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I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
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I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
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I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I look at all sorts of profiles, some make me chuckle, some make me want to message them because they see really nice people (usually outside my age range haha) but I would not block them for messaging me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
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I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
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I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd."
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have all men blocked even tho we do sometimes look for men .If we see someone we are interested in we will send a message it saves all the unwanted dick pics etc ."
I only sent 7 pics  |
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And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked "
Not sure I would ever do this, seems rude somehow to not let people know I checked them out. Other people can do what they want, I prefer transparency. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Not sure I would ever do this, seems rude somehow to not let people know I checked them out. Other people can do what they want, I prefer transparency."
Oh yay, something else we're rude for. |
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And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Not sure I would ever do this, seems rude somehow to not let people know I checked them out. Other people can do what they want, I prefer transparency.
Oh yay, something else we're rude for. "
He's not wrong, your behaviour is Abzalukely Dizcustink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being nosey, checking out the profile of a post on the forums, so they can message guys that take their fancy rather than getting unwanted message, because they can the list goes on. It's fab after all. |
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And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Not sure I would ever do this, seems rude somehow to not let people know I checked them out. Other people can do what they want, I prefer transparency.
Oh yay, something else we're rude for.
He's not wrong, your behaviour is Abzalukely Dizcustink."
To be fair, some people like a bit of rude and disgusting ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Not sure I would ever do this, seems rude somehow to not let people know I checked them out. Other people can do what they want, I prefer transparency.
Oh yay, something else we're rude for.
He's not wrong, your behaviour is Abzalukely Dizcustink."
Phew, I thought I was coming across as one of those annoyingly always happy people. |
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And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Not sure I would ever do this, seems rude somehow to not let people know I checked them out. Other people can do what they want, I prefer transparency."
Women get enough messages on here without then getting a message from every profile they have looked at.
Plus, I repeatedly perv at some profiles and I’d look like a stalker if they saw the amount of times I’d checked them out  |
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And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Not sure I would ever do this, seems rude somehow to not let people know I checked them out. Other people can do what they want, I prefer transparency.
Women get enough messages on here without then getting a message from every profile they have looked at.
Plus, I repeatedly perv at some profiles and I’d look like a stalker if they saw the amount of times I’d checked them out "
To be fair, you have a profile worth stalking, but it's nice to know we all enjoy a good perv. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
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I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
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I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked "
Unsurprisingly it’s almost exclusively men who hate ninja mode  |
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
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I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
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I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Unsurprisingly it’s almost exclusively men who hate ninja mode "
Didn't even know it was an option until this thread, now my confusion has been made public - thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
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I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
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I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Unsurprisingly it’s almost exclusively men who hate ninja mode "
Your on hotlist so it's all good  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
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I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
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I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Unsurprisingly it’s almost exclusively men who hate ninja mode "
Nope - I like to 'admire' in private.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
.
I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
.
I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Unsurprisingly it’s almost exclusively men who hate ninja mode
Your on hotlist so it's all good "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
.
I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
.
I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Unsurprisingly it’s almost exclusively men who hate ninja mode
Your on hotlist so it's all good
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Looking forward to a proper date? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
.
I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
.
I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
And this is why so many people use ninja mode so you dont know they looked
Unsurprisingly it’s almost exclusively men who hate ninja mode
Your on hotlist so it's all good
Looking forward to a proper date?"
Yup very excited |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
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I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
.
I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd."
A few couples I know only have men blocked so that they can view a profile without immediately being messaged, allowing them to only engage with guys they like.
This way, once they message a guy they like, that guy will be able to respond to their message and not be blocked.
It seems harsh, but considering how many messages they'd get otherwise, I can understand why they do it this way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I check my "who's looking at me" and some nice people, it only fair I look back, guage the back & forth. Possibly send an icebreaker message.
"Sorry, user has blocked everyone of your sex".
.
I can understand if after reading my bio you don't feel it, too far away, etc. But if you weren't looking for men, why did you look at my profile?
.
I love a good lurker as much as the next guy, just seems odd.
A few couples I know only have men blocked so that they can view a profile without immediately being messaged, allowing them to only engage with guys they like.
This way, once they message a guy they like, that guy will be able to respond to their message and not be blocked.
It seems harsh, but considering how many messages they'd get otherwise, I can understand why they do it this way"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because maybe they want to look at and approach the men without said men messaging first.
Me. Lol! I just get way too many messages from men just to let it be a free for all."
You were all over my profile lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven’t read the thread through, that would take far too much effort, so I’m sure this has been said many times before, but if people view my profile and then decide NOT to message me, then to me that tells me that they looked and were not particularly interested in what they saw.
What, then, would I achieve by messaging them to say “hey, thanks for looking at my profile …” ?
People look for many reasons, not necessarily because they fancy you. I always view in stealth as I can’t be arsed with all the blocks from people who saw me look at them 6 hours ago..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It may looked like I viewed a profile but it's more likely that I fumbled my phone and clicked the wrong thing. I frequently back out of profiles I didn't mean to open in the first place. |
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