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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cause they are nosey?
Cause they use filters and want to look for men themselves instead of being inundated with FAF messages?
Cause they are Fab straight?
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
scrolling through profiles and phone selects a male profile accidentally or click on a profile to have a look after comment made in forums or name suggests a couple who knows lots of other reasons really  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Not looking fir single men means that they don't want single men messaging them. Possibly because as soon as they look at someone it prompts a message "
Or wants to know why they're looking but can't ask them so asks the forums instead.  
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
Looking for inspiration for their own photo gallery?
*Looks. Finds fuck all. Fucks off.
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
It's annoying as hell, same with couples. However it is a free country but if someone looks at my profile I reserve the right to mail them. If they have blocked single men I put them on my block list. That way we don't waste our time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it not possible they might not be looking right now but could be in the future so are keeping their options open? Having a nose? Is it really that deep?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too right, they're doing it wrong.
Let's have em off this site.
It's for, le sex. If they do anything other than the sole pure pursuit of that, its wasting time.
And time is everyone's.
No need! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what you mean OP.
It is just like the people who look in an estate agents window when they are not moving house. How dare they show an interest in something they don’t want right there and then? What madness is this world coming too? 
NB: Please feel free to read this post with which ever level of sarcasm you think is appropriate. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
It's annoying as hell, same with couples. However it is a free country but if someone looks at my profile I reserve the right to mail them. If they have blocked single men I put them on my block list. That way we don't waste our time."
You do understand that the 'Not Looking For Single Me' is a line that appears by default when someone (anyone - man, woman, TV or couple) applies a filter to prevent incoming messages from single men?
It doesn't mean they're not looking to meet them at all.
But go for it - shoot yourself in the foot and block your target audience.
If more single men learnt how the site works and the functions of filters and other site tools then they'd probably lead a far less stressful life on Fab and would be able to use the site better and get more enjoyment from it.
Just a thought.......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
Who says they aren't looking?
Are we only allowed to look at profiles if we want to fuck the person?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they're taking charge of who they want to contact them. Some women and couples are bombarded with messages. This filters that out. They can look at profiles they might potentially be interested in or just being nosey, without that person seeing they viewed them amd messaging.
It's terrible the way some people want to use this site. |
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"Not looking fir single men means that they don't want single men messaging them. Possibly because as soon as they look at someone it prompts a message "
Yep or don’t want local updates full up with 90% of cock pics and shite from single men. We want that to focus on things from couples and ladies. Doesn’t mean we don’t go fishing and searching for men sometimes ourselves. |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
Lol! Nosey and...it's the message filter. I only just realised that. Lol! If I put the message filter on for men, it automatically says on my profile that I don't want men. Lol!
Now let me go nosey on the OP's profile. |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
It's annoying as hell, same with couples. However it is a free country but if someone looks at my profile I reserve the right to mail them. If they have blocked single men I put them on my block list. That way we don't waste our time.
You do understand that the 'Not Looking For Single Me' is a line that appears by default when someone (anyone - man, woman, TV or couple) applies a filter to prevent incoming messages from single men?
It doesn't mean they're not looking to meet them at all.
But go for it - shoot yourself in the foot and block your target audience.
If more single men learnt how the site works and the functions of filters and other site tools then they'd probably lead a far less stressful life on Fab and would be able to use the site better and get more enjoyment from it.
Just a thought.......
A"
I'm still learning myself. Lol! That's why I'm here in the forums to learn. Being neurodivergent mean what is blindingly obvious to everyone else is blissfully oblivious to me!
Yes I ask too many questions. Sorry. It's because I genuinely have a hard time understanding people. |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
Shhhh, just enjoy the fact that someone looked at your profile, you lucky thing!"
*goes to look at Big Barry's bear bi shorts*
Yummy. I like bears. Don't worry you are safely far away outside of London.
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"Because it boils the piss of some people and isn’t that a delightful thought? "
*Goes to look at Decadent Calvin Kleins*
Don't worry you are too far away for me to amble my middle-aged, peri-menopausal bones.
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"Not looking fir single men means that they don't want single men messaging them. Possibly because as soon as they look at someone it prompts a message
Yep or don’t want local updates full up with 90% of cock pics and shite from single men. We want that to focus on things from couples and ladies. Doesn’t mean we don’t go fishing and searching for men sometimes ourselves. "
I like the fact that the couples messages don't get lost in the melee of men messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
I know of some couples who have blocked single men, but with the idea of being able to look for who they like and contact them without being bombarded when they view profiles.
It's fair enough, and actually a genius way to avoid their inbox being spammed |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
Shhhh, just enjoy the fact that someone looked at your profile, you lucky thing!
*goes to look at Big Barry's bear bi shorts*
Yummy. I like bears. Don't worry you are safely far away outside of London.
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I am not worried and you are welcome to ogle my bear shorts whenever you want. Londinium is only 40 mins on the train from my home. |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
Shhhh, just enjoy the fact that someone looked at your profile, you lucky thing!
*goes to look at Big Barry's bear bi shorts*
Yummy. I like bears. Don't worry you are safely far away outside of London.
I am not worried and you are welcome to ogle my bear shorts whenever you want. Londinium is only 40 mins on the train from my home. "
I live on the other side of London so that will be two hours with train delays. Lol! |
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"Honestly, because I can and there's nothing you can do about it!
MWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA......
(runs away, laughing maniacally....)
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Cackle out loud. Poor OP. I want to pat him on the back and say
"there there. It's ok that the mean people don't want you messaging them.
Tea? Biscuit? Tell you what I'll put the kettle on." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally agree, it so pisses me off when that phrase is used and then they look at the profile!"
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Looked and guess what?
I'm not looking for single guys!! |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
On reflection what puzzles me more is those who have an age preference lower than mine who look at my profile knowing full well I don't meet their criteria.what are they expecting to find that's diffrent? But like I said it's a free site. |
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"Totally agree, it so pisses me off when that phrase is used and then they look at the profile!"
Seems like a rather minor thing to get pissed off about. You've only been here 8 weeks as well. Sure you will find much more important things to get pissed off about. Good luck finding under 25 ladies by the way. |
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Not looking for single guys is just another way of saying, "Don't call us, we'll call you," and if they think that after reading your profile that you are worth a punt, messaging you is exactly what they'll do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
We had to block single men from messaging as it was just getting ridiculous, however we do want to have fun with single guys so will actively view single guys’ profiles to see if there’s anyone we think we’d like to get to know better
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"Totally agree, it so pisses me off when that phrase is used and then they look at the profile!
Seems like a rather minor thing to get pissed off about. You've only been here 8 weeks as well. Sure you will find much more important things to get pissed off about. Good luck finding under 25 ladies by the way. "
I never knew "just looking" could cause so much angst....Bloody hell...now I know why so men have high blood pressure and heart attacks.
Feels like I need to share out my sedatives...
I don't even bother looking at who looks at me......I've got enough daily mind fucks I don't need to add to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
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This is incredibly rude and unnecessary. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
We had to block single men from messaging as it was just getting ridiculous, however we do want to have fun with single guys so will actively view single guys’ profiles to see if there’s anyone we think we’d like to get to know better
F (Mrs)"
Fair enough. It us nice to be noticed I suppose though a little disheartening when one dosnt get a hello. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
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Now come on, you love me really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
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Danm bruh you need to get laid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
Danm bruh you need to get laid "
Out |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
This is incredibly rude and unnecessary. "
So was the comment about men we may be on a site like this but we also have feelings and sweeping generalisations like are also incredibly rude rude and unnecessary.
It seems that woman can be rude but men can not reply to a derogatory comment, is a double standard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
This is incredibly rude and unnecessary.
So was the comment about men we may be on a site like this but we also have feelings and sweeping generalisations like are also incredibly rude rude and unnecessary.
It seems that woman can be rude but men can not reply to a derogatory comment, is a double standard."
I'm not complaining! Be as rude as you want. |
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
This is incredibly rude and unnecessary.
So was the comment about men we may be on a site like this but we also have feelings and sweeping generalisations like are also incredibly rude rude and unnecessary.
It seems that woman can be rude but men can not reply to a derogatory comment, is a double standard."
It also seems that some can’t see the difference between serious and sarcasm/tongue in cheek comments. It happens though and people misinterpret. |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
On reflection what puzzles me more is those who have an age preference lower than mine who look at my profile knowing full well I don't meet their criteria.what are they expecting to find that's diffrent? But like I said it's a free site."
How do people know your age before they look at your profile????
Maybe you would be the exception to the rule??? |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
Same reasons people look at anything on line... Browsing... False clicks.. Why does it trouble you so op?
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
This is incredibly rude and unnecessary.
So was the comment about men we may be on a site like this but we also have feelings and sweeping generalisations like are also incredibly rude rude and unnecessary.
It seems that woman can be rude but men can not reply to a derogatory comment, is a double standard."
To some extent there is a double standard and men get more grief BUT big difference between general comments against all men or ladies and directly being rude or abusive. That is against Forum rules and tends to result in ban for a few days. We know - we've had them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they are doing the hunting themselves?
Maybe they are nosey
Who knows
We’re allowed to if we want to though…
Exactly this "
I forgot, because we can |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile. "
Just to tease and annoy you lol. Seriously you should actually be flattered if someone not looking for single men has taken the time to look at your profile, then you have to figure out why they didn't wink or send a message and put it right because you were obviously on the radar briefly. |
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Look I rarely if ever post like this but something happened the other night and I'm not going to go into detail because I'm not going to call out the other people its not something I would do but it really got under my skin what they did. I hope I didn't upset anyone with this post. |
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"Look I rarely if ever post like this but something happened the other night and I'm not going to go into detail because I'm not going to call out the other people its not something I would do but it really got under my skin what they did. I hope I didn't upset anyone with this post. "
So more to this than somebody just looking at your profile like you said initially? Perhaps if gets under your skin so much this is not a good site for you. Constant crap goes with the territory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You men moan about everything.
So do you. Why not take a chisle to that giant chip on your shoulder and give yourself and the rest of the world a break?
Danm bruh you need to get laid
Out"
Tea time, maybe he's hungry |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
Who says they aren't looking?
Are we only allowed to look at profiles if we want to fuck the person? "
Trouble is, you don't know if you want to fuck them unless you look at their profile.
We look all the time.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.
Nope.
Winston |
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
Who says they aren't looking?
Are we only allowed to look at profiles if we want to fuck the person?
Trouble is, you don't know if you want to fuck them unless you look at their profile.
We look all the time.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.
Nope.
Winston "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
It's annoying as hell, same with couples. However it is a free country but if someone looks at my profile I reserve the right to mail them. If they have blocked single men I put them on my block list. That way we don't waste our time."
Why is it annoying as hell though?
Please explain cause I don't get why anyone would be annoyed by someone looking at a public profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
Who says they aren't looking?
Are we only allowed to look at profiles if we want to fuck the person?
Trouble is, you don't know if you want to fuck them unless you look at their profile.
We look all the time.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.
Nope.
Winston "
Harsh. I'll update my pics so you have more to look at every time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look I rarely if ever post like this but something happened the other night and I'm not going to go into detail because I'm not going to call out the other people its not something I would do but it really got under my skin what they did. I hope I didn't upset anyone with this post. "
Doesn't sound good.  Hope you are ok.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not religious at all, but it cracks me up how low the phrase ‘in the name of God’ as stooped I'm Irish we use it for everything that and grand "
Haha I love the drama in those words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
We had to block single men from messaging as it was just getting ridiculous, however we do want to have fun with single guys so will actively view single guys’ profiles to see if there’s anyone we think we’d like to get to know better
F (Mrs)
Fair enough. It us nice to be noticed I suppose though a little disheartening when one dosnt get a hello."
We unblocked single guys for a bit recently as we’d love to find a couple of guys to get to know for some fun - particularly to fulfil a fantasy of J (Mr) watching me with other men. However what seemed to be the case was guys just wanting a quick fuck to tick something off the list, who came across as desperate and that’s not really what we are looking for. I know this maybe sounds harsh, but I guess it’s a case of the behaviour of a few spoiling it for the many
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
It's annoying as hell, same with couples. However it is a free country but if someone looks at my profile I reserve the right to mail them. If they have blocked single men I put them on my block list. That way we don't waste our time."
I explained in another comment here about why we have single men blocked, but are looking. The constant messages from guys who come across as desperate, guys who are rude, guys who don’t read your profile bio who just message because you’re near etc…it’s just a shame that behaviour like that spoils it for genuine guys. We message anyone who looks like someone we would like to get to know better
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"If you are not looking for single men why in the name of God would you look at a single man's profile.
Who says they aren't looking?
Are we only allowed to look at profiles if we want to fuck the person?
Trouble is, you don't know if you want to fuck them unless you look at their profile.
We look all the time.
Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope.
Nope.
Winston
Harsh. I'll update my pics so you have more to look at every time. "
Thats very kind of you Trevor. Hope the welding career is going OK.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’ve been here almost a year, and this is getting to you now because? Can’t help but notice you’re overly defensive or protective about this sort of thing, the other day saying you don’t look at guys profiles on a thread by a guy asking for help with his profile… just ignore stuff, it’s SO easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus! Why does it matter?!? Stop looking at whose looked/fabbed/read/deleted/ignored messages... No wonder you're so bloody arsey! You invite it! "
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"They've seen a forum post you've been on or maybe you've had a status up they've been curious about .
I look at people for all sorts of reasons "
This is very true. People answer posts in the forums and its nice to put a face to the names. Dont worry op we will block you to make sure we dont look at your profile by accident or intentionally again. Hope that makes you feel more at ease. Now loads may do the same as this post has done you no favours i am afraid by complaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curiosity is not an invitation
But what did curiosity do? "
Part of NASA's Mars Science Laboratory mission, Curiosity is the largest and most capable rover ever sent to Mars. It launched Nov. 26, 2011 and landed on Mars at 10:32 p.m. PDT on Aug. 5, 2012
Curiosity set out to answer the question: Did Mars ever have the right environmental conditions to support small life forms called microbes? Early in its mission, Curiosity's scientific tools found chemical and mineral evidence of past habitable environments on Mars. It continues to explore the rock record from a time when Mars could have been home to microbial life.
Rumours it ran over a cat whilst on Mars are unfounded. |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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I've not read comments so, likely just repeating what's already been said but there's loads of reasons.
Something you said on forums.
You showed on someones veris.
Who's near.
Curiosity. |
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