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"OK so I know Fab is a website to find some pussy or cock but has anyone on here found someone to have a long term relationship with?"
I haven't personally but I have a friend who found his girlfriend here. Been together two years and still going strong |
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over a year ago
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said."
Love sucks. |
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"OK so I know Fab is a website to find some pussy or cock but has anyone on here found someone to have a long term relationship with?"
Great sex was the aim when I met My Girl on here. Just two horny single parents looking some filthy no strings fun. We both didn't want relationships. Our first social meet started slow in a tea rooms, then I kissed her, moved into a bit of fun in the car and ended with us leaving a lovely pub hand in hand. It was just apparent from the end of that first meet there was something between us. She is now my Fiancée and we're going strong four years later. Sometimes you find more than your looking for on here  |
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"I’d like too but I honestly can’t see how it would happen."
That's when it is most likely to happen.
Keep your senses alive, not deadened by routine, and you'll hear Life whispering in your ear.
The word it whispers is 'Yes'. |
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"I’d like too but I honestly can’t see how it would happen.
That's when it is most likely to happen.
Keep your senses alive, not deadened by routine, and you'll hear Life whispering in your ear.
The word it whispers is 'Yes'."
I’ll be sure to keep an open ear and a weathered eye for this whisper of hope  |
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks. "
As Roy Orbison almost said. |
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I have found very good friends on here; I did not need a partner per se. In my mind there is no difference between meeting someone on Fab and a meeting in the pub.
Indeed, if you are a real swinger, then this is the best place to meet a kindred spirit. You should not have to spend time convincing a vanilla partner to swing.
However, in my experience a good proportion of the ladies who strike up relationships on here turn vanilla for a while to cement their relationship.
So yes you can find a partner just keep looking and be open to it. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks. "
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK so I know Fab is a website to find some pussy or cock but has anyone on here found someone to have a long term relationship with?"
I found my wife on here about 7 years ago.
So yes we found a long term relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks.
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful.
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It's sucks when you feel that way, but no one ever feels that way about you.
Yes I am bitter and twisted! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks.
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful.
It's sucks when you feel that way, but no one ever feels that way about you.
Yes I am bitter and twisted! "
No, you're not bitter and twisted. For one you've got fantastic taste in seasonal wear - if pumpkins bring you happy you can't be that bitter.
I think you're maybe a tad jaded, disheartened but I don't think you're twisted. It must be pretty shit to not have that reciprocated. Doesn't make you anything negative to feel that way. |
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks.
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful.
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You know what Meli, your right. It is, but for me Kove is an old friend that’s become that fucker that pisses me off an I don’t want to talk to him right now. He upset me. Of course we might talk and become besties again, but right now he can fuck off. 
I’m not looking, I’m still struggling with what I had, which felt perfect for a time.
I’m happy to find someone to be something new. Not the true love, and the soul mate etc. just wonderful times together and they make you happy being in your life. That would be nice. |
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks.
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful.
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I'm not 'biased due to things' - except reading literature! - but I agree with every word of this. Love is stronger than Death and Time. It knocks you off your feet, but lifts you to Heaven. It shatters you into fragments of dust, and rebuilds you into something more beautiful than you could have imagined. It is a hand stretched across the abyss. The first breath of crisp winter air. It is what we were born for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks.
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful.
It's sucks when you feel that way, but no one ever feels that way about you.
Yes I am bitter and twisted!
No, you're not bitter and twisted. For one you've got fantastic taste in seasonal wear - if pumpkins bring you happy you can't be that bitter.
I think you're maybe a tad jaded, disheartened but I don't think you're twisted. It must be pretty shit to not have that reciprocated. Doesn't make you anything negative to feel that way. "
I do! Is it too early for Xmas socks?
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks.
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful.
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Nods in agreement as per - couldn’t have put it better x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"...but I think love is wonderful.
You know what Meli, your right. It is, but for me love is an old friend that’s become that fucker that pisses me off an I don’t want to talk to him right now. He upset me. Of course we might talk and become besties again, but right now he can fuck off.
I’m not looking, I’m still struggling with what I had, which felt perfect for a time.
I’m happy to find someone to be something new. Not the true love, and the soul mate etc. just wonderful times together and they make you happy being in your life. That would be nice. "
Oh Woody. That struggle can be difficult because it feels like you won't and don't even want to be back in that perfect time.
There's so much value in a myriad of relationships and dynamics though - they don't have to be your One True Love, you can enjoy people for the way they spark something inside you. How you are with them and they with you. I hope you do find that person for something new, you've got so much passion to give going by some of your erm raunchier posts. x |
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I used to have a Playmate on here (FWB/NSA are shit terms) We got up to lots of fun and naughty stuff because we knew each well, trusted each other and kept one another safe. No commitments, so we were free to see other people without the jealousy etc.
I’d love to have that again, because who doesn’t want regular sex (and you know it’s going to be awesome!)
But it’s not easy finding that one that ticks most of the “required” boxes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...but I think love is wonderful.
You know what Meli, your right. It is, but for me love is an old friend that’s become that fucker that pisses me off an I don’t want to talk to him right now. He upset me. Of course we might talk and become besties again, but right now he can fuck off.
I’m not looking, I’m still struggling with what I had, which felt perfect for a time.
I’m happy to find someone to be something new. Not the true love, and the soul mate etc. just wonderful times together and they make you happy being in your life. That would be nice.
Oh Woody. That struggle can be difficult because it feels like you won't and don't even want to be back in that perfect time.
There's so much value in a myriad of relationships and dynamics though - they don't have to be your One True Love, you can enjoy people for the way they spark something inside you. How you are with them and they with you. I hope you do find that person for something new, you've got so much passion to give going by some of your erm raunchier posts. x"
The ones where I say I want to slap my cock on her butt cheeks? Or ‘I want to look into her eyes and I need her to feel how truly beautiful I think she is?’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks. "
That’s true, but do you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK so I know Fab is a website to find some pussy or cock but has anyone on here found someone to have a long term relationship with?
I found my wife on here about 7 years ago.
So yes we found a long term relationship "
That's a long time for them to be lost. Were they in Tibet with Brad Pitt? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From reading similar threads, it would seem lots of people, which is all rather heartwarming, isn't it?
Love finds a way, as Jeff Goldblum almost said.
Love sucks.
Oh love is beautiful. Sure sometimes it's challenging, infuriating, upsetting. But it's worth it for that sense of peace and joy you feel when you're around them, the desire to go on many adventures with them and yet know they'll always be your lighthouse in the darkest days. It's about someone accepting all of you for the real you and I don't think that could ever suck.
There's even the sheer delight of falling in love. Finding relationships in very unexpected places and people. I'm a bit of a romantic soul I think (bound to happen when you read Literature) and a tad biased due to things but I think love is wonderful.
It's sucks when you feel that way, but no one ever feels that way about you.
Yes I am bitter and twisted!
No, you're not bitter and twisted. For one you've got fantastic taste in seasonal wear - if pumpkins bring you happy you can't be that bitter.
I think you're maybe a tad jaded, disheartened but I don't think you're twisted. It must be pretty shit to not have that reciprocated. Doesn't make you anything negative to feel that way.
I do! Is it too early for Xmas socks?
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Never too early for Christmas-ware. I was wearing my Santa hat in July |
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By *eliWoman
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"I hope you do find that person for something new, you've got so much passion to give going by some of your erm raunchier posts. x
The ones where I say I want to slap my cock on her butt cheeks? Or ‘I want to look into her eyes and I need her to feel how truly beautiful I think she is?’"
Oh both! Bring the unbridled lust with swoon worthy desire. A modicum of cock slapping never goes amiss either. You write some really hot, sexy and lovely posts to chuck some cringe inducing adjectives at you. |
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By *eliWoman
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"Ahhh Meli, how do you always manage to so eloquently describe how I feel, love is a wonderful thing "
Isn't it just? It makes you come alive in a way you didn't think possible, glow with positive energy and hope. Maybe that's what it imbibes in us. Hope. For life, in people. In ourselves.
I've noticed we're very similar on quite a few things! It's quite cool to be honest, I can almost tell you'll pop up on certain threads. Even look forward to reading them. |
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"who the fuck is after love on here,,"
Good morning
A lot of people are looking for love .
Some exclusively for relation only .
I’m up for it .
I am happy with NSA , FWB , I’m open to more
And either of them I find I will treat with love , respect , passion and a lot of pleasure .
I don’t treat a NSA for less then I would treat a girlfriend or a wife .
100% treated better then many wifes out there
( sadly said ) respect …
And many couple got married from here .
And I bet they are more happy then them stupid couples
Who are miserable cause they don’t talk
Trapped in the conservative morals .
Just cause they don’t talk
Here ppl are open , honest , with no morals of cheating . They talk .
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Fabs have more dating then reach the eye
Doesn’t take more then read what the profiles say .
So OP , sweetheart , may be a short number after relation , and a short number of genuine honest lovers …
But on fabs you can find love 100%
I’m up for it , I’m one of them .
You can find everything . Is an infinite freedom
In all orientations and types
And that is the beauty of it
So yeah , you may be on the right track if u want to move on
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Sometimes these things just completely blind side you. I had a one-off, strictly NSA meet three years ago...he's just left me in bed with a kiss and headed out to work.
I've always said that Fab is just another conduit for meeting people, no different to traditional dating sites, the pub, or even workplaces...if you're lucky enough to find that connection with someone, wherever you meet them, I think it would be a shame not to see where it leads. |
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"I hope you do find that person for something new, you've got so much passion to give going by some of your erm raunchier posts. x
The ones where I say I want to slap my cock on her butt cheeks? Or ‘I want to look into her eyes and I need her to feel how truly beautiful I think she is?’
Oh both! Bring the unbridled lust with swoon worthy desire. A modicum of cock slapping never goes amiss either. You write some really hot, sexy and lovely posts to chuck some cringe inducing adjectives at you. "
*virtual snog.
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By *eliWoman
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"Sometimes these things just completely blind side you. I had a one-off, strictly NSA meet three years ago...he's just left me in bed with a kiss and headed out to work.
I've always said that Fab is just another conduit for meeting people, no different to traditional dating sites, the pub, or even workplaces...if you're lucky enough to find that connection with someone, wherever you meet them, I think it would be a shame not to see where it leads. "
Wait. Lily. You're in love? Whaaaaaat?  |
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I've found a long term playmate/kinky soul mate on here. We have geniinely become best friends. Neither of us want or need a relationship so this little arrangement suits us both. We have fun in and out of the bedroom together with none of the shitty stuff that a relationship can bring. We are also free to do whatever/whoever we want. It's not conventional by any means but it works for us. |
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I think we all a born with a base set of emotions that obviously evolve over time via our parents, our friends, work colleagues etc. Some good some bad. Now, this is clearly an observational point of view of fab over many years, but I think most singles would gladly except some form of relationship over just fucking because at the end of it all we all have a need to be wanted and not feel like a used piece of meat |
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