Maybe it's me, but it seems as though the number of couple profiles where both M & F are bi/bi curious is increasing.
Is that the case or am I imagining things?
(Just to note, this is not a criticism, just an observation)
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I think people have several influences on their coming out - firstly, as they gain experience, they may gain a greater understanding of their sexuality. And as more people come out, it has a social influence, thus encouraging others, who could have been hesitant to, if in a smaller group. There's been a major increase in social acceptance of others with differing sexualities since Fab started. It's reflected in clubs too |
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I think you evolve the longer you spend on fab, boundaries move, while you have no physical attraction to men, it's possible some guy/guy touching may happen during group play, a dick might get licked as it's entering / exiting a partner
So people may arrive straight but choose to change their profile to curious if their boundaries have changed |
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over a year ago
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I learnt a new word the other day which defines me perfectly:
Hetero flexible
I don’t fancy guys, but I’m not averse to some homosexual interaction in group play.
In not curious
I’m not fully bi
Definitely not gay |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.
We approve "
Yep.
There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.
But it's a positive change rather than a negative one. Assuming it's not just because straight guys are changing their status in the hope of dangling a a dick shaped carrot to get to the female in bi couples........
A |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if guys deal with their internalised homophobia, then they realise that being straight = narrow = boring. Less of the hate, more of the lurve! (or at least "don't mind")"
I really don't think that the way to get more people to choose "B" is to denigrate "A". There's a place for everything, through to "Z", and if that means being "M" and only doing stuff with other people who identify as "M" I hardly think calling it narrow and boring is constructive. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I hardly think calling it narrow and boring is constructive."
Well each to their own but I'm just going on my experience...
"Straight" guys who want to sex me either give me a list of things they will and won't do... Or ask me for a menu of stuff they would want to pick from.
You go figure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hardly think calling it narrow and boring is constructive.
Well each to their own but I'm just going on my experience...
"Straight" guys who want to sex me either give me a list of things they will and won't do... Or ask me for a menu of stuff they would want to pick from.
You go figure!"
That's fair, but I figure that "straight" guys who want to sex you, and straight guys who don't, are perhaps not in the same Venn segment. |
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"I learnt a new word the other day which defines me perfectly:
Hetero flexible
I don’t fancy guys, but I’m not averse to some homosexual interaction in group play.
In not curious
I’m not fully bi
Definitely not gay"
We've had hetexable on our profile since we joined. It pretty much sums us up perfectly.
MrWho. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"That's fair, but I figure that "straight" guys who want to sex you, and straight guys who don't, are perhaps not in the same Venn segment."
Where on the Venn they put themselves is not up to me to judge or police. Just get your kit off and jump in! |
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"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.
We approve
Yep.
There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.
But it's a positive change rather than a negative one. Assuming it's not just because straight guys are changing their status in the hope of dangling a a dick shaped carrot to get to the female in bi couples........
A"
You will always get the "fab" bi guys who say they are bi just to fuck the female but will only suck dick |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.
We approve
Yep.
There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.
But it's a positive change rather than a negative one. Assuming it's not just because straight guys are changing their status in the hope of dangling a a dick shaped carrot to get to the female in bi couples........
A
You will always get the "fab" bi guys who say they are bi just to fuck the female but will only suck dick "
Some of us have sensitive bums |
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"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.
We approve
Yep.
There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.
But it's a positive change rather than a negative one. Assuming it's not just because straight guys are changing their status in the hope of dangling a a dick shaped carrot to get to the female in bi couples........
A"
We had the fab bi guys contact us but we gathered they were only after fucking joanne really quickly and thats why we blocked all single guys soon after. We stick to cpls now. |
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"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.
We approve
Yep.
There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.
But it's a positive change rather than a negative one. Assuming it's not just because straight guys are changing their status in the hope of dangling a a dick shaped carrot to get to the female in bi couples........
A
We had the fab bi guys contact us but we gathered they were only after fucking joanne really quickly and thats why we blocked all single guys soon after. We stick to cpls now. "
I understand why you've done what you've done, but isn't that a little unfair on genuine bi guys that might want to play with you and not just Joanne? |
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"That's fair, but I figure that "straight" guys who want to sex you, and straight guys who don't, are perhaps not in the same Venn segment.
Where on the Venn they put themselves is not up to me to judge or police. Just get your kit off and jump in!"
And who would blame them as you are beautiful. |
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"Maybe it's me, but it seems as though the number of couple profiles where both M & F are bi/bi curious is increasing.
Is that the case or am I imagining things?
(Just to note, this is not a criticism, just an observation)
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Youre imagining things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont fancy men at all,but im mad for mutual oral with men, and ive only been in to it for 3 years
Straight guys sucking cock is such good fun.
Yeah, they're not straight "
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"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.
We approve
Yep.
There's still plenty of bi bashing and biphobia when it comes to men of course. There's never been the same when it comes to women.
But it's a positive change rather than a negative one. Assuming it's not just because straight guys are changing their status in the hope of dangling a a dick shaped carrot to get to the female in bi couples........
A
We had the fab bi guys contact us but we gathered they were only after fucking joanne really quickly and thats why we blocked all single guys soon after. We stick to cpls now. "
Equally there are straight women who might block certain acts.
I'm pansexual, but I'm attracted to feminine people whatever is inside their. Doesn't make me less bi. |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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Societies attitude to sexuality is changing and that's a really good thing.
When i was growing up there was real homophobia and a lot of men wouldn't dream of admitting they found anything sexual with a man exciting, but the younger generation are much more relaxed and that's changed attitudes for everyone.
Also add to this the fact that people are finally starting to get comfortable with the idea that sexuality is a scale, and not a binary thing, and you'll find more and more people trying new things.
This is all an incredibly positive thing, for society in general, for pressures on men and for general mental health.
Long may it continue |
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"Societies attitude to sexuality is changing and that's a really good thing.
When i was growing up there was real homophobia and a lot of men wouldn't dream of admitting they found anything sexual with a man exciting, but the younger generation are much more relaxed and that's changed attitudes for everyone.
Also add to this the fact that people are finally starting to get comfortable with the idea that sexuality is a scale, and not a binary thing, and you'll find more and more people trying new things.
This is all an incredibly positive thing, for society in general, for pressures on men and for general mental health.
Long may it continue"
Society, sure.
Fab's about as dopey as ever though.
Long may that continue, it's hilarious, Merry Christmas you bunch of madheads |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"Maybe it’s because men finally feel free enough on here to put it out there.
We approve "
I certainly do, would love to have another male fuckbuddy - my last relationship finished in August - and its even hotter that Rach is on board with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you evolve the longer you spend on fab, boundaries move, while you have no physical attraction to men, it's possible some guy/guy touching may happen during group play, a dick might get licked as it's entering / exiting a partner
So people may arrive straight but choose to change their profile to curious if their boundaries have changed " curious I've played, bisexual gone all the way still learning |
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