What actually counts as sex... penis + vagina = sex? but no, what about two ladies in a relationship smooshing vaginas, does scissoring count as sex? or is it defined by penetration? If so then does a finger up the butt count as sex? if a woman is pegging a man does that count as sex even though the woman has no penetration or orgasmed? Does giving oral count as sex?
It must mean different things for different people so how does everyone here define sex? |
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The context is far more important than the act
Just wrote to look like I know what I am talking about, but I absolutely don’t.
I read that line at hull’s gloryhole |
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"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.
If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex. lol  "
Are you laughing because you think I told a joke or because you don't have the capacity to understand what I mean and even less capacity to say what you think?
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Here's a thought contradictory to what I said ........
I said if sexual pleasure is gained then sex has occured...
Under that definition , what if one of the people didn't enjoy it.... did they have sex ?
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"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.
If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex. "
It doesn't sound very consensual. If someone looked at me and orgasmed (unlikely I know), then I wouldn't say we'd had sex. Assuming I even knew about it |
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I don't think anyone reading this struggles to define what is or isn't a sexual act or sexual contact or intercourse.
If you're sexually aroused.... whatever you do to get that way and whatever you do with it is a sexual thing = sex.
Just leave the non-consenting living and non-living out of it  |
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"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.
If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex.
It doesn't sound very consensual. If someone looked at me and orgasmed (unlikely I know), then I wouldn't say we'd had sex. Assuming I even knew about it"
No but I might have done.... |
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Let's label everything with a full set of attributes, activities and intentions, and create an encyclopaedia of the sexy stuff. I have in mind one of those Pokemon strategy guides with the cross reference tables and reference lookups etc. That should sort it out. |
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Hmmm... sounds like it's hard to define what sex is. Some say any sexual act and some disagree, some say penetration and some disagree, some say that the other person doesn't even have to be involved as long as they make you cum?
When you break it down you could definitely cause some trouble...
My doctor gave me a prostate exam and I enjoyed it a little too much, therefore the doctor just had sex... or according to some peoples definition anyways, or does that mean that I just took sexual advantage of my doctor? no because we both consented to the act I guess?
We definitely need this guid book to happen so we don't end up in trouble |
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Sex doesn’t have to be penetrative which is why I believe virginity as we define it is a heteronormative idea.
What it [sex] actually is I imagine differs from person to person.
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"Sex doesn’t have to be penetrative which is why I believe virginity as we define it is a heteronormative idea.
What it [sex] actually is I imagine differs from person to person.
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I agree that everyone has their own opinion on what it is but we need to agree on a definite answer. You say that it doesn't have to be penetrative so what does that look like? Is it me flicking your nipples till you cum therefore I just had gay sex? |
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"Sex doesn’t have to be penetrative which is why I believe virginity as we define it is a heteronormative idea.
What it [sex] actually is I imagine differs from person to person.
I agree that everyone has their own opinion on what it is but we need to agree on a definite answer. You say that it doesn't have to be penetrative so what does that look like? Is it me flicking your nipples till you cum therefore I just had gay sex?"
If you did that with me I’d say we had sex of some sort. Don’t need to add gay before it. Sex is sex.  |
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"There's lots of types of sex, penetration sex, oral sex, not necessarily cock in vag = sex "
Ah yes, but I wouldn't count oral as sex though. I could go down on women and received nothing in return, but I wouldn't go as far to count that as sex. If oral or even a good old fashioned finger bang counts as sex then everyone's body count would be doubled. |
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"If sexual pleasure is derived then it is sex.
If I looked at someone who turned me on till I orgasmed ..... then we've had sex. "
Bill Clinton would disagree
He did naht have sexual relations with that woman |
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"When people ask on here, how many times you have sex, I never know how to answer because what counts as one time?
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So if your a repeat cummer and you shoot your load let's say 3 times in one session, and the other person cums once, how many times did you have sex? One session = one time or is it counted by the load? |
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"There's lots of types of sex, penetration sex, oral sex, not necessarily cock in vag = sex
Ah yes, but I wouldn't count oral as sex though. I could go down on women and received nothing in return, but I wouldn't go as far to count that as sex. If oral or even a good old fashioned finger bang counts as sex then everyone's body count would be doubled."
Body count. Grim. I can't quite express how much I hate that term so I'll settle for grim.
That aside, of course oral is sex. Oral. Sex. It's actually a term. The idea that sex is only if it's a penetrative penis in vagina thing is heteronormative at it's greatest. There's not a definite answer, even by the great fora hive mind. |
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"If I touch my chip implanted fingertips against a computer simulation and get it on ....... is that sex ?
Elon has entered the chat "
I musk admit, that made me laugh. |
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"There's lots of types of sex, penetration sex, oral sex, not necessarily cock in vag = sex
Ah yes, but I wouldn't count oral as sex though. I could go down on women and received nothing in return, but I wouldn't go as far to count that as sex. If oral or even a good old fashioned finger bang counts as sex then everyone's body count would be doubled."
Definitely counts
It's sexual contact
I mean, going on a tangent a little, if you did any of that without consent it'd be sexual assault or oral r*p*
So, yeah, they're all versions of sex |
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"When people ask on here, how many times you have sex, I never know how to answer because what counts as one time?
C"
Ahhh the beauty of the english language strikes again.
'We had sex once' could mean we had a ons and fucked like rabbits until we lost count
Or
The literal once, one single trip round the honeypot and up the flagpole went she  |
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"Oh god, he said scissoring.
Now I'm having impure thoughts.
Send me female help!
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Scissoring 
C
Tis a beautiful sight to watch "
Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.
I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain |
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"Oh god, he said scissoring.
Now I'm having impure thoughts.
Send me female help!
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Scissoring
C
Tis a beautiful sight to watch
Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.
I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain "
Hell no I’m not kidding! |
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"Oh god, he said scissoring.
Now I'm having impure thoughts.
Send me female help!
T
Scissoring
C
Tis a beautiful sight to watch
Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.
I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain
Hell no I’m not kidding!"
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"Oh god, he said scissoring.
Now I'm having impure thoughts.
Send me female help!
T
Scissoring
C
Tis a beautiful sight to watch "
I can confirm, having been a witness to said act a number of times, that scissoring is hot AF 
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"Oh god, he said scissoring.
Now I'm having impure thoughts.
Send me female help!
T
Scissoring
C
Tis a beautiful sight to watch
Can't tell if you're all kidding, one of the least sexy things ever thought of.
I'm going with kidding and bleaching my brain "
I certainly wasn't kidding!
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