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Out of curiousity, what's your thoughts on how long a man should last?
Because let's be real the average man probably around 5 minutes? If they're lucky..
Figured it would be fun to hear your thoughts and what women think is the ideal time. |
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"Google says the average is 7 minutes. On Fab however it's hours and hours 
So I stand corrected, 7 minutes it is! Couple of blueys hours and hours could be possible  "
You'll find that most women would find that boring and offputting. No matter how high their sex drive having a jackhammer with no off switch would just rattle their dentures. |
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"Google says the average is 7 minutes. On Fab however it's hours and hours
So I stand corrected, 7 minutes it is! Couple of blueys hours and hours could be possible
You'll find that most women would find that boring and offputting. No matter how high their sex drive having a jackhammer with no off switch would just rattle their dentures. "
Surely that's why you mix it up with sensual kissing, plenty of oral, various positions and angles, move rooms etc. Lasting only 7 minutes and doing nothing else is IMHO lazy, selfish and disrespectful. Agreed not everyone is crazy for hours of extended play time but there are a lot that are  |
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"Google says the average is 7 minutes. On Fab however it's hours and hours
So I stand corrected, 7 minutes it is! Couple of blueys hours and hours could be possible "
You've been watching too much porn mate  |
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"Out of curiousity, what's your thoughts on how long a man should last?
Because let's be real the average man probably around 5 minutes? If they're lucky..
Figured it would be fun to hear your thoughts and what women think is the ideal time. "
That includes 4 minutes of foreplay  |
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If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run |
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"If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run "
Splat and run  |
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The husband told his wife :
Look , this thing of u always horny and need some is getting a bit to much .
I’m gonna start charging :
£10 for 1 on floor
£20 for 1 on sofa
£50 in bed .
She grabbed her purse :
“ you know what ? U a cunt !
And got £100 in cash right in his face …
“ oh… I see u need 2 in bed …
- No . I want 10 on the floor . Now … get to work |
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"If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run "
Natalie, every time I read one of your post I laugh. In a good way. Refreshingly natural and saying it as it is |
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"If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run
Splat and run "
but it’s true though that’s what it’s like splat clothes stright on and run out the door pating you in the back on the way out saying thanks I see you soon
Emmm no sorry you will not it’s took me a day and hafe to get ready
End up back on fab offing second flying the meet now flag just so that day and hafe prep wasn’t a waste off effort |
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"If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run
Natalie, every time I read one of your post I laugh. In a good way. Refreshingly natural and saying it as it is "
Thanks I do tend to just put down my true thoughts unfiltered ha ha |
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"If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run
Natalie, every time I read one of your post I laugh. In a good way. Refreshingly natural and saying it as it is
Thanks I do tend to just put down my true thoughts unfiltered ha ha "
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"If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run
Splat and run
but it’s true though that’s what it’s like splat clothes stright on and run out the door pating you in the back on the way out saying thanks I see you soon
Emmm no sorry you will not it’s took me a day and hafe to get ready
End up back on fab offing second flying the meet now flag just so that day and hafe prep wasn’t a waste off effort "
You crack me up Natalie x |
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"Mrs actually finds it a compliment if she can get a guy to cum in minutes, she says she must be doing something right 
But pleased if he can go again when he's ready."
I quite like it too. As long as he can go again |
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"Mrs actually finds it a compliment if she can get a guy to cum in minutes, she says she must be doing something right
But pleased if he can go again when he's ready."
If I come on Monday I can be ready again on Wednesday? |
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
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"Out of curiousity, what's your thoughts on how long a man should last?
Because let's be real the average man probably around 5 minutes? If they're lucky..
Figured it would be fun to hear your thoughts and what women think is the ideal time. "
Are we talking penetration or can I include a bit of nipple play first, if so 2.5 minutes for each nipple then 30 seconds hard at it |
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"If you need to blow just blow it’s ok there no shame in brakes and rounds 2-3-4-5
Now if you blow and ran within 5 minutes then yes wouldn’t be all that to impress at all
Probably wouldn’t get a reapet meet
But if you blow in the first 2 minutes and say give me 5 or 10 minutes to re load then all is good
I think it’s more to do with the effort people put in to a meet and the other person not resipcing that effort
But the fact people want you shaved make up nice clothes and lingerie and stuff on
Now that takes time do people think that me wasting a day hafe for a 5 minute splat and run is worth it
If people were ok about me not looking done up to the max then I wouldn’t mind a 5 minute splat and run
Splat and run
but it’s true though that’s what it’s like splat clothes stright on and run out the door pating you in the back on the way out saying thanks I see you soon
Emmm no sorry you will not it’s took me a day and hafe to get ready
End up back on fab offing second flying the meet now flag just so that day and hafe prep wasn’t a waste off effort
You crack me up Natalie x"
Your welcome x |
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It depends really. If we’re just talking penetration, then after about 15 minutes it just gets repetitive but once you start to include foreplay, it’s hard to really put a limit on it. That’s just for straight sex.
Because with women? It can go on for hours. Just depends. |
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its called self control. You are not there just to please yourself but the women you are with as well. If you feel yourself getting close. Stop. then try something different. There are also gels you can buy to slow you down. Whilst there is a time for a quickie, in which case 5 mins is fine. I'd be looking to last at least 20 minutes, for the actual act, but plenty of foreplay before and after. |
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I’ve met a guy who lasted for hours. Dull, banging away at my cervix from behind, no imagination, talking or attempt at connection, I didn’t return. I’ve met guys who’ve lasted minutes but the effort they put in at the rest - the build up, setting, dirty talk, kissing, foreplay, and those minutes…ufff.
Those minutes have lasted far longer in my mind. |
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"Surely, natures intention is that they only last long enough to fertilise or pass on a disease?
Neither of these two imperatives care about how long the pleasure lasts!"
That's why many guys hump, splurge, grunt and snore within the same minute, presumably? |
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Surely, nature's intention is that they only last long enough to fertilise or pass on a disease?
Neither of these two imperatives care about how long the pleasure lasts!
Corrected but not before someone replied to it! |
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Good sex should contain so much more than penetration. No woman wants to be rogered frantically for half an hour , a little hard and fast is nice , but needs to be alternated with some slow and deep , and grinding ...like a waltz ,slow ,slow quick quick slow . Point being you should try to last as long as is needed for her to orgasm . Aim for long distance ,not a sprint |
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"I’ve met a guy who lasted for hours. Dull, banging away at my cervix from behind, no imagination, talking or attempt at connection, I didn’t return. I’ve met guys who’ve lasted minutes but the effort they put in at the rest - the build up, setting, dirty talk, kissing, foreplay, and those minutes…ufff.
Those minutes have lasted far longer in my mind."
My fav answer upto yet.. |
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"If it is a pleasurable experience for both, does it matter"
No it don't matter.. but that's the point it's just a topic/ discussion, to see how it varies from person to person on what's expected or liked ect. |
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I don't meet for quickies, I like to play for a few hours. If they're not repeaters, then edging is a skill I've come to be quite good at, but if they do succumb quite quickly, the blue pill is a godsend. I'm a bit insatiable, so to be on the absolute safe side, two cocks and a slick tag team effort is my first choice. |
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"Not so long that my mind sways to the weekly shopping list as he bangs away...
Ironically exactly what he’s thinking about to try and make himself last longer. "
Now that would make a good curious thread |
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"Out of curiousity, what's your thoughts on how long a man should last?
Because let's be real the average man probably around 5 minutes? If they're lucky..
Figured it would be fun to hear your thoughts and what women think is the ideal time. "
Fucking 5 minutes that got to be made up.....
A very hot quickly yes maybe 5 but sex should be at least 10 minutes of penetration there no way Mrs would get anywhere close in 5 minutes.
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"Out of curiousity, what's your thoughts on how long a man should last?
Because let's be real the average man probably around 5 minutes? If they're lucky..
Figured it would be fun to hear your thoughts and what women think is the ideal time. "
5 minutes? Does that include foreplay? |
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when i was younger, not inc the foreplay/fingering,licking,kissing etc etc - so when all 7 inches was in on avverage about 25 mins i guess, ie slow to fast fucking and slowing an a moments rest and slow and fast fucking and when my wife said "finish it" full sped banging 5/10 mins. We had a really good bed/matress an, haedboard fixed to wall and a detached house. We nearly broke our sofa once as I banged her so hard as Mrs was so demanding at that time |
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As long as everyone is having fun is all that matters, bit strange to base your entire performance on how many minutes go by. Also nobody gives the ladies a hard time when they cum quickly, how long should a woman last? |
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I’ve always wondered that, but I cum pretty quick, but that doesn’t bother me coz I can stay hard and keep going,
Best thing to do is have a wank before pleasuring the lady, then you can go a hell of a lot longer before you cum the second time |
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It's hard to put a time to it, as it really just depends on the situation. But generally I like it to last at least a couple of hours, with a lot of foreplay and build up, and some relaxing at some points during. I definitely prefer it not to be a linear process like in porn! |
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"Because let's be real the average man probably around 5 minutes? If they're lucky.. "
Hi OP, could we maybe get together sometime for a skinny Ralph Macchiato?
I'd like to learn your techniques for finishing a man off in 5 minutes. Teach me your ways.
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I'd say my partner lasts on average 10 or 15 minutes but that's with lots of stopping and teasing otherwise he would be done in 10 seconds.
If it was my first time with someone I'd like a decent sesh and I would hope to go for at least an hour to fully enjoy and appreciate each other. But accidents happen I suppose. As long as he would let me suck his floppy cock afterwards I'll be OK. |
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30 secs definitely not
5 minutes nope
7 minutes nope
Take it you mean after hours of foreplay first ofcourse but somewhere between half hr and an hr or even longer should be a great session then go again when they are ready....
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"Long enough but not too long coz...chaffing
Light me up don't light me on fire 
Lots of coconut oil, crack on "
Not a fan of coconut tbh but whilst lube is definitely your friend it's a mixed blessing as it inhibits / delays orgasm so also not so great |
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"Long enough but not too long coz...chaffing
Light me up don't light me on fire
Lots of coconut oil, crack on
Not a fan of coconut tbh but whilst lube is definitely your friend it's a mixed blessing as it inhibits / delays orgasm so also not so great "
This is where I'm going wrong then because I get through lots |
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"Long enough but not too long coz...chaffing
Light me up don't light me on fire
Lots of coconut oil, crack on
Not a fan of coconut tbh but whilst lube is definitely your friend it's a mixed blessing as it inhibits / delays orgasm so also not so great
This is where I'm going wrong then because I get through lots "
Well your boy bits likely like it just fine |
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"Long enough but not too long coz...chaffing
Light me up don't light me on fire
Lots of coconut oil, crack on
Not a fan of coconut tbh but whilst lube is definitely your friend it's a mixed blessing as it inhibits / delays orgasm so also not so great
This is where I'm going wrong then because I get through lots
Well your boy bits likely like it just fine "
Even with lots of lube you can end up sore and that's not pleasant |
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"30 secs definitely not
5 minutes nope
7 minutes nope
Take it you mean after hours of foreplay first ofcourse but somewhere between half hr and an hr or even longer should be a great session then go again when they are ready....
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An hour?!?!? I hope you're not one of the ones that just lie there while the dude does all the work and then complains he doesn't have stamina  |
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"Long enough but not too long coz...chaffing
Light me up don't light me on fire
Lots of coconut oil, crack on
Not a fan of coconut tbh but whilst lube is definitely your friend it's a mixed blessing as it inhibits / delays orgasm so also not so great
This is where I'm going wrong then because I get through lots
Well your boy bits likely like it just fine
Even with lots of lube you can end up sore and that's not pleasant "
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"If a man is too quick that's his fault.
If a woman takes too long that's also his fault.
Is it my fault I last too long or hers?
Even I get frustrated with myself "
I feel your pain, Brother
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"I don’t think there is a ‘should’ to it. There are plenty of things you can do without having an erect penis "
Tell us more Babs. I like dropping nuts like Coco trees |
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"If a man is too quick that's his fault.
If a woman takes too long that's also his fault.
Is it my fault I last too long or hers?
Even I get frustrated with myself
I feel your pain, Brother
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I'm sorry you suffer with sore penis as well |
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"30 secs definitely not
5 minutes nope
7 minutes nope
Take it you mean after hours of foreplay first ofcourse but somewhere between half hr and an hr or even longer should be a great session then go again when they are ready....
An hour?!?!? I hope you're not one of the ones that just lie there while the dude does all the work and then complains he doesn't have stamina "
Jeez most definitely not I give as much as I get! All positions covered and lots of oral too...its not a quickie am looking as it's always a let down...  |
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