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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does it bother you when a man doesn't finish?
I've recently started taking new meds for my anxiety and now I can go for hours but I give up out of exhaustion rather than finish
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Yes, my husband & I were talking about this last week
I'm a bareback lady, a guy shooting inside me is where I get my enjoyment from & is usually what triggers me to cum
If he doesn't cum, nor will & so both our times will have been wasted |
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"Does it bother you when a man doesn't finish?
I've recently started taking new meds for my anxiety and now I can go for hours but I give up out of exhaustion rather than finish
Would I be a disappointment? "
Hell no  |
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"Yes, my husband & I were talking about this last week
I'm a bareback lady, a guy shooting inside me is where I get my enjoyment from & is usually what triggers me to cum
If he doesn't cum, nor will & so both our times will have been wasted "
That's a kinda sad view of what's supposed to be an enjoyable activity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honest answer - yes!
I love having sex for hours but the man would need to cum once,twice maybe more in those hours.  "
Could I come twice in the first ten minutes and get it over with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honest answer - yes!
I love having sex for hours but the man would need to cum once,twice maybe more in those hours.
Could I come twice in the first ten minutes and get it over with? "
No |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It does a little but only because I’d be worried in my own head I hadn’t satisfied them  "
That's my issue aswell,I don't want people to think it's their fault. Even my partner got a little upset at first. |
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"Avoid the meds before sex
Problem resolved, your welcome "
I’d say don’t do this at all meds are there for a reason and even if you did swerve it for a session it’s likely it’s still in your system any way…. Or was you jesting hmmm |
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No it wouldn't disappoint. Especially if I knew beforehand.
I don't always climax and if that disappoints a bloke ..... he's allowed that feeling though it won't bother me.
There are so many ways of enjoying a good sex session and of ensuring those that want to orgasm can do ....
A good seeing to has it's place  it's not essential nor is it the be all and end all.
It's more important to me to know that my 'partner' ( who ever that may be ) feels good and enjoyed what took place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No it wouldn't disappoint. Especially if I knew beforehand.
I don't always climax and if that disappoints a bloke ..... he's allowed that feeling though it won't bother me.
There are so many ways of enjoying a good sex session and of ensuring those that want to orgasm can do ....
A good seeing to has it's place it's not essential nor is it the be all and end all.
It's more important to me to know that my 'partner' ( who ever that may be ) feels good and enjoyed what took place. "
^^^ agreed
So long as I knew what to expect or not expect. It's only fair not to leave a partner wondering and questioning your enjoyment and satisfaction with them |
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"Does it bother you when a man doesn't finish?
I've recently started taking new meds for my anxiety and now I can go for hours but I give up out of exhaustion rather than finish
Would I be a disappointment? "
as I'm only on fab for bukkake gangbang play.. yeah for me it would be a disappointment.. however if I was playing 121 it would be less of an issue but that's not what I'm here for x |
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If I’m honest, yes. I love that part of it. Although I would never show disappointment or say anything as wouldn’t want to hurt any feelings or make someone feel bad. I would also rather be told beforehand that this could be the case. |
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My Mrs has no desire for me to cum, mainly due to post nut comedown and its not something I am particularly fussed about. She enjoys the feeling of a cock in her, not the end result. In fact she prefers to play with guys who won't cum.
I think it's a very individual thing though, as demonstrated here, for some women it's a fundamental reason to have sex. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It would bother me unless we have a conversation and so I was aware. I might be trying to help you finish and feel it's only fair if we both orgasm, but if I know that it's harder for you, or you don't want to or it's unlikely to happen then I would be fine about it. Communication is key |
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"Yes, my husband & I were talking about this last week
I'm a bareback lady, a guy shooting inside me is where I get my enjoyment from & is usually what triggers me to cum
If he doesn't cum, nor will & so both our times will have been wasted
That's a kinda sad view of what's supposed to be an enjoyable activity "
But it's the cum I enjoy, I can forgo the sex, to me the most enjoyable bit is them cumming, that the bit I look forward to, that's what usually makes me cum
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