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What gets an automatic BLOCK for you?
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By *ocothumpa OP Man
over a year ago
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My block list is lengthy; mainly because if I look on a profile and they put ‘white guys only’ or ‘no offence but my/our preference is white or Asian’ then they go on my block list
It’s the same as ‘no looking for single men’ or ‘bi-male wanted’
And profiles with LENGTHY wants/preferences or ‘No-No’s’ - I’ll just assume you’re not for me
You’re not looking for me I’m not going to waste my time looking at you. |
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"My block list is lengthy; mainly because if I look on a profile and they put ‘white guys only’ or ‘no offence but my/our preference is white or Asian’ then they go on my block list
It’s the same as ‘no looking for single men’ or ‘bi-male wanted’
And profiles with LENGTHY wants/preferences or ‘No-No’s’ - I’ll just assume you’re not for me
You’re not looking for me I’m not going to waste my time looking at you. "
If they message and I’m not interested then I usually block. Never blocked anyone I recognise from the forums though. |
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I hope I’m not being toooo picky, but I am very clear in my profile narrative about how to contact me and the criteria. I very rarely block … only if someone is persistent, but will often ignore.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I can see the preview is unprovoked abuse… usually a case of small-man syndrome. Sometimes I choose violence and respond, sometimes instant block… all about balance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't even know you could see this. But I found it, and looked. I have blocked 4 profiles, and 1 person. That person is the owner of all 4 blocked profiles. I block them because they pollute my local updates thing with utterly vile pictures that make me want to stab myself in the eye with my own prostate. |
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That's a tough one.
Our profile is fairly detailed with what we don't want but we've reasons for each and as it's our choice on who we meet, why not list them? If they bother people that's okay, they can block us.
I personally can't stand someone sending dick pics in an intro and talking to me as a single woman when it's clearly a couples profile. It's rude and disrespectful and I can only imagine Fumbles reaction if we were out and some guy approached me seeing us together and acted like he wasn't there. That's an insta-block for me. Profiles that don't have content and aren't photo verified get blocked too, they just come across as lazy straight away.
Another that winds me up is people who ask for face pics but don't send themselves. Although I don't block for it, if they catch me in the wrong mood I have been known to.
This reads like I'm a total cow but I'm really not! Honest. 
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"Unpalatable social or political views. If I can see it on Fab, I don't want to see more of it in person."
I fully agree. And doing it also has the benefits of preventing any DMs your way, that expand on their viewpoints.
Otherwise, it's standard for me to block, when anyone isn't palatable and mutually attractive, after messages |
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Guys telling us they are wanking over our pics - instant block so they can’t again.
We don’t block any other people unless they become incessant when we say no.
We just delete messages that are just cock pics, hi, FaF messages.
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"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have "
Yes I agree! On my profile I have tried to make clear what I'm looking for, but if someone other messaged me I'd still be flattered! Guess that makes me a bit of a saddo, right? Haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have "
Why allow anyone to start or continue messaging if not interested?
I wouldn't call it negative, I'd call it a proactive way of keeping unwanted penises out of my inbox.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block those who don’t read my profile or follow a basic requested rule. Let’s face it, if you can’t follow an early requested rule then there’s no point moving forward  |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
Incompatible profiles are not a ‘block’ for me…it would be more like, an abusive unprovoked message. Or if I get bombarded with unsolicited requests to “fuck the woman in your photo” (on another site). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When smokers contact us, who clearly have not read our profile. Equally same with 420 or HnH. Not decrying or belittling their recreation choices. But those choices mean we are an immediate non match. Also , sending friends invitation without any messages will illicit a block  |
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Most of those on my block list are there because of inane and insane(thanks phone) status updates or because of something they've said in the forums.
The latter is usually to prevent them commenting on my profile when they are sniping on here.
Introductory messages that give me a list of demands (instructions isn't a strong enough word) and/or those who like to tell me what I'm doing wrong and how I will never succeed on here get blockety blocked too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often block people just from my search results as I don't want them repeatedly showing up...
1. Women whose profiles consist mainly of things they don't want.
2. Crossdressers -- they're not women or TS and in all honesty the tv/ts category needs an update to reflect the difference.
3. Anyone with obviously poor self-care.
4. Homophobes, racists / excessively racial fetishisers, transphobes etc.
5. Anyone excessively woke -- i.e. the pronoun obsessed types who don't have their politics based in reality.
6. Women who obviously (by their profile) don't want me -- no point in keeping them from showing up if we're not compatible. |
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"I hope I’m not being toooo picky, but I am very clear in my profile narrative about how to contact me and the criteria. I very rarely block … only if someone is persistent, but will often ignore.
R x"
You get to be as picky as you like. It will poor since people off but they probably wouldn't be the right person for your anyway. So it's no loss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just blocked someone for trying to fetishize my weight... but didn't want me to verify them after we met as his friends are on here and he couldn't be verified by a "fatty""
Not fat… beautiful!  |
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Auto block for me is usually guys who message and ask if I can meet now, when told no because I need to plan ahead having a life and a job they keep messaging saying oh go on I really want to meet you now.
If they can’t understand No at this stage I automatically assume they also don’t understand no when it comes to consent so they get blocked. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I only block if they are really whiny , it takes a lot. I have blocked occasionally for my own good to prevent me doing booty calls where I know that are bad for me.
I sometimes click on profiles to see if I’m blocked yet and am often pleasantly surprised  |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I block if someone sends a rude or crude message. Be better, I say to those people
I counter-block if I notice I’m blocked.
I have blocked a few from the forums because I didn’t care for the way they conducted themselves. If people are going to be unpleasant to others then we definitely won’t get along. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I block if someone sends a rude or crude message. Be better, I say to those people
I counter-block if I notice I’m blocked.
I have blocked a few from the forums because I didn’t care for the way they conducted themselves. If people are going to be unpleasant to others then we definitely won’t get along. "
I just checked if I was blocked.
Phew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only reason I ever block anyone is to counterblock if I notice they’ve blocked me, I’m petty like that, but not petty enough to block anyone else on an internet fuck site just because I might not agree with them on the forums or whatnot. Life’s too short for all that bobbins! |
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Tricky, but I block racism and homophobia. Some of the things that are peevs for others like a huge list of dos and don'ts are usually because they have been messed about and we all get that, we're allowed to want what we want. Just because I'm Bi doesn't mean I'll see anyone, I like my men pretty. Does that make me shallow? Probably, but at least I haven't restricted myself to women only. |
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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago
Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K. |
I generally only block if someone has messaged and I send a no thanks in return and they keep messaging. I did block someone for asking me to tell him all the details of our first (and only) verification. Ummmmm..No! I did have a day where I thought I would block locals we weren't interested in, but I feel bad about that now. Wish I hadn't done it, as it seems kinda harsh. |
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"Just blocked someone for trying to fetishize my weight... but didn't want me to verify them after we met as his friends are on here and he couldn't be verified by a "fatty""
Do they realise this is the real world and it isn't populated by Pornhub models? You look fabulous, dahling. I'm going to mail you privately ok? |
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"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block. "
Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block.
Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you?"
Getting them off?
You said it yourself, you get off if they get off! |
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By *igGs19Woman
over a year ago
Castle Douglas |
Monosyllabic messages, such as simply "hi" or "fun?"
Flurry of cock pics and nothing else.
Messages that show they've clearly not read my profile, e.g, it clearly states I won't do short notice meets / meets without a bit of chatting, etc., They then message with "I really loved your profile do you wanna meet tonight?", Can't have loved my profile buddy...
Spam in local updates, there's a few who post a new cock pic or six every day... Really? It's still there buddy, it hasn't fallen off, give it a break.
Abusive/ keyboard warrior types on the forums, if they're in a reasonable radius of me or any clubs I may intend on visiting. If I'm unlikely to cross their path outwith the forum, I won't block. |
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"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block.
Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you?
Getting them off?
You said it yourself, you get off if they get off!"
Probably an oversimplification on my part, but in my head I know what I meant. People should respect what you want. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"Any messages with descriptive scenarios involving me in any BDSM when I’ve clearly stated I find nothing more off-putting. Instant block.
Surely people should be looking to suggest things that turn you on, not turn them on. I get off if the person I'm with gets off. If all they ask for is what gets them off, what's in it for you?
Getting them off?
You said it yourself, you get off if they get off!
Probably an oversimplification on my part, but in my head I know what I meant. People should respect what you want."
In theory that is what should happen, but in practice, in their heads they are sex gods who will make me surrender and make me their sex toy thing. They will be the ones who change my mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lack of patience. The first message, followed by ‘guess not then’ a couple of minutes later. Petulant toddler behaviour, hate it.
Unending messages and not taking a hint.
Abuse and trolling (obviously)
Any misogyny or racism, they don’t deserve to see my free porn  |
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For us, just cock pictures are a block. Fancy some fun now messages received @ 03:00 in the morning, any profile related to drugs both get blocks , as do ( and not in a nasty way) single guy profiles that do not appeal to us both, and the final blocks are the pushy people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clearly not reading my profile as I have quite specific requirements and still send me a cut and paste mail, if there is a cock in the profile picture and the classic "how's you". |
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"Cock profile pics
Cheating
Referring to Xeno as "she" or "her"
Profile pic switcheroos
Pushing certain acts
The list goes on "
I'll add that this isn't in reference to gender, more that I like to be referred to by name - Xeno |
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I find it easy enough to ignore any messages I don't like and haven't encountered anyone persistent enough to warrant a block.
I wouldn't block anyone based on forum posts...I'm not conceited enough to think they might contact me with a view to meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh gawd I’m quite harsh with the blocking
Anyone not my type
Dick pics in first message
Wanna meet messages
Poor profiles and no pics
Messages going straight into sexual chat
Anyone I recognise
One worded messages
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I've no need to waste my energy blocking.
The only real reasons would be:
Someone I'm not intrested in or dislike continuing to message me, wink me, like my photos etc.
After a creepy message
Or simply the profile of someone I recognise where us interacting (even on a platonic level) or knowing of each others presence on here would not be helpful. I.e. a family or work colleague. My lifestyle isn't some dark secret but it's not something splash about the place. I chose the friends and family I happy to know about this life. For others my presence on here is none of their business and likewise their presence on here is non of mine. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
- Profiles that mention their 'twitter or OF accounts' 
- People who contradict themselves
or are hypocrites! Eg some lady
messaged 1st & asked for my
facepic! This same person had
posted 'no1 reads profiles anyone
status post previous'. Well had
she read my profile would have
seen 'I clearly stated you ask
for facepic you send yours 1st' 
- Anyone rude or entitled  I
ain't got time for brats lol |
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"Why block anyone it's a very negative attitude to have
Yes I agree! On my profile I have tried to make clear what I'm looking for, but if someone other messaged me I'd still be flattered! Guess that makes me a bit of a saddo, right? Haha! "
naaaa I'm on your side |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My block list is now the size of a small continent, I have sooo many reasons why I block  The main reason is usually the constant follow up messages asking why not or being abusive after I’ve taken the time to send a really polite no thank you (and I mean genuinely polite) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Begging
Spamming us for attention
Ignoring our profile aims
Asking US when the Mrs is putting out for THEM
Being demanding for a meet
Not taking no fir an answer everytime it says we're online. |
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By *igGs19Woman
over a year ago
Castle Douglas |
"My block list is now the size of a small continent, I have sooo many reasons why I block The main reason is usually the constant follow up messages asking why not or being abusive after I’ve taken the time to send a really polite no thank you (and I mean genuinely polite) "
There's no winning, you respond and say no, you get abuse, you don't respond at all, you get abuse... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I discover that someone is the sort of someone, who parks in reserved kids or disabled bays without said kids or disability.
Those sort of someone's are a lower form of life - block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I discover that someone is the sort of someone, who parks in reserved kids or disabled bays without said kids or disability.
Those sort of someone's are a lower form of life - block. "
I’m just interested how THAT comes up in conversation on Fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I discover that someone is the sort of someone, who parks in reserved kids or disabled bays without said kids or disability.
Those sort of someone's are a lower form of life - block.
I’m just interested how THAT comes up in conversation on Fab! "
Well, we are pretty bizarre..... |
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"Coke/snow/420 friendly/HnH. What you smoke or snort is your own affair, but we want nothing to do with it.
What's HnH? I know the other 3."
Hungry 'N Hippo. I've seen so many burgeoning relationships founder after an over-competitive swallow. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I've received a pretty swift block tonight.
As soon as I mentioned I wasn't into phone sex, I was blocked. Not a problem, it saves any further wasted messages.
I was just surprised at how quickly I went from being sexy to nothing |
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After chatting to a bloke for a bit plus chatted on Watsup too to arrange a future meet , I called him buddy
He replied “I not your buddy “
I responded by saying , true you are not and ignored him . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After chatting to a bloke for a bit plus chatted on Watsup too to arrange a future meet , I called him buddy
He replied “I not your buddy “
I responded by saying , true you are not and ignored him ."
I really wish you had gone full terrence and phillip at this.
"I'm not your buddy, pal..." |
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Generally only block when people get in touch repeatedly after we've previously declined.
Also occasionally bloke local guys who will repeatedly like Mrs pics. Like every day like a few more. We're not looking to meet men and frankly it's just creepy. I wonder if people think it'll catch people's attention
That said I am curious how many people have blocked us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Occasionally we block for messages devoid of thought or grammar. The worst by far was "wanna fuc". We haven't as yet, received any abuse. "
You’re lucky, I’ve even received abuse because my daily status updates aren’t funny enough |
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"Occasionally we block for messages devoid of thought or grammar. The worst by far was "wanna fuc". We haven't as yet, received any abuse.
You’re lucky, I’ve even received abuse because my daily status updates aren’t funny enough "
I've seen that status update, it's not that funny, but certainly nothing you should get abuse for, you're here for swinging not stand up comedy.
Amazing body, by the way |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
Currently Faraway |
"Coke/snow/420 friendly/HnH. What you smoke or snort is your own affair, but we want nothing to do with it.
What's HnH? I know the other 3."
High’n’horny apparently according to the slang dictionary. |
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I'm very generous with the block button. People I don't like the look of. People who spam my local updates. People who are unpleasant.
I even pre-emptively block people from the forums who I think might be prone to taking disagreements off the boards and into my inbox. |
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