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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "
I'm sorry about your loss, I'm glad you had some good years you'll treasure them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve met my perfect fab fuck buddy.. we aren’t going to get married or anything like Lorna… but he’s a great fab friend who has opened my world!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been lucky with meets so I have and I suspect another chap who I’ll meet in the not so distant future will be just as perfect. Connection and intimacy are pretty key to making a fab meet perfect for me and I can usually tell if we’ll have that even before we’ve met! |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
I have met and had some truly wonderful encounters and experiences. For some they were perfect in that we both got what we wanted out of the time spent together. Some of those encounters haven’t even resulted in sex but friendships have been made, which for me is what I value more. |
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.  |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve been lucky with meets so I have and I suspect another chap who I’ll meet in the not so distant future will be just as perfect. Connection and intimacy are pretty key to making a fab meet perfect for me and I can usually tell if we’ll have that even before we’ve met! "
Lucky chap! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve found people who are perfect for what I want out of Fab, some escapism, snogs, naughtiness, banter, then go home afterwards with no ties. Perfect for me.
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "
That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special. |
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.
That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special."
Thanks. Me too. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "
 bless ya my lovely x keep smiling xx |
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "
Sorry to hear this Peachy, |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I’ve been lucky had / having some amazing relationships lasting years in some cases. It’s hard to imagine anyone out there better, but every new relationship brings a new journey - that’s the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surprisingly I have ... after 29 years happily single with most excellent fwbs, I/we met the person we wish to spend the rest of our lives with! It was a complete and utter shock to both of us, not what we were looking for at all and incredibly difficult because we're dating mainly by plane but working towards more and more permanence! The adventure is awesome and every moment is better than the last! |
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Yes, yes we have
We found each other on here and right from the start we were amazed at how similar we were. Our paths crossing was perfect timing, neither of us looking for anything more than FWB but realising we so much more potential.
As for our play friends on here - we have met some fantastic people who respect our relationship and have enriched our life’s and bought us many hot memories  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, met on here (although we had met once previously in real life when M fixed my range master)
Been together a year now!
I have also met my best friends on here so fab meets have worked very well for me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thought I had he was my perfect (when I say that I don’t mean he was perfect!) but now a list of minimums n if you don’t fit them then your not fit me! N he over exceeded but we struggle to get together |
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yip we met on fab 5 years ago.went through some hell regarding splitting up with our x s.we now love every minute we spend together, just love each other, life,laughs,fun and madness,, so much so that we getting married at Christmas...life couldn't get any better for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't believe in perfection but I have met some wonderful people. "
This is how I see things nowadays. I came to realise with my flaw as I’m actually awesome. (Open to debate) so I see others like that. It’s the flaws and imperfections of people that make them perfect to me.  |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I have met someone who makes my soul happy, who understands me and appreciates me for who I am - it’s not perfect (that’s a myth) but its a feeling I’d bottle if I could and that’s more than enough for me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
She was who i was born to meet she gave me the happiest moments of my life but the universe only wanted to tease me with that happiness for a short time
The only thing that has kept me breathing is the hope that shes smiling and the need to be here for the moment shes not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...
I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.
That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special.
Thanks. Me too. X"
I've reached the stage of not giving too much credit up front. I'll only believe it is genuine interest when I see it lasts & it has held fast for a while in person.
So many say what they think will get them what they want from you with the least amount of effort. The 'any holes a goal' brigade. But if it's fake it's not sustainable, so time is your friend in these things and why I don't do quick anything on here as a rule.
Lots come on playing 'escape from the ho_elife' with no intention of following through.
Others want a fuck & go but say they want fwb or more 'sure we'll see what happens'....right
You wouldn't need a crystal ball tbh
So it's the chill, the steady & 'only when I'm ready' for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have met someone who makes my soul happy, who understands me and appreciates me for who I am - it’s not perfect (that’s a myth) but its a feeling I’d bottle if I could and that’s more than enough for me xx"
Definitely more than many ever find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes
She was who i was born to meet she gave me the happiest moments of my life but the universe only wanted to tease me with that happiness for a short time
The only thing that has kept me breathing is the hope that shes smiling and the need to be here for the moment shes not "
Hope she returns n stays |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes
She was who i was born to meet she gave me the happiest moments of my life but the universe only wanted to tease me with that happiness for a short time
The only thing that has kept me breathing is the hope that shes smiling and the need to be here for the moment shes not
Hope she returns n stays "
i do miss her but at this point i only hope shes happy i have got her back if she needs me either way thats what i promissed |
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "
Showed his true colours... A blessing before you met! Probably saved some heartache x |
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.
Showed his true colours... A blessing before you met! Probably saved some heartache x"
I’m trying to see it that way. Thanks  |
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.
That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special.
Thanks. Me too. X
I've reached the stage of not giving too much credit up front. I'll only believe it is genuine interest when I see it lasts & it has held fast for a while in person.
So many say what they think will get them what they want from you with the least amount of effort. The 'any holes a goal' brigade. But if it's fake it's not sustainable, so time is your friend in these things and why I don't do quick anything on here as a rule.
Lots come on playing 'escape from the ho_elife' with no intention of following through.
Others want a fuck & go but say they want fwb or more 'sure we'll see what happens'....right
You wouldn't need a crystal ball tbh
So it's the chill, the steady & 'only when I'm ready' for me "
Yeah I get that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's absolutely no reason why people cant meet their soulmate here , it's as good a place as any , it has happened before and will again , it could happen when least expected, don't rule anything out ,and if it does .. wayyyyy ta go !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "
You are very beautiful . Sorry hear that .
I just had the biggest let down of the year too .
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Surprisingly I have ... after 29 years happily single with most excellent fwbs, I/we met the person we wish to spend the rest of our lives with! It was a complete and utter shock to both of us, not what we were looking for at all and incredibly difficult because we're dating mainly by plane but working towards more and more permanence! The adventure is awesome and every moment is better than the last! "
This is lovely. So happy for you my dear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's absolutely no reason why people cant meet their soulmate here , it's as good a place as any , it has happened before and will again , it could happen when least expected, don't rule anything out ,and if it does .. wayyyyy ta go !! "
You’d think so but many people have preconceptions of what fab can and can’t be in regards of meeting people for more than sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "
Sorry to hear about your loss how sad |
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"Yes, we met 4 months ago and are completely compatible in every way and the passion and intensity we experience when together is like nothing we’ve ever experienced before with anyone."
Awwww that’s lovely. Really pleased for you. |
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I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.
Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.
This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.
You are very beautiful . Sorry hear that .
I just had the biggest let down of the year too .
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Oh I’m sorry to hear that lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "
Ah man, sorry to hear this. Treasure those memories |
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I couldn't talk to anyone about it, I couldn't even attend her funeral. Nobody knew about us and we just had a few years of illicit happiness a couple if times a week. I suppose it was like the first few months of a vanilla relationship but eked out over a much longer period. I just wish I could relive it all again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes,long time ago now though.Found each other on here,met a few times,decided we clicked really well and had a great three years on here as a couple.Sadly she moved back to Japan for family reasons,but the three years we had were everything I'd ever wanted from swinging.I live in hope of someday finding another swinging partner that's so compatible with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes,long time ago now though.Found each other on here,met a few times,decided we clicked really well and had a great three years on here as a couple.Sadly she moved back to Japan for family reasons,but the three years we had were everything I'd ever wanted from swinging.I live in hope of someday finding another swinging partner that's so compatible with me"
You should have moved to Japan also if at all possible, when that fish is left back into the water it's very very hard to find someone that you click with like that again . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I met them. They’re too childish for fab. They’re very neurotic and play childish games fit for a teen. Simply because I once posted a meet verification from someone they disliked they blew their top at me!!! They block me, unblock me and each time after I send the first message, I play the fool and follow with their replies along only for them to ghost me and then block me again, thankfully this time I’ve blocked them.
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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes, yes we have
We found each other on here and right from the start we were amazed at how similar we were. Our paths crossing was perfect timing, neither of us looking for anything more than FWB but realising we so much more potential.
As for our play friends on here - we have met some fantastic people who respect our relationship and have enriched our life’s and bought us many hot memories
K
K"
This is us also,started off as fuck buddies then feelings went deeper, fell in love and now live together, our paths crossed at the right time also, feels amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each fab event we've had has in it's own right been brilliant - even the one where a couple flitted the moment they set eyes on us :
We get something from just the idea of doing all sorts of naughty things and sometimes they actually happen but they don't have to for it to open our horizons and give us amazing experiences with or without extra anatomy - remember folks 90% of sex is in the mind. |
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"I thought I met them. They’re too childish for fab. They’re very neurotic and play childish games fit for a teen. Simply because I once posted a meet verification from someone they disliked they blew their top at me!!! They block me, unblock me and each time after I send the first message, I play the fool and follow with their replies along only for them to ghost me and then block me again, thankfully this time I’ve blocked them.
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In fairness I don’t think it’s a question of being childish - though some of their methods are childish.
Even as a mature adult the verification process can be a major head fuck. You have an amazing time with someone - particularly when you’ve met several times and developed a connection - then read a verification someone’s given that indicates they had just as amazing time with another person - and another.
We’re all aware that fab isn’t about exclusivity - but having it literally in your face can be difficult for many and isn’t necessarily ‘childish’ imo. |
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Yep. I've found my kinky best friend on fab. He encourages and supports me as well as joining me as I delve into this crazy world. Not going to get married or anything but we very much enjoy what we've got together |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I suppose I should say yes really shouldn't I, you know what with having a fiancé I absolutely adore to bits thanks to here. But I don't believe in perfect. I don't have an idea of what my perfect fabber would be because everyone is a little bit flawed and that's what makes them occasionally eyerollingly brilliant.
I've met some truly beautiful people who make me think, want to cry, want to devour them. Challenge me. Arouse me effortlessly. Maybe they're my kintsugi of Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I had but turned out to be nothing but drama, jealousy and lies … all the things we had both said we didn’t want or need when looking for a connection. |
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Dunno because ive never Met them in person but I chat to some lovely people on here. Proper conversations not FAF … and oooh I want to lick marshmallows off your inner thigh… proper conversations like ‘ hey awesome tits FAF?’ So much nicer when you open with a compliment!!!  |
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"Yep. And I licked him so he's mine now 
What about the five seconds rule?
Or does that only apply to stuff dropped on the floor?"
I licked him again after he fell on the floor...because I'm dirty like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. And I licked him so he's mine now
What about the five seconds rule?
Or does that only apply to stuff dropped on the floor?
I licked him again after he fell on the floor...because I'm dirty like that "
Awesome
You got class & style
(Said in that - country ayynd western fake deep south accent) |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"I thought I had but turned out to be nothing but drama, jealousy and lies … all the things we had both said we didn’t want or need when looking for a connection. "
Sorry to hear that. It’s shitty.
V x |
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"Dunno because ive never Met them in person but I chat to some lovely people on here. Proper conversations not FAF … and oooh I want to lick marshmallows off your inner thigh… proper conversations like ‘ hey awesome tits FAF?’ So much nicer when you open with a compliment!!! "
Great user name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met the most beautiful perfect wonderful lady on here and fell instantly in love with her...had the most amazing six months of my life with her
See my story from a previous profile...' The girl who has my heart forever '
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes,long time ago now though.Found each other on here,met a few times,decided we clicked really well and had a great three years on here as a couple.Sadly she moved back to Japan for family reasons,but the three years we had were everything I'd ever wanted from swinging.I live in hope of someday finding another swinging partner that's so compatible with me
You should have moved to Japan also if at all possible, when that fish is left back into the water it's very very hard to find someone that you click with like that again ."
As much as I wanted to,I couldn't leave my kids behind and there's no way on earth their mother would allow them to move with me |
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