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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?"
We show a few selected ones.
Nothing graphic. Nothing OTT. Mostly social.
All we care about when looking at other people's veris is that they exist really. We don't want to see a blow by blow account of a meet, gory details, bragging or arse kissing, lamp post pissing or anything other than confirmation someone is real, turns up, is pleasant and nit an axe murderer.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people do some people don’t
Truth be told I have take 0 stock in veris from around 2016
got burned badly from a guy
Who has over 300 showing veris
Ment to be knowing for hosting party’s and such
And also has glowing vers from most clubs around the uk
All these glowing veris didn’t stop him form standing me up at all
On the flip side I have meet a guy with no veris and he turned up and done exactly what was sed
From that point on I have seen veris as pontless
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?" verifications mean something to one person and not a lot to the next, don't base your time here on them, they should just tell you that the person is genuine but to each of us we all have different taste so to you that means lol ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always look, I think it tells me a bit about the person by what they choose to display. Anything too graphic and I know we're probably not compatible.
I display most of mine, I think they give a bit of an idea what I'm like too. The ones I don't show tend to be cam ones from randoms proclaiming my beauty (I don't want anyone feeling disappointed!) or ones that are overly sexual. |
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"I only show a few social ones but yeah I always look at veris. I’m very nosey
Think this is a good approach
. You are hot by the way. And I always tell the truth on the forums "
Why thank you if I am honest I have been too busy perving on you to be replying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is massive off putting .
All they do is talk about sexual activities .
They never say if she is nice or relaxing or funny or a sweetheart …
I don’t wanna know if u done ping or pong . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is massive off putting .
All they do is talk about sexual activities .
They never say if she is nice or relaxing or funny or a sweetheart …
I don’t wanna know if u done ping or pong . "
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"Is massive off putting .
All they do is talk about sexual activities .
They never say if she is nice or relaxing or funny or a sweetheart …
I don’t wanna know if u done ping or pong . "
I like those kind. I’d rather see them. Makes me know I don’t want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always look.
If their profile says one thing but the veris say everything opposite.... it's a very easy nope
Many veris don't see the light of day but if they have posted a veri then they have rubber stamped what is in it and are proud of it so again, anything I find unpleasant or a turnoff there would inform my decision on whether they are a good match for me ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?"
I don’t read them because generally they all say the same thing but I am more hesitant to interact if they don’t have any at all. Funny considering I don’t yet have any but I’ve been on here before |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I show the ones that show I'm awesome. The ones where they point out I'm a loon, or where Colonel Decker shows up, I don't show "
Displaying the right selection of veri's can be a useful tool sometimes.
We have one on display from a TV/TS. (A definite loon )
Works as a great filter when people message to say they'd meet us if we hadn't.
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I show all mine, as the majority in here don't trust a single guy if he has no veris. I also display my summary, because you lose veris when people leave the site, so at least a potential new friend will hopefully feel assured I will actually turn up for a meet ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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I don't have any play veries so don't have to worry about showing them or not.
I only read them to see if they are consistent with the rest of the profile.
I've never seen a veri that would encourage me to meet someone but I've seen plenty that would put me off.
Usually because of who they were written by and I'm aware of the baggage they bring. |
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"Verifications - do people look, pay attention to these?
I don’t read them because generally they all say the same thing but I am more hesitant to interact if they don’t have any at all. Funny considering I don’t yet have any but I’ve been on here before"
Is that any on show? How about age of verification? |
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I only want to know someone is 'real'. I don't want to know who you've had sex with, how you went at it all night, how you arrived in your naughty lingerie, how you squirted in 5 secs, how much of a stallion you were ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I show the ones that show I'm awesome. The ones where they point out I'm a loon, or where Colonel Decker shows up, I don't show
Displaying the right selection of veri's can be a useful tool sometimes.
We have one on display from a TV/TS. (A definite loon )
Works as a great filter when people message to say they'd meet us if we hadn't.
A"
Yikes to people not meeting you, simply because you saw a glamorous Trans at a social, even though they are a total loon. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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