s big tapestry. |
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