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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.
And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.
Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure. "
I feel the same. I love people that look like me but then ask those things are things I don’t really love about myself. Interesting |
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No
I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs
Men I love in all heights and types
I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.
Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure. "
Subscribe to this as well. I am very much the same |
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"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.
Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure.
I feel the same. I love people that look like me but then ask those things are things I don’t really love about myself. Interesting"
I remember a similar thread where I said the same. I don’t think many agreed with me either. It’s weird and hard to explain but I know what I mean!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No
I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs
Men I love in all heights and types
I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person "
Interesting.
I did mean it in the sense of- do you find people of the same sex with similar physical characteristics as you attractive. Not necessarily desirable in that sense just like ‘oh they’re an attractive person’ for example. And then do You find yourself attractive? And I waiver if there’s a disconnect there |
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I think I have a gorgeous body shape. I think it's very attractive. As to hair, race, everything else - I think it looks ok on me. But I find others with different hair and skin colour very attractive. I'm not limited in what I find attractive by how I look. I think that answers your question  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.
Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure.
Subscribe to this as well. I am very much the same "
It’s interesting. I follow lots of guys on Instagram that look like me in many ways, similar build for example and I think they make it attractive but I hate the same things about me. So weird |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
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The men I find hot are nothing like me!
But I do think I'm attractive, not in a conventionally handsome sense and definitely not to everyone's taste. But I know I have a certain something (to some people) and I know I'm not doing too bad for for my age |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.
Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure.
I feel the same. I love people that look like me but then ask those things are things I don’t really love about myself. Interesting
I remember a similar thread where I said the same. I don’t think many agreed with me either. It’s weird and hard to explain but I know what I mean! "
No I get you for sure |
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"No
I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs
Men I love in all heights and types
I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person
Interesting.
I did mean it in the sense of- do you find people of the same sex with similar physical characteristics as you attractive. Not necessarily desirable in that sense just like ‘oh they’re an attractive person’ for example. And then do You find yourself attractive? And I waiver if there’s a disconnect there"
Ah then yes I do. Not necessarily desirable but attractive. I can appreciate why those who find me attractive do so. I don’t think I’m half bad - not a knockout but I have my charms. As do other women of my type |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I have a gorgeous body shape. I think it's very attractive. As to hair, race, everything else - I think it looks ok on me. But I find others with different hair and skin colour very attractive. I'm not limited in what I find attractive by how I look. I think that answers your question "
It’s good to find attraction in others. I also think it’s is an important part of self Love to appreciate and love yourself the way you might love others that look like you. Equally, it’s important to learn to love the things we hate about ourselves and finding that beauty in others that look like us can help so much |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just wanna say it doesn’t have to be like a sexual attraction I’m talking about.
I don’t find men sexually attractive but I can say I think that a man is attractive. You know?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, i would say that i prefer a female with a similar body type.
But then do not find my own body attractive. Hmm, made me think there with this post x  "
It is SO strange the way that we find beauty in others that we can’t appreciate in ourselves? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The men I find hot are nothing like me!
But I do think I'm attractive, not in a conventionally handsome sense and definitely not to everyone's taste. But I know I have a certain something (to some people) and I know I'm not doing too bad for for my age "
This is wonderfully positive. Self love is a journey. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No
I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs
Men I love in all heights and types
I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person
Interesting.
I did mean it in the sense of- do you find people of the same sex with similar physical characteristics as you attractive. Not necessarily desirable in that sense just like ‘oh they’re an attractive person’ for example. And then do You find yourself attractive? And I waiver if there’s a disconnect there
Ah then yes I do. Not necessarily desirable but attractive. I can appreciate why those who find me attractive do so. I don’t think I’m half bad - not a knockout but I have my charms. As do other women of my type "
I like that. I think that’s a good place to be in too. Understanding why people find people like you attractive. Seeing that attractive quality or those attractive qualities in yourself and others like you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like the opposite sex version of myself? Apart from the height, yes. "
I’m talking same sex really.
Do you think women with similar physical characteristics to you are attractive? And do you think you are attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I have some good features and people from my backgrounds tend to be quite attractive as well. But for me, it depends on how well groomed my beard is and whether I have a haircut "
A trim can change a man’s life. So I hear this. |
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"I think I have some good features and people from my backgrounds tend to be quite attractive as well. But for me, it depends on how well groomed my beard is and whether I have a haircut
A trim can change a man’s life. So I hear this. "
Factssss. Like I look crazy when my hair and beard grows out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat bald guys dont make me horny sorry "
this made me
although I’ve learnt to never judge a book by its cover since some carry a lethal weapon and know how to use it in making one squeal like a real gurl...!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite happy with how I look, no hangups etc.
But weirdly, no I can't say I'd consider people like myself to be attractive.
Thankfully Ellen looks nothing like me. |
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"Like the opposite sex version of myself? Apart from the height, yes.
I’m talking same sex really.
Do you think women with similar physical characteristics to you are attractive? And do you think you are attractive?"
I always love another real redhead.
And yes, on a good day if I've made an effort! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to go for the same body shape as mine ie slim/average. Race I tend to go opposite mostly but not exclusively. I don’t find myself unattractive now but did when I was bigger but now I’m fairly confident.
I prefer guys short haired than with long curly hair though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.
Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure. "
You are a very sexy lady . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nah I know my visual limitations, I wouldn’t fancy me if I was looking for fellas.
However, I strongly concur with my views and opinions, and I support the same football team as myself so I’m sure we’d get on well if I met me out and about.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like the opposite sex version of myself? Apart from the height, yes.
I’m talking same sex really.
Do you think women with similar physical characteristics to you are attractive? And do you think you are attractive?"
Ah I see yes I generally find women with my attributes attractive and I think I’m relatively easy on the eye - tall, slim, full lips, nice hair, everything in proportion. I don’t really have any hang ups! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.
And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there"
Always been aware I’m not Mr Universe .
I know I’m nothing special .
Not many ladies say I’m sexy .
But when it happens and they feel happy , feels really good and goes really well … And I’m happy with that ^^
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Broadly speaking, yes, I think women who have the same physical attributes are attractive.
It’s all run of the mill - dark hair, blue eyes, average size 12, average height. There are A LOT of variations of this though. I’m not unhappy with how I look, I suppose I’m content (until bits start dropping off) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That’s a very complex question. I’m short and fat so no I don’t think people find people like me attractive but at the same time I think I am sort of attractive. |
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"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.
And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there"
Deep! Speaking generally, I do not think men who look like me - short, brown - are considered attractive by the majority of women. We're an acquired taste, and I'm fine with that.
But at the same time, I think I have an attractive face - no Brad Pitt, but it's fairly classic, decent jawline etc. So go figure. |
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"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.
And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there
Deep! Speaking generally, I do not think men who look like me - short, brown - are considered attractive by the majority of women. We're an acquired taste, and I'm fine with that.
But at the same time, I think I have an attractive face - no Brad Pitt, but it's fairly classic, decent jawline etc. So go figure."
To my recollection, you are a rather handsome chap |
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"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.
And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there
Deep! Speaking generally, I do not think men who look like me - short, brown - are considered attractive by the majority of women. We're an acquired taste, and I'm fine with that.
But at the same time, I think I have an attractive face - no Brad Pitt, but it's fairly classic, decent jawline etc. So go figure.
To my recollection, you are a rather handsome chap "
Thank you, KC. That'll do for me! |
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"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.
And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there"
As a fellow chubby, I can be a bit of a chubby chaser sometimes.... Dad bods get me going.... Maybe I wasn't hugged enough as a child. Lol!
when I was thin, I didn't consider myself sexy at all. But now I'm plus sized...I just feel cuddly to me so softer bigger guys are cuddly.
Being the same height helps but being different heights means you have to get more inventive? experimental?
For about 20 years I only had sex with my own race. Then my marriage broke down and I uhh...branched out to other races...So..I guess I find beauty? attractiveness? In all races. I suppose I find more interest and attraction to things that are different to me...so men...I tend to view women with sexual indifference. I can say a woman is beautiful but I'm not drawn to a woman the same way I'm drawn to a man.
I don't meet many men that look like me so that's a difficult thing to conceptualise. I know I'm attractive to some men and not attractive to others. |
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"Being average across the board, and a male, I'd say I've got a slightly below 50/50 shot at attraction 
LvM"
Yeah again, another (in my opinion) attractive guy, LvM. And I don't say that to many people, honest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a solid 7/10 I'm happy with that, secure in myself and able to laugh at myself too haha.
I wouldn't be my type tho haha. Not because I'm a bloke.......I'm too flat chested |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
"The men I find hot are nothing like me!
But I do think I'm attractive, not in a conventionally handsome sense and definitely not to everyone's taste. But I know I have a certain something (to some people) and I know I'm not doing too bad for for my age
This is wonderfully positive. Self love is a journey. "
Thank you
To be honest for all my craziness, anxieties and insecurities I've always been relatively comfortable with my looks, I guess that's one plus point I have goung for me  |
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