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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies? "
No not me, neither have I had fantasies about shagging a ogre in a deep cave, wanking out of a plane window, skydiving naked into a field of nettles or inserting a spoon down my japs eye but there have. |
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over a year ago
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If they were to post on here - it would hardly be a secret!
But it does seem there's a fair few about. I've always found being honest has done me no harm! |
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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago
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"If they were to post on here - it would hardly be a secret!
But it does seem there's a fair few about. I've always found being honest has done me no harm! "
how do you fab a profile pic phoarr never could resis a man in a suit |
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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secret about in mind not show yourself here and display yourself what you are... It was my secret Now not I'm free like a bird... and I'm having more strong enjoyable sex now with my wife... |
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"secret about in mind not show yourself here and display yourself what you are... It was my secret Now not I'm free like a bird... and I'm having more strong enjoyable sex now with my wife... "
Eh ? |
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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Is this fairly common with married straight men? I believe there are many just like married women that have bi fantasies. I don't see a problem with it at all. You cannot change your sexual mind right? I think none of us married men and women should be judged for having bi fantasies...do you? |
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Straight - bi - gay is a vast spectrum that is not easy to define and simply defies clear labelling. Add cultural influences, prejudices and stereotyping and the definitions get even more obscured.
Too many people are keen to slap labels onto people on here in my opinion. |
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I was straight for many years, only had girlfriends and never thought about men sexually. Moved to Brighton, met a couple and had bi sex. Now I'm 'orally bi' as it were but still don't fancy men I see in the street, just like them naked with their female partner. Or I'm more than happy to play straight with a single lady or couple as well. It's not a case of being confused.com because I know what I like. |
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies? "
Your either Straight - Bi or Gay - not really anything in between is there; so men who like sucking cock are Bi or Bi cur at least ...and you should not be ashamed to admit it ...mind you most men on here never do lol |
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
Your either Straight - Bi or Gay - not really anything in between is there; so men who like sucking cock are Bi or Bi cur at least ...and you should not be ashamed to admit it ...mind you most men on here never do lol "
I strongly disagree. One of my ex girlfriends told me she had once tried oral with a woman and hated it. Does that mean she is bi-sexual even though she never did it again and never wanted to do it again?
Also I bet every bloke alive has had the odd thought that way, even if only during puberty. I know I have fleetingly a few times and psycologists say that is perfectly normal. Does that mean I'm bi-sexual as well then?
Sexuality is a spectrum, not a series of neat pigeon holes to label people with. |
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
Your either Straight - Bi or Gay - not really anything in between is there; so men who like sucking cock are Bi or Bi cur at least ...and you should not be ashamed to admit it ...mind you most men on here never do lol
I strongly disagree. One of my ex girlfriends told me she had once tried oral with a woman and hated it. Does that mean she is bi-sexual even though she never did it again and never wanted to do it again?
Also I bet every bloke alive has had the odd thought that way, even if only during puberty. I know I have fleetingly a few times and psycologists say that is perfectly normal. Does that mean I'm bi-sexual as well then?
Sexuality is a spectrum, not a series of neat pigeon holes to label people with. "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
No not me, neither have I had fantasies about shagging a ogre in a deep cave, wanking out of a plane window, skydiving naked into a field of nettles or inserting a spoon down my japs eye but there have. "
i got a blow job while flying an aeroplane once.. exciting, scary, horny... all at the same time.
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Sexuality is a spectrum, not a series of neat pigeon holes to label people with. "
nail on the head..
like other cpl's with a bi curious or bi male we are contacted both by other cpl's with a 'str8' male and by single 'str8' males..
would suggest the percentage is at the higher end of the scale..
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
No not me, neither have I had fantasies about shagging a ogre in a deep cave, wanking out of a plane window, skydiving naked into a field of nettles or inserting a spoon down my japs eye but there have.
i got a blow job while flying an aeroplane once.. exciting, scary, horny... all at the same time.
lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a straight bloke but I have had dreams where I've "smoked the odd pipe"
I've never had the urge to relive it though.
It's definately not a fantasy of mine either.
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Hey, blue vein havanas are really nice if they're fresh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
I gone beyond secretly thinking about it lol... " Is this about degree?
Is two cocks touching in DVP or double oral (from a lady!) bi sexual activity? |
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
Your either Straight - Bi or Gay - not really anything in between is there; so men who like sucking cock are Bi or Bi cur at least ...and you should not be ashamed to admit it ...mind you most men on here never do lol
I strongly disagree. One of my ex girlfriends told me she had once tried oral with a woman and hated it. Does that mean she is bi-sexual even though she never did it again and never wanted to do it again?
Also I bet every bloke alive has had the odd thought that way, even if only during puberty. I know I have fleetingly a few times and psycologists say that is perfectly normal. Does that mean I'm bi-sexual as well then?
Sexuality is a spectrum, not a series of neat pigeon holes to label people with.
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I.m not the slightest bi curious yet me and the misses both find she male porn quite a turn on and the same with strap on porn but i do like the misses once in a while having a go with her strap on with me and when the vibes hit the right spot at the right time then woo hoo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably because men are dirty sods and love the idea of females together(im no exception)but for bi guys like myself i totally get where your coming from..equality for all!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
I gone beyond secretly thinking about it lol... Is this about degree?
Is two cocks touching in DVP or double oral (from a lady!) bi sexual activity?"
in simple terms and man or a women that's the touch/feeling/taste/tenderness/sex with the opposite sex at any level; they are at least Bi curious and at best Bi sexual; which ever way you dress it up its plain and simple sexy fun between two consenting adults privately or as a group |
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"I.m not the slightest bi curious yet me and the misses both find she male porn quite a turn on and the same with strap on porn but i do like the misses once in a while having a go with her strap on with me and when the vibes hit the right spot at the right time then woo hoo "
That's eroticism and nothing wrong in that; lots of hetro men like their partners/wives /GF to play with their bums; and that's down to the fact that our anus area is a highly sensitive erogenous zones -male or female |
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"My fella hasnt and he never would for personal reasons it makes him sick just talkin about it or seein it on a porn film x"
Closet bi guy usally the ones that claim to despise it as much are the ones that hide the fact they really love it and sneak about to get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I believe many guys who have straight on their profile are not bi-sexual but "bi-sensual"!! They play with other guys during sex in threesomes and moresomes as enjoy doing it in that situation as having a guy or girl sucking them makes little difference to the sensation.
They would consider themselves straight as have never gone out on a date with a guy or would kiss one but happy to suck cock or fuck a guy or TV/TS.
Just like some women who will claim to be bi during sexual encounters but wouldn't ever have a relationship with another woman etc.
Sexuality is very wide in its scope so to have only a few labels is confusing, as for bi-curious, is that just sucked a few cocks or 50 or 1? bizarre. |
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"My fella hasnt and he never would for personal reasons it makes him sick just talkin about it or seein it on a porn film x
Closet bi guy usally the ones that claim to despise it as much are the ones that hide the fact they really love it and sneak about to get it "
That is complete rubbish. My brother is as straight as an arrow and despises gay/bi men (obv he doesn't know I'm bi) but if you were to suggest to him that his attitude is because he harbours secret cocksucking fantasies he'd be more likely to lump you one than suck you off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
I gone beyond secretly thinking about it lol... Is this about degree?
Is two cocks touching in DVP or double oral (from a lady!) bi sexual activity?
in simple terms and man or a women that's the touch/feeling/taste/tenderness/sex with the opposite sex at any level; they are at least Bi curious and at best Bi sexual; which ever way you dress it up its plain and simple sexy fun between two consenting adults privately or as a group "
Erm nope Pete, disagree completely there, just because men's bits may touch during dvp or oral doesn't make a guy bi in any way at all!
More like has no hang ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How Many Married or Single Straight Men Secretly Have Oral Bi or CD Fantasies?
Your either Straight - Bi or Gay - not really anything in between is there; so men who like sucking cock are Bi or Bi cur at least ...and you should not be ashamed to admit it ...mind you most men on here never do lol
I strongly disagree. One of my ex girlfriends told me she had once tried oral with a woman and hated it. Does that mean she is bi-sexual even though she never did it again and never wanted to do it again?
Also I bet every bloke alive has had the odd thought that way, even if only during puberty. I know I have fleetingly a few times and psycologists say that is perfectly normal. Does that mean I'm bi-sexual as well then?
Sexuality is a spectrum, not a series of neat pigeon holes to label people with. "
I totally agree and I also liked what Julie said about 'situationally bi', that does sum it up pretty well.
Ive licked a woman just to say that ive had the experience. It didnt turn me on and I did a couple of licks, didnt really do anything for me. But I have had women come onto me at clubs and ask to play with me. I have stated that I am not bi and they have said that they found me attractive and would love to pleasure me and expect nothing in return. So, being the nice person I am, I let them. And I really enjoyed it.
I still state that I am not bi or a lesbian.
My OH has also had situations where a guy has sucked him etc. He wouldnt class himself as bi either. Neither of us would go out looking for a member of the opposite sex. We just class ourselves as adventurous and wanting to experience new things |
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I'm straight.
As far as I can recall, I've never had dreams about playing with a guy, and I know I've never fantasised about it.
I guess I'm a bit of a disappointment to many on here for claiming this, and I'm sure I'll get stick for it, get told I'm in denial etc lol!
But, as I've said before, allow me to be what I know I am, just like I let others do their "thang". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest men's bits are not my thing and as for sucking cock will leave that to the ladies as they seem to do very well at it I prefer my tongue to be playing with a clit and make the juices flow mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My fella hasnt and he never would for personal reasons it makes him sick just talkin about it or seein it on a porn film x
Closet bi guy usally the ones that claim to despise it as much are the ones that hide the fact they really love it and sneak about to get it
That is complete rubbish. My brother is as straight as an arrow and despises gay/bi men (obv he doesn't know I'm bi) but if you were to suggest to him that his attitude is because he harbours secret cocksucking fantasies he'd be more likely to lump you one than suck you off."
Disagree. Some bi (or gay) blokes get married and swear blind anything gay is horrendous just to try to cover up the reality. Some may even believe what they say.
Some.... NOT all..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My fella hasnt and he never would for personal reasons it makes him sick just talkin about it or seein it on a porn film x
Closet bi guy usally the ones that claim to despise it as much are the ones that hide the fact they really love it and sneak about to get it
That is complete rubbish. My brother is as straight as an arrow and despises gay/bi men (obv he doesn't know I'm bi) but if you were to suggest to him that his attitude is because he harbours secret cocksucking fantasies he'd be more likely to lump you one than suck you off.
Disagree. Some bi (or gay) blokes get married and swear blind anything gay is horrendous just to try to cover up the reality. Some may even believe what they say.
Some.... NOT all....."
I know people like that
One in particular is vehemently anti gay and when he goes on a ramble I just sit there thinking 'how fkin short is your memory, you've sucked me off not once, not twice but 6,7,8 times'
I also know how easy it is to find yourself in the position where you end up in a straight relationship when you're not. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Having worked in a gay sauna for a summer a couple of years ago, I was amazed a couple of guys who walked through the door.... they nearly died when they saw me, I just smiled and took their money
they are 2 of the biggest mouthed homophobic knobheads in this small town, well they were bigmouth knobheads when I spotted them with a nine incher being stuffed in by another guest |
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Ive licked a woman just to say that ive had the experience. It didnt turn me on and I did a couple of licks, didnt really do anything for me. But I have had women come onto me at clubs and ask to play with me. I have stated that I am not bi and they have said that they found me attractive and would love to pleasure me and expect nothing in return. So, being the nice person I am, I let them. And I really enjoyed it.
I still state that I am not bi or a lesbian.
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Although I say I'm a bi fem I only give. I have no interest in receiving.
Zed is fully bi and has no problem admitting it on here. We only play with bi guys and it's incredible how many straight guys suddenly become bi when I reply to their messages stating that.
But I can sympathise with them - there is still a fair amount of prejudice and stigma attached to male bisexuality which is so unfair and drives a lot of men underground when it comes to admitting to their sexual desires.
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"My fella hasnt and he never would for personal reasons it makes him sick just talkin about it or seein it on a porn film x
Closet bi guy usally the ones that claim to despise it as much are the ones that hide the fact they really love it and sneak about to get it "
that is such BS why is it if a man says it's not for him or finds it wrong, sick or disgusting (each to there own btw) they labeled as secretly in the closet how do you evan work that out makes no sense at all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm bi, love playing with a couple where the guy is bi. Do find cocks in that setting a big turn on, but like a previous poster said - I am not attracted to men in any other setting, but fancy the pants off many women I see. If I think of relationships, it's always with females. Not sure what this really makes me beyond the 'bi' label....I'm attracted to the opposite sex, emotionally and physically but love playing sexually with the same sex in the right setting.
As for others, I've been amazed at the times a 'straight' member of a couple shows bi tendencies when playing which leads me to think a high percentage of guys are open to the idea.
Perhaps there is a higher number in this scene due to the need to be more broad-minded than the general population who just maintain _iews and prejudices they were brought up with?
Not that EVERYONE on the scene is bi of course, I just think there is more acceptance than in other walks of life |
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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"My fella hasnt and he never would for personal reasons it makes him sick just talkin about it or seein it on a porn film x
Closet bi guy usally the ones that claim to despise it as much are the ones that hide the fact they really love it and sneak about to get it
that is such BS why is it if a man says it's not for him or finds it wrong, sick or disgusting (each to there own btw) they labeled as secretly in the closet how do you evan work that out makes no sense at all lol" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every single one of them!...........Ha that's a load of bollocks and I wouldn't hazard a guess but who cares how many, some do some don't I would think there are a number who like dwarfs or to dress up as adult babies. As long as its legal let them all enjoy. |
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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago
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bit like ridding a bike try and if you fall of and it hurts then you may not like it but married men like to watch ??there wives try so why not the other way round it doesn't make you anything but experimental that's what all this is about Poss not labeling but trial and error as to say. how many wives would like to see hubby try even just a few mins so at least they know how it feels |
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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago
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bit like ridding a bike try and if you fall of and it hurts then you may not like it but married men like to watch ??there wives try so why not the other way round it doesn't make you anything but experimental that's what all this is about Poss not labeling but trial and error as to say. how many wives would like to see hubby try even just a few mins so at least they know how it feels |
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm bi, love playing with a couple where the guy is bi. Do find cocks in that setting a big turn on, but like a previous poster said - I am not attracted to men in any other setting, but fancy the pants off many women I see. If I think of relationships, it's always with females. Not sure what this really makes me beyond the 'bi' label....I'm attracted to the opposite sex, emotionally and physically but love playing sexually with the same sex in the right setting.
As for others, I've been amazed at the times a 'straight' member of a couple shows bi tendencies when playing which leads me to think a high percentage of guys are open to the idea.
Perhaps there is a higher number in this scene due to the need to be more broad-minded than the general population who just maintain _iews and prejudices they were brought up with?
Not that EVERYONE on the scene is bi of course, I just think there is more acceptance than in other walks of life" |
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My first bi experience was one of those 'what the hell, try anything once' situations but I found I liked it. Now I love meeting couples and sharing the guys cock with the lady, I love cock as much as pussy.. |
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Some interesting posts here.
I still maintain sexuality is a vast spectrum and not just a simple gay - bi -straight boxing system. The 'situationally-bi' comments are interesting too, I suspect there are a lot who feel this way - and who feel they can't express that on Fab for fear of being judged.
I also agree it doesn't really matter if all parties are consenting adults. Just enjoy your playtime how you want to. |
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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"My first bi experience was one of those 'what the hell, try anything once' situations but I found I liked it. Now I love meeting couples and sharing the guys cock with the lady, I love cock as much as pussy.." |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some interesting posts here.
I still maintain sexuality is a vast spectrum and not just a simple gay - bi -straight boxing system. The 'situationally-bi' comments are interesting too, I suspect there are a lot who feel this way - and who feel they can't express that on Fab for fear of being judged.
I also agree it doesn't really matter if all parties are consenting adults. Just enjoy your playtime how you want to. "
Well said words of wisdom _nvictus. |
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"Why do most women love being bi but don't like it when a guy is bi"
Im not sure _most_ women are, but I take your point.
I think some ladies feel a bi man is possibly 'less' of a man in sexual terms. Maybe a bit too in touch with their feminine side? They prefer a '100% straight' man as they maybe see that as more virile, masculine and butch, maybe more dominant? *shrugs*
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By *an4sex OP Man
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"My first bi experience was one of those 'what the hell, try anything once' situations but I found I liked it. Now I love meeting couples and sharing the guys cock with the lady, I love cock as much as pussy.." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea maybe but to me its double standards they can be bi but they not happy if the guy is, I'd love a world where it was all open together mmf + ffm + mfmf I love being with a woman but I also love to have something else at hand to play with as it were |
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"Why do most women love being bi but don't like it when a guy is bi
Im not sure _most_ women are, but I take your point.
I think some ladies feel a bi man is possibly 'less' of a man in sexual terms. Maybe a bit too in touch with their feminine side? They prefer a '100%
straight' man as they maybe see that as
more virile, masculine and butch,
maybe more dominant? *shrugs*
said that man with the glittery sandwich!
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yea maybe but to me its double standards they can be bi but they not happy if the guy is, I'd love a world where it was all open together mmf + ffm + mfmf I love being with a woman but I also love to have something else at hand to play with as it were" |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"What is the crossover point from being bi-curious to bi?
I have seen profiles where a bloke claims to be bi-curious but his avatar is of him sucking a cock "
when they have done it once, liked it and went back for more
if they tried, didn't like it.... back to straightville |
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By *an4sex OP Man
over a year ago
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"What is the crossover point from being bi-curious to bi?
I have seen profiles where a bloke claims to be bi-curious but his avatar is of him sucking a cock
when they have done it once, liked it and went back for more
if they tried, didn't like it.... back to straightville" |
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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago
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While most people on here have a 'live and let live' attitude,I find that in society in general,while accepting gay men seem to think there is something sordid about being a bi man. Correct me if I'm wrong but that is my perception |
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By *an4sex OP Man
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"While most people on here have a 'live and let live' attitude,I find that in society in general,while accepting gay men seem to think there is something sordid about being a bi man. Correct me if I'm wrong but that is my perception" |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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I find it quite confusing. I just looked at a profile that I know was bisexual the other week. It is now bicurious. How does that work? lol
He must have liked cock before, but is now not so sure and will continue to experiment |
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By *an4sex OP Man
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"I find it quite confusing. I just looked at a profile that I know was bisexual the other week. It is now bicurious. How does that work? lol
He must have liked cock before, but is now not so sure and will continue to experiment " |
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