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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It all ways interest me as you see a lot of married women on here with out husbands know witch seam to be ok but if a guy dose it it’s the over way round |
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"It all ways interest me as you see a lot of married women on here with out husbands know witch seam to be ok but if a guy dose it it’s the over way round "
If there's one thing I love .... it's when an original thinker comes in.
Tell us more O.P. ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all ways interest me as you see a lot of married women on here with out husbands know witch seam to be ok but if a guy dose it it’s the over way round
If there's one thing I love .... it's when an original thinker comes in.
Tell us more O.P. ?
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Lots of thing here men get slated for but it's cool for women cause men want to fuck them simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relationships come in all shapes and sizes. Some play outside the sandbox and some don't. Some do it with 'permission' and some don't.
Due diligence is how you keep yourself on the right side of the moral line, unless you just aren't bothered and consider it a matter for the 'cheater' and not the 3rd party, which is a common stance.
Not anyone else's business how well you sleep at night and why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's put it this way no matter relationship etc every woman on this site could have a one nighter with a stranger...
Could every guy get a meet "
Not true imho
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's put it this way no matter relationship etc every woman on this site could have a one nighter with a stranger...
Could every guy get a meet
Not true imho
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Interesting opinion wonder why it differs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually don’t think I know people’s feelings on this so I’m in 
I mean, I sleep with a married man every night   "
I wouldn’t sleep with a married *man*  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don’t real know that’s why I am asking I suppose if the women knows the guy is married they might be less likely to go with me so they have to put more work in to turn the guys head I duno tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t real know that’s why I am asking I suppose if the women knows the guy is married they might be less likely to go with me so they have to put more work in to turn the guys head I duno tho "
WTF |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all ways interest me as you see a lot of married women on here with out husbands know witch seam to be ok but if a guy dose it it’s the over way round "
I think they call that misandry on this website.  |
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"I don’t real know that’s why I am asking I suppose if the women knows the guy is married they might be less likely to go with me so they have to put more work in to turn the guys head I duno tho
WTF "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually don’t think I know people’s feelings on this so I’m in
I mean, I sleep with a married man every night
I wouldn’t sleep with a married *man*
Wo-man? "
There’s a married woman on this thread that could get it  |
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I actually don’t think I know people’s feelings on this so I’m in
I mean, I sleep with a married man every night
I wouldn’t sleep with a married *man*
Wo-man?
There’s a married woman on this thread that could get it "
Hmmmmmmm, I wonder who?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's put it this way no matter relationship etc every woman on this site could have a one nighter with a stranger...
Could every guy get a meet
That's not true either
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^ men don’t meet silhouettes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually don’t think I know people’s feelings on this so I’m in
I mean, I sleep with a married man every night
I wouldn’t sleep with a married *man*
Wo-man?
There’s a married woman on this thread that could get it
Hmmmmmmm, I wonder who?! "
#TheyKnowWhoTheyAre |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's put it this way no matter relationship etc every woman on this site could have a one nighter with a stranger...
Could every guy get a meet
That's not true either
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Really I'd beg to differ every gen woman here would get a meet easy with ratio man to woman, every man Def wouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's put it this way no matter relationship etc every woman on this site could have a one nighter with a stranger...
Could every guy get a meet
That's not true either
Really I'd beg to differ every gen woman here would get a meet easy with ratio man to woman, every man Def wouldn't "
Easier, but not guaranteed.
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"Let's put it this way no matter relationship etc every woman on this site could have a one nighter with a stranger...
Could every guy get a meet
That's not true either
Really I'd beg to differ every gen woman here would get a meet easy with ratio man to woman, every man Def wouldn't "
Not true.
If you want to say there are more men here than women ...... that's true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?"
He's married, wants meets?
A wild assumption but I'm going out on a limb. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Just asking a general question really like I said just interested in peoples throughs I know there was going to be a lot of negative comments
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know there will be a lot of people slating this post but are there meany women out there who are interested in married men "
Yes there are. You've just got to find them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some will, some won't, some will only if the guy has permission others won't even then.
I'm completely up front about being married but then I have permission, I've never been turned down at a club because of it but I will always let whomever I meet know my situation and it has even been a great conversation starter in the past.
The end of the day there are many reasons a woman will or won't meet you being married or not is just one of them reasons just like the rest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?"
Just asking a general question really like I said just interested in peoples throughs I know there was going to be a lot of negative comments I have just seen a lot of womens profiles saying there husbands don’t know they are on here and it seams to be ok but if a guy does it he gets slated
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the end of the day ever 1 on here is all looking fir the same thing in some way or another in they "
Well no because haven’t you seen the ‘only here for the forums’ bios? |
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?
Just asking a general question really like I said just interested in peoples throughs I know there was going to be a lot of negative comments I have just seen a lot of womens profiles saying there husbands don’t know they are on here and it seams to be ok but if a guy does it he gets slated
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So do the women get 'slated' ...... If people don't like cheating they don't like it regardless of whether it's a man or a woman.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?
Just asking a general question really like I said just interested in peoples throughs I know there was going to be a lot of negative comments I have just seen a lot of womens profiles saying there husbands don’t know they are on here and it seams to be ok but if a guy does it he gets slated
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Gender is irrelevant. Cheating is unethical and hurts people. Man, woman, whatever your identity, if you are married and open, great. If you are married and cheating, I'm not interested.
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"It all ways interest me as you see a lot of married women on here with out husbands know witch seam to be ok but if a guy dose it it’s the over way round "
Your spill cheeker isn’t winking, oh shot never is mine. All ways, witch, seam, dose, over way round.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all ways interest me as you see a lot of married women on here with out husbands know witch seam to be ok but if a guy dose it it’s the over way round
Your spill cheeker isn’t winking, oh shot never is mine. All ways, witch, seam, dose, over way round. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know there will be a lot of people slating this post but are there meany women out there who are interested in married men "
I wouldn't say that I deliberately look for married men but it doesn't put me off
My lover is married. Works well for us both
Missy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married and I clearly state that on my profile,
If I message a couple or a woman and they read and delete it then il block them so I know not to message them again as I'm not to their liking, "
An enlightened fabber  |
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"I have also heard that so women will go for men who are married as it can be more of a challenge to them "
Yes i have no doubt that there are some women for whom this is true. It's just a small pond.
My view is I just don't want to cause pain to another woman. |
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It doesn’t bother me if someone is married or in a relationship and cheating that’s on them, but I wouldn’t knowingly meet them. Swinging or this lifestyle or whatever, for me at least, is about trust, can I trust the person I’m meeting, if they are knowingly being deceitful to their partner, someone they have shared a life with? If not, why would they be honest about important things (for me, sexual health, not getting involved in dramas etc) with me, some rando from the internet? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?
Just asking a general question really like I said just interested in peoples throughs I know there was going to be a lot of negative comments I have just seen a lot of womens profiles saying there husbands don’t know they are on here and it seams to be ok but if a guy does it he gets slated
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That's generally because most women just get on with cheating and don't start posts on it & also because many men won't care or spoil their chance of getting a meet by slating married women on the forum .It's also seems to be a turn on for alot of men judging by the amounts of posts started about it.
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?
Just asking a general question really like I said just interested in peoples throughs I know there was going to be a lot of negative comments I have just seen a lot of womens profiles saying there husbands don’t know they are on here and it seams to be ok but if a guy does it he gets slated
That's generally because most women just get on with cheating and don't start posts on it & also because many men won't care or spoil their chance of getting a meet by slating married women on the forum .It's also seems to be a turn on for alot of men judging by the amounts of posts started about it.
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At least "my husband doesn't know about it" can be taken as a warning that there's a danger of being named as co-respondent in a divorce if the things goes tits-up - in the worst way that is. |
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"I'm not sure what you're actually asking.
Yes, many people are fine with meeting people of all genders who are married and in open and ethical relationships.
Yes, many people will also refuse to meet people who are cheating on their spouse.
Which is it? Or is it something else you're trying to ask?
Just asking a general question really like I said just interested in peoples throughs I know there was going to be a lot of negative comments I have just seen a lot of womens profiles saying there husbands don’t know they are on here and it seams to be ok but if a guy does it he gets slated
So do the women get 'slated' ...... If people don't like cheating they don't like it regardless of whether it's a man or a woman.
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Not liking cheating is only one if the reasons.
Not liking drama is a good reason. |
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"I've literally never heard cheating women be praised. "
I have on here and in real life.
An acquaintance of mine is married to a man with a lower sex drive than her. She was and for all I know still is cheating on him with an old school friend . She h
received nothing but sympathy and praise from women friends who basically congratulate her on her empowerment while husband quietly provides financial security and convenience her and three children somehow conceived while she complained they weren't having sex  .
I've seen people on here say they find cheating women incredibly sexy too |
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"I've literally never heard cheating women be praised.
I have on here and in real life.
An acquaintance of mine is married to a man with a lower sex drive than her. She was and for all I know still is cheating on him with an old school friend . She h
received nothing but sympathy and praise from women friends who basically congratulate her on her empowerment while husband quietly provides financial security and convenience her and three children somehow conceived while she complained they weren't having sex .
I've seen people on here say they find cheating women incredibly sexy too"
That's so very sad  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I've literally never heard cheating women be praised.
I have on here and in real life.
An acquaintance of mine is married to a man with a lower sex drive than her. She was and for all I know still is cheating on him with an old school friend . She h
received nothing but sympathy and praise from women friends who basically congratulate her on her empowerment while husband quietly provides financial security and convenience her and three children somehow conceived while she complained they weren't having sex .
I've seen people on here say they find cheating women incredibly sexy too"
I agree there's several threads a week on it & I've had people try to meet me in the past,behind my other halfs back as they find it hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people think women and men will respond to cheating the same way. Men are less likely to be bothered or turn down an opportunity of a meet because of cheating. Women have more choice, can choose to avoid it if they feel like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know there will be a lot of people slating this post but are there meany women out there who are interested in married men "
If I'm attracted to them and they offer and they're not a Swinger then yes. |
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I wouldn't want to be the reason someone's life could be turned upside down and destroyed (if they found out).
You will find cheaters everywhere, men and women but they aren't for me..if you can't be honest with someone you are supposed to love/care for then it says a lot about your character x |
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"if you can't be honest with someone you are supposed to love/care for then it says a lot about your character x"
Does it?
I don't think it necessarily says *anything* about someone's character without knowing their situation. Whether you assume something about their character is up to you though. |
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"if you can't be honest with someone you are supposed to love/care for then it says a lot about your character x
Does it?
I don't think it necessarily says *anything* about someone's character without knowing their situation. Whether you assume something about their character is up to you though. "
To me, yes it does say a lot about their character. At the end of the day, cheating is cheating no matter what their situation may be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've literally never heard cheating women be praised.
I have on here and in real life.
An acquaintance of mine is married to a man with a lower sex drive than her. She was and for all I know still is cheating on him with an old school friend . She h
received nothing but sympathy and praise from women friends who basically congratulate her on her empowerment while husband quietly provides financial security and convenience her and three children somehow conceived while she complained they weren't having sex .
I've seen people on here say they find cheating women incredibly sexy too"
Is it men? The people saying it’s sexy, is it men saying that? |
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"I've literally never heard cheating women be praised.
I have on here and in real life.
An acquaintance of mine is married to a man with a lower sex drive than her. She was and for all I know still is cheating on him with an old school friend . She h
received nothing but sympathy and praise from women friends who basically congratulate her on her empowerment while husband quietly provides financial security and convenience her and three children somehow conceived while she complained they weren't having sex .
I've seen people on here say they find cheating women incredibly sexy too
Is it men? The people saying it’s sexy, is it men saying that? "
I've only ever heard men say it. I'm not sure if women think it but I reckon if they do they keep it quiet |
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If there's one truth about people is that anyone will fuck anyone.
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But, and this needs to be crystal clear...
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Not everyone will fuck everyone.
Plenty of women have a homewrecker kink, some get a kink from taking a man away from another woman. Some simply don't care and will fuck you just because you have a dick and a pulse, marital status doesn't factor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen people on here say they find cheating women incredibly sexy too
Is it men? The people saying it’s sexy, is it men saying that?
I've only ever heard men say it. I'm not sure if women think it but I reckon if they do they keep it quiet"
Based on the amount of women on here that, in my view, see cheating as harmful (and on this thread women have mention hurt it causes) I’d say that they mostly don’t find it sexy. Perhaps morals are less of an obstacle to sex for some men?
*pretends to be shocked* |
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"if you can't be honest with someone you are supposed to love/care for then it says a lot about your character x
Does it?
I don't think it necessarily says *anything* about someone's character without knowing their situation. Whether you assume something about their character is up to you though.
To me, yes it does say a lot about their character. At the end of the day, cheating is cheating no matter what their situation may be."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the forums they’ll all say no. Optics. 
So expect a bit of a lashing on this thread.
A very high percentage will privately though. Trust me "
Not me I get approached by them regularly and say no every time. Why they approach me I don’t know as my profile is crystal clear! |
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"I've seen people on here say they find cheating women incredibly sexy too
Is it men? The people saying it’s sexy, is it men saying that?
I've only ever heard men say it. I'm not sure if women think it but I reckon if they do they keep it quiet
Based on the amount of women on here that, in my view, see cheating as harmful (and on this thread women have mention hurt it causes) I’d say that they mostly don’t find it sexy. Perhaps morals are less of an obstacle to sex for some men?
*pretends to be shocked* "
What about the women who quietly go about the business of satisfying their ego by 'having' someone else's man? They find cheating sexy albeit they're making sex about power. |
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"I prefer married men.. shoot me now xx "
I've seen your pics, you could have literally any man you wanted. They might put up a brave fight "no, please, stop" but they would crawl on their belly across broken glass to get to you, married or not. |
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"I prefer married men.. shoot me now xx
I've seen your pics, you could have literally any man you wanted. They might put up a brave fight "no, please, stop" but they would crawl on their belly across broken glass to get to you, married or not."
Cammo is that you using another profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there's one truth about people is that anyone will fuck anyone.
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But, and this needs to be crystal clear...
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Not everyone will fuck everyone.
Plenty of women have a homewrecker kink, some get a kink from taking a man away from another woman. Some simply don't care and will fuck you just because you have a dick and a pulse, marital status doesn't factor."
That is probably why so many men cry when they can't get a meet on here- they likely assume that some women will fuck them because they have a dick and a pulse. |
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