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WHY? do "straight" married men do this....

By *iscrete Gloryhole OP Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

Hi all

Serious question....

I run a Faceless Dicrete Gloryhole, faceless being the ultimate word there.. now joke's aside why would a "married" guy turn up ..groan and say how good it is... scream the house down as he cums.. then leave.. and then BLOCK ME!?

I understand receiving a message setting up a meet and then they block me .. thats fear and worry about coming to a place etc..I get that reaction.

But I've NEVER had this before..a guy come this morning scream house down..(in other words he loved it) then blocked me on leaving?..

... is it guilt?? Fear???.. I actually want to understand.. cause its left me going..WTF.. if he loved it why back off so dramatically..???

What's your thoughts?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’d go with guilt

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By *otMe66Man over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I’d go with guilt

I would agree, guilt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because you some horny fuckers who ain't getting it anywhere else their thinking with their cock that any hole is a goal ..and then they immediately wanna act like it never happened..

Until the next time..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d go with guilt

Nope, I'm sure he left with guilt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d go with guilt

I would agree, guilt "

Third one for guilt here

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By *entBarryUKMan over a year ago

Ashford

He probably thinks it will affect his chances of getting "wid da ladies,innit"

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By *nguslassWoman over a year ago

dundee

"I’d go with guilt

Ye guilt I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say guilt and bloody rude on top of it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

When you say faceless. You don’t see his or he doesn’t see yours? Or both.

Not really relevant i was just curious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guilt and shame I think

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By *arleycplCouple over a year ago

Leyburn

"blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guilt and shame. If he blocks you then it didn't happen (at least in his head)

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By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket."

You can hide and delete veris, so I'd go with the emotional turmoil: It's a, it's a, it's a sin!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Obviously guilt he went home and washed the shame and gay away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would imagine like most others, a bit of guilt, a bit of shame at himself because he can’t deal with what’s happened and how it made him feel at the time. So he’ll block you and pretend to himself it never happened……. Until the next time it does. We’re all a complex bunch after all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket.

You can hide and delete veris, so I'd go with the emotional turmoil: It's a, it's a, it's a sin!"

I don't think you can delete only choose not to show, and if you show the summary it will say if you're meeting just women, or men etc.

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Carlisle

Maybe worried that his straight profile wont be as convincing when he obviously meets and plays with same sex or TV/TS people - i bet everyone will Judge him now… his credibility is gone forever….

Or like a few have said it sounds like guilt that he has either 1) done it in the first place or 2) realises he may be bi nit straight or 3) 1&2

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Carlisle

"Obviously guilt he went home and washed the shame and gay away."

New ‘Gay Away’ shower gel ….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket.

You can hide and delete veris, so I'd go with the emotional turmoil: It's a, it's a, it's a sin!

I don't think you can delete only choose not to show, and if you show the summary it will say if you're meeting just women, or men etc."

You can delete them by blocking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're probably just bad at head, and this seemed the kindest way of telling you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guilt all the way!!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Guilt and shame.

He doesn't want to face how he felt and that he enjoyed it.

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

Post-nut clarity.

He emptied his balls, job was done for him.

But don’t worry, he will unblock you next time he is horny…. Up to you if you’re willing to accept him! Pretty poor behaviour IMO.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

When you say married.....was it a single guy profile or half of a couple?

That may decide my response.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Obviously guilt he went home and washed the shame and gay away.

New ‘Gay Away’ shower gel ….

Wash'n'Grow-A-Set

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket.

You can hide and delete veris, so I'd go with the emotional turmoil: It's a, it's a, it's a sin!

I don't think you can delete only choose not to show, and if you show the summary it will say if you're meeting just women, or men etc.

You can delete them by blocking

So...we should ask if he blocked him then?

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By *dward_TeagueMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Guilt and perhaps an element of he’s tried a BJ from a guy and couldn’t cope with the fact that he’s now fab straight.

Whatever his reasons OP it’s an incredibly rude thing for him to do, don’t dwell on it and ultimately it’s his issue not yours.

Plenty more fish in the sea!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say it's pure denial. They'll want more though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket."

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By *arkandlovelyWoman over a year ago

South Derbyshire

He's scared of catching the ghey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe his wife has access to his single profile and he doesn't want her to know what he's been up to.

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By *ackbydemandMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Hi all

Serious question....

I understand receiving a message setting up a meet and then they block me .. thats fear and worry about coming to a place etc..I get that reaction.

But I've NEVER had this before..a guy come this morning scream house down..(in other words he loved it) then blocked me on leaving?..

... is it guilt?? Fear???.. I actually want to understand.. cause its left me going..WTF.. if he loved it why back off so dramatically..???

What's your thoughts?

You should open franchises in every town, it should be classed as a utility like water.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Control.

It's essential until he gets a hold on the guilt and on his appetite for more.

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By *ull English with teaMan over a year ago

London

Maybe you gave a terrible BJ?

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

I have seen the words guilt , fear and shame used and whilst these can be valid reasons the OP deserved the courtesy of a conversation even if it was via txt.The word I am going to use is confused. I think that there is the possibility that he has now become confused about his sexuality and he needs to clear in his head is he bi , gay or is this a one off.

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By *iscrete Gloryhole OP Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

Thanks all good points and alot

I agree with.... but now to answer some of questions

Was he married ..ABSOLUTELY.

FACELESS because you be amazed how many men can't handle being blown by a guy.. also silence is essential as the number that freak out after cause in their imagination I could be a woman/goat!/sheep!/ duck billed plattapus.. heaven forbid I'm a guy!

"Perhaps you were crap".. fair enough I can handle that.. BUT NO ONE sprays spunk and scream cums and prays to several God's out loud.. then takes a couple of minutes to land ...like he did and then says.."Huh! that was average!"

LOL take care all thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd definitely go for 100% guilty feelings and possibly shame that he enjoyed it so much

Given time he will get over it and be wishing he'd handled it better

But his loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like you know what you're doing

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By *ackbydemandMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Thanks all good points and alot

I agree with.... but now to answer some of questions

Was he married ..ABSOLUTELY.

LOL take care all thanks"

All I can say is, it pays to advertise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

he’ll b back 4 more, now that he’s had a taste...!

It seems, most of the so called “straight”, married guys do have a tendency to feel guilty after they’ve had their fun/release...

but i find they always return for more after tasting the delights

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By *arleycplCouple over a year ago

Leyburn

"blocking you before you can verify him, he doesn't need that on his ticket.

You can hide and delete veris, so I'd go with the emotional turmoil: It's a, it's a, it's a sin!

I don't think you can delete only choose not to show, and if you show the summary it will say if you're meeting just women, or men etc."

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By *ris GrayMan over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hi all

Serious question....

I understand receiving a message setting up a meet and then they block me .. thats fear and worry about coming to a place etc..I get that reaction.

But I've NEVER had this before..a guy come this morning scream house down..(in other words he loved it) then blocked me on leaving?..

... is it guilt?? Fear???.. I actually want to understand.. cause its left me going..WTF.. if he loved it why back off so dramatically..???

What's your thoughts?

"
married probably

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Post nut clarity

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By *hesblokeMan over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Guilt, bit of "I'm not gay or bi" and maybe worried that the person he visited would tell the Mrs (however that would work). Sounds frustrating.

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