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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago
northumberland/scotland |
Fab names.
When you get chatting to someone, or people, do you like to know their real name? Prefer the aspect of anonymity?
I guess it depends if their username is like standing on lego but, I think you know what I mean.
Cheers tiny phone people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends really.
But if the situation evolves I’d like to know their real first name at last.
Had an experience where I was seeing a woman on a regular basis, like 5 days a week during 2 years to discover that she didn’t even give me her real first name  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab names.
When you get chatting to someone, or people, do you like to know their real name? Prefer the aspect of anonymity?
I guess it depends if their username is like standing on lego but, I think you know what I mean.
Cheers tiny phone people. "
If I’m willing to meet up with someone outside of fab, I give my name, and ask gif theirs.
If I think it’ll just stay on fab. I don’t. Weird I know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See, I quite like the... I dunno, allure? Of the persona as opposed to the reality. This is a fantasy lifestyle after all"
You were crap at keeping you're real name mystery from me!
Nell |
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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago
northumberland/scotland |
"See, I quite like the... I dunno, allure? Of the persona as opposed to the reality. This is a fantasy lifestyle after all
You were crap at keeping you're real name mystery from me!
Nell"
Listen, Ethel, just because we opened up, doesn't give you the right to barge in here  |
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Some people really lean in to their Fab alter-ego. So much so that their real name doesn’t seem to fit as well as their chosen pen name. That can be a lot of fun.
Others are just themselves. And for some, sharing their real name is a sign of trust and intimacy - in which case damn right I’ll call them by it. |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
Depends on how well I get to know someone and if get to the meet and more stage. Think I knew someone's real name I'd still refer to them as their name on here if that's their preference as view it as nickname almost xT  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See, I quite like the... I dunno, allure? Of the persona as opposed to the reality. This is a fantasy lifestyle after all
You were crap at keeping you're real name mystery from me!
Nell
Listen, Ethel, just because we opened up, doesn't give you the right to barge in here "
Pffft, don't get salty with me, Derek. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
We generally go by our Fab names.
People we know well will know our real ones.
For one off meets or club/social stuff it'll be the Fab ones.
Does it really make a difference if you don't know someone's name, exact age, address, phone number, inside leg measurement or where they holidayed 10 years ago..... 
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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I give my real name if I'm chatting to someone and they tell me their name, I have had a couple of men stop talking to me when they found out my real name isn't Scarlett they were very disappointed, my real names not that bad tho honest!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.
If I was meeting someone for sex that I didn't know that well or attending a big social I'd use my middle name. |
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"I like to be called Sally when I meet, even though it isn't my real name. When I am Sally I feel sexy, not like the mum and housewife in leggings and a cardigan I really am. "
That other woman sounds sexy too 
Just realised yesterday that my long standing swinger friend didn't know my real name when I told her not to address a parcel to [username]! So it does happen that sometimes a username will stick.
Last time I met with someone he didn't tell me his name and didn't ask for mine which I thought was weird, first time this has happened to me, but I guess real names don't mean anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them. "
Princess Consuela Banana Hammock? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"….. I have had a couple of men stop talking to me when they found out my real name isn't Scarlett they were very disappointed, my real names not that bad tho honest! "
Pardon?  people are weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.
Princess Consuela Banana Hammock?"
Ah fuck. You got me.
You did make me laugh!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.
Princess Consuela Banana Hammock?
Ah fuck. You got me.
You did make me laugh!! "
I knew it was you. |
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"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.
If I was meeting someone for sex that I didn't know that well or attending a big social I'd use my middle name."
AHH Rapunzel, Rapunzel. Your secret is safe. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes. It depends. Very rarely. Most people call me Meli anyway, even those I'm really close to! I think it's kind of stuck now. It kind of always surprises me when my close friends use my real name. I'm either in trouble or they're being adorkable. |
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"Sometimes. It depends. Very rarely. Most people call me Meli anyway, even those I'm really close to! I think it's kind of stuck now. It kind of always surprises me when my close friends use my real name. I'm either in trouble or they're being adorkable."
Yes you are just Meli. |
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"Having been at the receiving end of 4 black mail attempts on this site, and a very determined stalker, I don't give my real name to anyone unless they are trusted regulars. "
Bloody hell, this site creeps me out every so often. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I go by Bo on here even when I meet someone I don't see the need to share my name unless we meet regularly. In saying that I was meeting one person for a few months when we realised we didn't know each others actual names.
I guess it could be a bit more awkward using fab names if the name is something along the lines of pussylicker or something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to be called Sally when I meet, even though it isn't my real name. When I am Sally I feel sexy, not like the mum and housewife in leggings and a cardigan I really am. "
Leggings and cardigans are sexy too. |
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I don't always tell people, they don't always ask. I guess because my username is actually a proper name, some times I tell them it's my real name, short for Miriam.
But if we're going to meet and I'm giving them my number, they get my real name. |
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I don't mind giving my real name to people that I've chatted to beyond a superficial level, but most just call me Lily anyway. I don't mind either name as Lily doesn't sound too weird when people call me it in public.
In a previous incarnation on here my username was Theresa Green, and I used to get frequent messages warning me that I shouldn't use my real name because there are weirdos on here....always made me chuckle and remember the old knock knock joke that I'd got the name from. Guess they'd never heard it |
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"I always give my real name, I don’t mind people not giving their real name, but I get a little coy on a social if I have to walk up to someone and say “excuse me, are you flapsahoy?”"
. That’s why I’m glad my username is an actual name. Even the ones who I've been friends for years with and know me really well call me nora. It’s a bit embarrassing when people shout it across a room though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always give my real name, I don’t mind people not giving their real name, but I get a little coy on a social if I have to walk up to someone and say “excuse me, are you flapsahoy?”
. That’s why I’m glad my username is an actual name. Even the ones who I've been friends for years with and know me really well call me nora. It’s a bit embarrassing when people shout it across a room though. "
I'm glad my username is a real name too. |
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"I always give my real name, I don’t mind people not giving their real name, but I get a little coy on a social if I have to walk up to someone and say “excuse me, are you flapsahoy?”
. That’s why I’m glad my username is an actual name. Even the ones who I've been friends for years with and know me really well call me nora. It’s a bit embarrassing when people shout it across a room though.
I'm glad my username is a real name too. "
You do actually call me by my real name haha. Not many do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't give my name out because it's so unique. I'd have to have a lot of trust in someone and believe they are genuine to be able to tell them.
Princess Consuela Banana Hammock?
Ah fuck. You got me.
You did make me laugh!! "
Well if I told you my real name is Lord LoveRocket.. |
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