Any couples who have pulled a third in a normal situation (pub, club, etc) by dropping into conversation their involvement in the lifestyle?
We’ve only ever done it once and she was obviously intrigued / keen, but was whisked away by her friends  |
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over a year ago
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I think ‘Vanilla’ or just people that don’t label themselves as in a swinging lifestyle are a bit more open minded to try things.
Fabs shown me that most in here have rules and if I don’t fit them we’re never even going to talk.
It’s not a dig at anyone, it’s just my experience. In the real world I get to talk to people, and people are normaly easier to talk to like that, and as you say, the intrigue is probably a great help to rather than the been there, done that! |
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I’ve found that people who identity as a ‘swinger’ predominantly don’t like to share. The ‘vanilla’ type are less inclined to be ‘exclusive’ shall we say. |
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"I’ve found that people who identity as a ‘swinger’ predominantly don’t like to share. The ‘vanilla’ type are less inclined to be ‘exclusive’ shall we say. "
I assume you're referring to singles as otherwise what's swinging about. |
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We met a lovely girl while on holiday in Fuerte.
Very pretty and a foot model.
She was on her own and we struck up a conversation that ended up with her joining us on the naturist roof terrace.
She went topless and asked lots of questions about the lifestyle but it didn’t progress any further sadly.
We saw her around the hotel a few more times and it was all still friendly.
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Very pretty and a foot model.
A foot model? People make a living out of that? My mind is blown lol"
Yep. There’s even a specific website for all aspects of it. ‘Footfinder’ apparently.
She did have amazingly pretty feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On a serious note the subject of the thread is extremely intriguing, a scenario like that happening so naturally without pressure and expectations just 3 people having a conversation, a flirt, a laugh is how it should be … in my opinion. |
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By * and KCouple
over a year ago
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We can get guys pretty easily. Girls on the other hand are a unicorn. K is a natural flirt and draws attention to herself so guys tend to approach her\us. Not so much luck with the girls though even when K tries. |
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A few years ago my female friend and I got chatting to a lovely guy in a pub whilst in Blackpool. He was with his mum and aunt and looked fed up. He asked where we were going afterwards and we told him we were going to Infusions. Within an hour the 3 of us were romping naked in the steamroom. Happy days. Certainly cheered him up. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"A few years ago my female friend and I got chatting to a lovely guy in a pub whilst in Blackpool. He was with his mum and aunt and looked fed up. He asked where we were going afterwards and we told him we were going to Infusions. Within an hour the 3 of us were romping naked in the steamroom. Happy days. Certainly cheered him up."
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"A few years ago my female friend and I got chatting to a lovely guy in a pub whilst in Blackpool. He was with his mum and aunt and looked fed up. He asked where we were going afterwards and we told him we were going to Infusions. Within an hour the 3 of us were romping naked in the steamroom. Happy days. Certainly cheered him up."
Who wouldn't be cheered up by a stream room romp with the delightful bluebell  AND a female friend.
I would have thought I had died and gone to heaven. |
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When I first joined this site back in 2006 getting meets in general was easy as everyone was into the same thing ie getting laid
As the site has progressed the ratio of men to women is so ridiculous meets very rarely happen for single guys especially now at my age
Dropping the lifestyle into conversation used to be fun and would meet with interest however, with recent events ie Metoo movement etc your scared to mention sex to a stranger never mind the swinging lifestyle without fear of being ostracised. |
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