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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like you said, there's nothing you can do about it so why worry?
It will bother some people and not others.
Concentrate on the positives and do your best to present yourself well. There's no point dwelling on things you can't change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't bother me...M is 5ft 7" and I am almost 5ft 5...I find that because there isn't much between us we entwine with ease and more compatible physically  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like you said, there's nothing you can do about it so why worry?
It will bother some people and not others.
Concentrate on the positives and do your best to present yourself well. There's no point dwelling on things you can't change."
And this..can't change your height, so don't worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i met a man not long ago, i wasnt sure about him because i am 5ft10 and he was 5ft4, but glad i did because he was gorgeous. 
just as long as they dont have little man syndrome. 
someone said my dog had little dog syndrome because she is so snappy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wear wedges. Apart from looking really cool, it gives you that extra pulling power 
cuban heels work too  only if you are John Travolta "
have ya seen me dance ? i mean REALLY dance ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Height really has nothing to do with it!
As you can't change it why worry?
I am 5'1 and Luke is 6'4, ok I have to stand on tip toe to kiss him! But when we are laying down it makes no difference!! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I wear wedges. Apart from looking really cool, it gives you that extra pulling power
cuban heels work too only if you are John Travolta
have ya seen me dance ? i mean REALLY dance ? "
i can tell by the way you use your walk youre womans man..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im 5ft 3.
had all that bullying and stuff.
and one thing ive done is ride to the challenge and prove people wrong.
its not the size of the dog in the fight.
its the size of the fight inside of the dog! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy "
Sometimes as a woman you want someone taller than yourself the same with a guy being skinnier than you too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm me and always will be me so fuck it won't worry about being the short guy lol I love life and life loves me when it ain't kicking me in the teeth lol |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I wear wedges. Apart from looking really cool, it gives you that extra pulling power
cuban heels work too only if you are John Travolta
have ya seen me dance ? i mean REALLY dance ? "
Maybe all us shorty's could just sit on the floor and do the Oops upside your head dance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm me and always will be me so fuck it won't worry about being the short guy lol I love life and life loves me when it ain't kicking me in the teeth lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im 5ft 3.
had all that bullying and stuff.
and one thing ive done is ride to the challenge and prove people wrong.
its not the size of the dog in the fight.
its the size of the fight inside of the dog!"
I've never seen the need for a fight.
My height (or lack thereof) is something I would say works for me as much as it has worked against me.
I was short AND fat as a teen and was the butt of many a joke and jibe.
Never saw the need to fight - just walked away thinking 'whatever, dickhead' |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Height really has nothing to do with it!
As you can't change it why worry?
I am 5'1 and Luke is 6'4, ok I have to stand on tip toe to kiss him! But when we are laying down it makes no difference!! "
Haha I have visions of you using your tongue to hook out Luke's belly button fluff |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im 5ft 3.
had all that bullying and stuff.
and one thing ive done is ride to the challenge and prove people wrong.
its not the size of the dog in the fight.
its the size of the fight inside of the dog!"
So very true mate |
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your hardly a dwarf but i now cant get this dam song out of my head
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To dig dig dig dig dig dig dig is what we really like to do
It ain't no trick to get rich quick
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Where a million diamonds shine!
We dig dig dig dig dig dig dig from early morn till night
We dig dig dig dig dig dig dig up everything in sight
We dig up diamonds by the score
A thousand rubies, sometimes more
But we don't know what we dig 'em for
We dig dig dig a-dig dig
Heigh-ho, Heigh-ho
Heigh-ho, Heigh-ho
Heigh-ho
Chorus
Heigh-ho, Heigh-ho
It's home from work we go
Heigh-ho, Heigh-ho, Heigh-ho
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im afraid Im height-ist. Its one of the things that makes a guy attractive to me so thats what Im looking for."
Yes I wouldn't like a man shorter than me either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Height really has nothing to do with it!
As you can't change it why worry?
I am 5'1 and Luke is 6'4, ok I have to stand on tip toe to kiss him! But when we are laying down it makes no difference!!
Haha I have visions of you using your tongue to hook out Luke's belly button fluff"
Ha ha trust you!! And that's yucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im 5ft 3.
had all that bullying and stuff.
and one thing ive done is ride to the challenge and prove people wrong.
its not the size of the dog in the fight.
its the size of the fight inside of the dog!
I've never seen the need for a fight.
My height (or lack thereof) is something I would say works for me as much as it has worked against me.
I was short AND fat as a teen and was the butt of many a joke and jibe.
Never saw the need to fight - just walked away thinking 'whatever, dickhead'"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im 5ft 3.
had all that bullying and stuff.
and one thing ive done is ride to the challenge and prove people wrong.
its not the size of the dog in the fight.
its the size of the fight inside of the dog!"
I have noticed that little dogs fart more than larger ones too.  |
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy "
There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Snowhite never had a problem with people who are vertically challenged so for every smaller person out there there will be a smaller person lover. "
or at least 1 lover for every 7 |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
* I have noticed that little dogs fart more than larger ones too.*
And that is a proper scientific experiment, sydney university please take note, world leading science .... U.k. style... |
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By *andCCouple
over a year ago
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy "
As someone already pointed out:
"Some do, some don't. Ya can't win 'em all "
I an inch or so shorter than you and I've never had a problem. Most of my girlfriends have been taller, some of them significantly. Love it if C wears heels when we go out; love to emphasise the height difference ...she's already an inch taller than me without them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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arghhh my least favourte phrase. I like my men tall, some men like their ladies slim... all about preferences, several reasons i like about tall men, not just that they're handy for changing light bulbs x
"It don't matter once you lay down, I think most ladies are hitting 5' 10" to 6' once they stick the killer heels on "
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc. "
Why do you assume he actually means vanguard ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc. "
What's has the OPs user name got to do with height?? Perhaps he wants his username spelt like that?? |
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I'm well over six feet tall in my heels and although not fat, I am an imposing woman. I'm also a bit gobby and a bit overbearing so my preference is for tall men with a confident personality.
Having said that, I have played with men shorter than average in clubs and of course, have had a lovely time but on a one-to-one basis, I prefer at least as tall as me.
It is all about attraction and us humans can't control what we are attracted to. |
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc.
What's has the OPs user name got to do with height?? Perhaps he wants his username spelt like that?? "
Your first question...because he can do something about a possible mis-spelling whereas he can't affect his height. Your second question I had already answered..."unless you deliberately...." etc. I was trying to be helpful to the OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc.
What's has the OPs user name got to do with height?? Perhaps he wants his username spelt like that?? Your first question...because he can do something about a possible mis-spelling whereas he can't affect his height. Your second question I had already answered..."unless you deliberately...." etc. I was trying to be helpful to the OP "
Ah ok... Good thinking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc.
What's has the OPs user name got to do with height?? Perhaps he wants his username spelt like that?? Your first question...because he can do something about a possible mis-spelling whereas he can't affect his height. Your second question I had already answered..."unless you deliberately...." etc. I was trying to be helpful to the OP
Ah ok... Good thinking "
I spelt it that way to see if anyone would comment only taken a month lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No problem here, im only 5ft 3ins and prefer small and neat some times , saves me getting a crick in my neck, among other places.
And remember, nice things come in small packages |
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I have a preference for tall men, however, both jay and my ex husband are 5ft 6". With being 5ft 1 myself doesnt really make much difference. Quite nice being the same height as someone when i have my heels on |
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"No problem here, im only 5ft 3ins and prefer small and neat some times , saves me getting a crick in my neck, among other places.
And remember, nice things come in small packages "
So does poison , thats what my mum used to say to me lol |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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Quite a few men are smaller than me because i wear killerheels.Doesn't bother me but had a guy winging if i always wear high heels .....it is nice mind to be able to kiss standing without me having to bend down |
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc.
Why do you assume he actually means vanguard ?"
On the balance of probabilities and as he's now changed it I guess. Next.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, being short is a problem, specially for the UK women.
I am not from around nor I never actually tried to actively engage a woman here, but the fact is that in british women profiles, tall guys are often demanded. If that is out in the open for some, i believe that there are many many others that won't honestly say that because it will make them look bad in the picture or too demanding :D
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc.
Why do you assume he actually means vanguard ? On the balance of probabilities and as he's now changed it I guess. Next.... "
Ok mr I'm so perfect why not talk to me and not about me as if I don't exist yes I suffer from dyslexia no I'm not thick stupid or any other put down you want me to feel and yes I have feelings and thank you for pointing my spelling mistake self confidence taken another kicking. Try and be a little bit less insensitive in future please |
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"Ok mr I'm so perfect why not talk to me and not about me as if I don't exist yes I suffer from dyslexia no I'm not thick stupid or any other put down you want me to feel and yes I have feelings and thank you for pointing my spelling mistake self confidence taken another kicking. Try and be a little bit less insensitive in future please "
So now you've taken to name-calling. I was answering the post from another poster. Grow up  |
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc.
Why do you assume he actually means vanguard ? On the balance of probabilities and as he's now changed it I guess. Next....
Ok mr I'm so perfect why not talk to me and not about me as if I don't exist yes I suffer from dyslexia no I'm not thick stupid or any other put down you want me to feel and yes I have feelings and thank you for pointing my spelling mistake self confidence taken another kicking. Try and be a little bit less insensitive in future please "
Now im confused as you just said this
"I spelt it that way to see if anyone would comment only taken a month lol " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok mr I'm so perfect why not talk to me and not about me as if I don't exist yes I suffer from dyslexia no I'm not thick stupid or any other put down you want me to feel and yes I have feelings and thank you for pointing my spelling mistake self confidence taken another kicking. Try and be a little bit less insensitive in future please So now you've taken to name-calling. I was answering the post from another poster. Grow up "
In all fairness, your initial comment was pedantic.
It should, however, really have been left there.
Let's not get into a 'he said', 'she said' state of affairs that serves no purpose other than to make you both look a bit silly.
If you want to fall out, do it in private.
But I see little point in falling out when a group hug may be all that is required.
And with that, I am off to enjoy my weekend.
Have fun folks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok mr I'm so perfect why not talk to me and not about me as if I don't exist yes I suffer from dyslexia no I'm not thick stupid or any other put down you want me to feel and yes I have feelings and thank you for pointing my spelling mistake self confidence taken another kicking. Try and be a little bit less insensitive in future please So now you've taken to name-calling. I was answering the post from another poster. Grow up "
No not name calling and sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy There is something you can do about your username unless you deliberately mis-spelt "vanguard". First impressions etc.
Why do you assume he actually means vanguard ? On the balance of probabilities and as he's now changed it I guess. Next....
Ok mr I'm so perfect why not talk to me and not about me as if I don't exist yes I suffer from dyslexia no I'm not thick stupid or any other put down you want me to feel and yes I have feelings and thank you for pointing my spelling mistake self confidence taken another kicking. Try and be a little bit less insensitive in future please
Now im confused as you just said this
"I spelt it that way to see if anyone would comment only taken a month lol ""
said to cover my dyslexia sorry for confusion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's funny how taller people and shorter people get the brunt of the jokes. I was always the shortest in my class at school and often got told to stand up then they would say oh you are standing up ha ha ha so funny I forgot to laugh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm 6ft 4" and fed up of the same, piss poor jokes.
The weather is the same as down there, bawbag.
First post, btw. Hello small folk."
Hello my tall friend and welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm 6ft 4" and fed up of the same, piss poor jokes.
The weather is the same as down there, bawbag.
First post, btw. Hello small folk."
You found us forumites then. Welcome xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't have hang ups I put this thread up as a bit of a laugh as people say they are looking for tall men. I really don't care I am the height I am just got a bit upset when my dyslexia was dragged out but hay ho everyone knows now so no harm done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And nowt wrong with being 5 foot 6,,,,,,,,,when you are 12 !!!!!!!!
Sorry just kidding, I meant ten !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am 5 foot 6 and nothing I can do about it do people have a problem meeting a shorter guy
oi! lofty! what's the weather like up there?!
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Cold and its only coz Im bald pmsfl
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"I don't have hang ups I put this thread up as a bit of a laugh as people say they are looking for tall men. I really don't care I am the height I am just got a bit upset when my dyslexia was dragged out but hay ho everyone knows now so no harm done "
And your new name now reflects the real you better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't have hang ups I put this thread up as a bit of a laugh as people say they are looking for tall men. I really don't care I am the height I am just got a bit upset when my dyslexia was dragged out but hay ho everyone knows now so no harm done
And your new name now reflects the real you better. "
Thank you and yes the real me is what you see |
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