Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. |
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It helps that I'm already owned by a couple. Expanding a group of friends is fine, if people click over a social then it perfectly acceptable to arrange future meets in a club, assuming I get permission from Mistress. But no, Sunday is just for beer, football and putting the world to rights round a table. |
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man? |
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?"
It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it. |
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?
It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."
Fair point well made! |
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?
It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."
FAB....
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?
It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."
I’m really not being a dick here but surely you see the irony in that. |
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?"
In his defence I rarely enjoy the company of other men, I get on better with women always have and likely always will. I tend not to enjoy the bravado that tends to happen on a "Lads night" whereas I can happily chat for hours with a lady and not expect anything more
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?
In his defence I rarely enjoy the company of other men, I get on better with women always have and likely always will. I tend not to enjoy the bravado that tends to happen on a "Lads night" whereas I can happily chat for hours with a lady and not expect anything more
Doughnut "
I’m not disputing any of this. I’m just giving a reason why many won’t take him up on the offer. |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "
Sounds awesome!
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
Sounds awesome!
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Sorry, people on my Hotlist aren't allowed, too much temptation. Plus, you might force me to hand over my Lego Millennium Falcon. |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
Sounds awesome!
Sorry, people on my Hotlist aren't allowed, too much temptation. Plus, you might force me to hand over my Lego Millennium Falcon. "
We wouldn’t force you to do anything… you would hand it over willingly  |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
Sounds awesome!
Sorry, people on my Hotlist aren't allowed, too much temptation. Plus, you might force me to hand over my Lego Millennium Falcon. "
If it's the UCS, I would |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "
sounds great
Let us know if you get lucky. |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. sounds great
Let us know if you get lucky. "
I could just invite vanilla mates, but there's less to talk about
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"We seem to find as soon as we mention top of our list is a fun social they seem to ignore us and run a mile "
Yeah, I'm too old to go chasing pump & dump, it's a kids game. There's a time and a place for that. |
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over a year ago
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I'd love a social only with people. I'm just a bit of a procrastinator when it comes to actually organising things.
Sod it, I'm going to message two people and suggest actual days. Great thread OP.  |
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"I'd love a social only with people. I'm just a bit of a procrastinator when it comes to actually organising things.
Sod it, I'm going to message two people and suggest actual days. Great thread OP. "
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"I'd love a social only with people. I'm just a bit of a procrastinator when it comes to actually organising things.
Sod it, I'm going to message two people and suggest actual days. Great thread OP.
I hope those lucky two people answer your message promptly and set a date "
Aww thank you Fratellis! It's really nice when people answer messages promptly isn't it? Makes you feel all warm and happy inside. |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. sounds great
Let us know if you get lucky.
I could just invite vanilla mates, but there's less to talk about
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That could suggest that you at least want to talk about sex |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. sounds great
Let us know if you get lucky.
I could just invite vanilla mates, but there's less to talk about
That could suggest that you at least want to talk about sex "
Bay bee! |
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" sometimes that's all we want too. Most people add 'maybe more ' to the end of a social invitation though which always puts me off. 10/10 to you for being crystal clear"
This tends to put us off too. We often look for social only but that expectation always seems to be there somewhere when sometimes all you want is to chat and have a laugh.
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "
this is very interesting. I only come to Fab for sex things because I can't talk about sex things with my family, friends, other social groups and other support groups and because I don't have a sex therapist.
If I want to watch a game....I just go to my local pub and start talking to other people watching the games on. Lol!
I chat enough rubbish on the forum and with my usual social life. Lol!
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"OP there is a derby social if you check in the meets section, if you are looking for likeminded company for a social"
There is, but I'm going to watch the game. If conversation contains stuff that you wouldn't bring up with vanilla friends then it's comfortable. |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
this is very interesting. I only come to Fab for sex things because I can't talk about sex things with my family, friends, other social groups and other support groups and because I don't have a sex therapist.
If I want to watch a game....I just go to my local pub and start talking to other people watching the games on. Lol!
I chat enough rubbish on the forum and with my usual social life. Lol!
did you post on the meets page?"
No I didn't, I haven't really perused the forum that much and social meets can branch off into people slipping away for a sly BJ. I'm there to watch football, if sexy talk starts I'm comfortable knowing I can talk. But, and I can't stress this enough, there will under no conditions be sex at the end.
By the way, that's only my rule, if 2 other people turn up, then slope of together for a cheeky BJ then more power to them, they deserve it. |
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"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.
Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
this is very interesting. I only come to Fab for sex things because I can't talk about sex things with my family, friends, other social groups and other support groups and because I don't have a sex therapist.
If I want to watch a game....I just go to my local pub and start talking to other people watching the games on. Lol!
I chat enough rubbish on the forum and with my usual social life. Lol!
did you post on the meets page?
No I didn't, I haven't really perused the forum that much and social meets can branch off into people slipping away for a sly BJ. I'm there to watch football, if sexy talk starts I'm comfortable knowing I can talk. But, and I can't stress this enough, there will under no conditions be sex at the end.
By the way, that's only my rule, if 2 other people turn up, then slope of together for a cheeky BJ then more power to them, they deserve it."
Ok Good luck. I will be at work while the men at work cry about who's losing. Lol!  |
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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago
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Good luck with your search
If you were on my doorstep it would be my idea of a great social.
I understand wanting to be able to relax, take off the mask, and not have to watch what you say.
Daft things as normal as mentioning your wife but also your owner for example, even though the conversation is normal about music or art or politics, you can't openly talk about the people in your life over a pint with Barry from Work. |
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"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.
This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?
It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."
 not the pals I drink with. |
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