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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You're friends with on here, have video called with, messaged.....then forgets who you are and he needs a video call to remind him.
Is it just me that finds that strangely attractive!?!?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find that incredibly clever .. ooh we’d better do another nudey video call, just to remember who you are like…
I doff my hat to him  "
Err there was no nudity thank you very much. |
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"I’m like that with C’s boobs…I’ve played with them, kissed them, stroked them, seen plenty of pics of them.
Then 10 mins later I claim I’ve never seen them and I need to start the process again 
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"I find that incredibly clever .. ooh we’d better do another nudey video call, just to remember who you are like…
I doff my hat to him
Err there was no nudity thank you very much. "
That’s why he doesn’t remember who you are  flash him a nipple and he’ll remember you forever!! (Well this side of Christmas anyway)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends, if he’s been busy climbing Everest then fair enough. If he’s been busy climbing Emma from accounts then I’d get my elbow ready.
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Nah I like Emma from accounts, plus it's good to share.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find that incredibly clever .. ooh we’d better do another nudey video call, just to remember who you are like…
I doff my hat to him
Err there was no nudity thank you very much.
That’s why he doesn’t remember who you are flash him a nipple and he’ll remember you forever!! (Well this side of Christmas anyway) "
I'd rather he forget me!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd deem how much I wanted to get in his pants, and then either video call him looking ace or wipe him clean off my phone  "
I can do looking mediocre, best I have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds naff too me if he forgot what you look like .Didn't make lasting memory .Too many women in his phone maybe .  "
Quite literally hundreds I'd guess.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smacks of treat em mean to keep em keen to me lol "
I hate the overly keen! The declarations/verifications/constant messages and all that crap! Gives me the creeps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smacks of treat em mean to keep em keen to me lol
Yeah just sounds like a lame negging tactic  "
Lame? As opposed to been sickeningly over the top? I'll take the been forgotten thanks. |
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"Smacks of treat em mean to keep em keen to me lol
I hate the overly keen! The declarations/verifications/constant messages and all that crap! Gives me the creeps. "
exactly I get that I'm not keen on verifications either. |
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"I’m like that with C’s boobs…I’ve played with them, kissed them, stroked them, seen plenty of pics of them.
Then 10 mins later I claim I’ve never seen them and I need to start the process again "
I thought I was the only one!
I regularly forget Alice's Mary-Kate and Ashleys. She doesn't seem to mind reacquainting me though! |
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"Smacks of treat em mean to keep em keen to me lol
Yeah just sounds like a lame negging tactic
Lame? As opposed to been sickeningly over the top? I'll take the been forgotten thanks. "
Yeah that was clear from your original post, was just saying how it looks to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How long ago was it you last talked?
It's easy to forget who someone is if they don't message for a while. "
Sometime in August we called, messaged? Few weeks ago I guess. I just found it amusing as he messaged me out the blue today yet wasn't sure who I was |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off. 
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^ "
I like not to be special!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long ago was it you last talked?
It's easy to forget who someone is if they don't message for a while.
Sometime in August we called, messaged? Few weeks ago I guess. I just found it amusing as he messaged me out the blue today yet wasn't sure who I was "
It’s gotta be a ploy, that would be rather quick to forget someone! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"How long ago was it you last talked?
It's easy to forget who someone is if they don't message for a while.
Sometime in August we called, messaged? Few weeks ago I guess. I just found it amusing as he messaged me out the blue today yet wasn't sure who I was "
Did you tell him right away? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds naff too me if he forgot what you look like .Didn't make lasting memory .Too many women in his phone maybe .
Quite literally hundreds I'd guess.
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Block him and move on
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How long ago was it you last talked?
It's easy to forget who someone is if they don't message for a while.
Sometime in August we called, messaged? Few weeks ago I guess. I just found it amusing as he messaged me out the blue today yet wasn't sure who I was
It’s gotta be a ploy, that would be rather quick to forget someone! "
Nah I'm well aware he's a busy guy! Both work and pleasure.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds naff too me if he forgot what you look like .Didn't make lasting memory .Too many women in his phone maybe .
Quite literally hundreds I'd guess.
Block him and move on
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Why? Because God forbid I aren't the only one? I'd rather not be. |
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"Sounds naff too me if he forgot what you look like .Didn't make lasting memory .Too many women in his phone maybe .
Quite literally hundreds I'd guess.
Block him and move on
Why? Because God forbid I aren't the only one? I'd rather not be. "
put him on yer hotlist and tell him ya did it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How long ago was it you last talked?
It's easy to forget who someone is if they don't message for a while.
Sometime in August we called, messaged? Few weeks ago I guess. I just found it amusing as he messaged me out the blue today yet wasn't sure who I was
Did you tell him right away? "
Who I was? No I said I'd get round to video calling him in the next week or two and remind him then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds naff too me if he forgot what you look like .Didn't make lasting memory .Too many women in his phone maybe .
Quite literally hundreds I'd guess.
Block him and move on
Why? Because God forbid I aren't the only one? I'd rather not be. put him on yer hotlist and tell him ya did it "
My hot list is my hit list. And not in a good way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably.
If a women forgot what I looked like after a while talking, it would reflect the impression I had on her. I'd rather give my time and kindness to someone who at least remembers what I look like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it an age thing though not remembering or is he trying his luck?
I think it's a case of him been "busy".
Too many to remember!!"
That’s my excuse. Not an age think forgetting people’s names but I can’t forget a pretty face or nice rack |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably.
If a women forgot what I looked like after a while talking, it would reflect the impression I had on her. I'd rather give my time and kindness to someone who at least remembers what I look like."
I'm not here for kindness. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it an age thing though not remembering or is he trying his luck?
I think it's a case of him been "busy".
Too many to remember!!
That’s my excuse. Not an age think forgetting people’s names but I can’t forget a pretty face or nice rack "
That explains why he forgot me then. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"How long ago was it you last talked?
It's easy to forget who someone is if they don't message for a while.
Sometime in August we called, messaged? Few weeks ago I guess. I just found it amusing as he messaged me out the blue today yet wasn't sure who I was
Did you tell him right away?
Who I was? No I said I'd get round to video calling him in the next week or two and remind him then. "
I had someone do the same to me and had a little bit of fun with him before confessing who I was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably.
If a women forgot what I looked like after a while talking, it would reflect the impression I had on her. I'd rather give my time and kindness to someone who at least remembers what I look like.
I'm not here for kindness. "
That may explain why he forgot you then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably.
If a women forgot what I looked like after a while talking, it would reflect the impression I had on her. I'd rather give my time and kindness to someone who at least remembers what I look like."
This for me too! I’d hate to be forgettable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special! "
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably.
If a women forgot what I looked like after a while talking, it would reflect the impression I had on her. I'd rather give my time and kindness to someone who at least remembers what I look like.
I'm not here for kindness.
That may explain why he forgot you then."
Yeah I'm pretty sure he isn't either!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably.
If a women forgot what I looked like after a while talking, it would reflect the impression I had on her. I'd rather give my time and kindness to someone who at least remembers what I look like.
This for me too! I’d hate to be forgettable! "
Yes alright alright I'm forgetful!!
Jeez thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest. "
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He was just trying to get more pleasure out of seeing you again men don't really forgot shit especially if you have video called them   "
It wasn't "that" kind of video call. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here "
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest. "
I'm definitely wired wrong, I get the creeps if guys are overly interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
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There’s a middle ground though! Sycophants turn me off but being entirely forgotten would turn me off too! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
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Me too. Then, when they know they don't need to butter you up and say "I'm gonna cum all over that pretty face", you know they mean it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
There’s a middle ground though! Sycophants turn me off but being entirely forgotten would turn me off too! "
My ego isn't that precious, I can take it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
Me too. Then, when they know they don't need to butter you up and say "I'm gonna cum all over that pretty face", you know they mean it."
Oh you've gone too far now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
There’s a middle ground though! Sycophants turn me off but being entirely forgotten would turn me off too! "
Guys being overly complimentary, I can imagine would come off as a little desperate and creepy to a woman, but being kind and respectful should not be lumped into that same category otherwise we as well just all start sending messages like 'you are hot, I want to fuck you'
Come on. Not all men are that desperate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're friends with on here, have video called with, messaged.....then forgets who you are and he needs a video call to remind him.
Is it just me that finds that strangely attractive!?!?
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Who the fuck are you?.. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
Me too. Then, when they know they don't need to butter you up and say "I'm gonna cum all over that pretty face", you know they mean it.
Oh you've gone too far now "
Some of it must be true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
There’s a middle ground though! Sycophants turn me off but being entirely forgotten would turn me off too!
My ego isn't that precious, I can take it.
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My ego isn’t precious but if I’m gonna fuck someone they should at least be attracted to me enough to remember me 2 months down the line! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You deserve what you settle for.
If you're not here for kindness, and find people who forget you, an attractive trait, then those are the guys you will find and deserve whatever capacity of attention they give you. |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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"You deserve what you settle for.
If you're not here for kindness, and find people who forget you, an attractive trait, then those are the guys you will find and deserve whatever capacity of attention they give you."
I think... THINK, I can see where you were aiming for with that, but, man does it come off shitty! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You deserve what you settle for.
If you're not here for kindness, and find people who forget you, an attractive trait, then those are the guys you will find and deserve whatever capacity of attention they give you."
But half of it isn't kindness or respect. It's utter shite just to get you naked.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to feel special so I'd fuck him off.
But I imagine he likes your face. And he was looking for an excuse to see it again. ^ . ^
I like not to be special!
I wish I had that attitude it would save a lot of ballache.
But damn if it don't feel special I lose interest.
Same here
But it's all fake anyway. Guys say that crap to get sex, I prefer guys who aren't so desperate and full of shite!
There’s a middle ground though! Sycophants turn me off but being entirely forgotten would turn me off too!
My ego isn't that precious, I can take it.
My ego isn’t precious but if I’m gonna fuck someone they should at least be attracted to me enough to remember me 2 months down the line! "
I'm liking the general consensus that I'm ugly and easily forgettable.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You deserve what you settle for.
If you're not here for kindness, and find people who forget you, an attractive trait, then those are the guys you will find and deserve whatever capacity of attention they give you.
I think... THINK, I can see where you were aiming for with that, but, man does it come off shitty! "
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"You're friends with on here, have video called with, messaged.....then forgets who you are and he needs a video call to remind him.
Is it just me that finds that strangely attractive!?!?
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Haha! Made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're friends with on here, have video called with, messaged.....then forgets who you are and he needs a video call to remind him.
Is it just me that finds that strangely attractive!?!?
Haha! Made me laugh "
And me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So honest question, if you're not here for kindness, and you don't like people being overly complimentary because it's just to get into your pants, how do you want guys to treat you?
Blunt in their requests, and forgetful ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So honest question, if you're not here for kindness, and you don't like people being overly complimentary because it's just to get into your pants, how do you want guys to treat you?
Blunt in their requests, and forgetful ? "
Honestly.
I said he forgot who I was, in a funny way. Not a disrespectful way, or an unkind way ,or a treat em mean way or that he doesn't find me attractive enough way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh I see, so it was a cheeky way or asking for another video call? So basically he didn't forget you, just wanted another call from you.
If that's the case , then I can see how that would be a cheeky attractive trait to some.
If he genuinely forgot what you looked like, then no. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh I see, so it was a cheeky way or asking for another video call? So basically he didn't forget you, just wanted another call from you.
If that's the case , then I can see how that would be a cheeky attractive trait to some.
If he genuinely forgot what you looked like, then no. "
No I didn't say that either.
I give up now. |
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"I’m like that with C’s boobs…I’ve played with them, kissed them, stroked them, seen plenty of pics of them.
Then 10 mins later I claim I’ve never seen them and I need to start the process again
K"
I like this process |
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"Sounds naff too me if he forgot what you look like .Didn't make lasting memory .Too many women in his phone maybe .
Quite literally hundreds I'd guess.
Block him and move on
Why? Because God forbid I aren't the only one? I'd rather not be. put him on yer hotlist and tell him ya did it
My hot list is my hit list. And not in a good way. "
lol well put him on it then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh I see, so it was a cheeky way or asking for another video call? So basically he didn't forget you, just wanted another call from you.
If that's the case , then I can see how that would be a cheeky attractive trait to some.
If he genuinely forgot what you looked like, then no.
No I didn't say that either.
I give up now. "
Me too. Good luck lol |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"You're friends with on here, have video called with, messaged.....then forgets who you are and he needs a video call to remind him.
Is it just me that finds that strangely attractive!?!?
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I guess it’s quite refreshing, at least he’s honest - hopefully. Sometimes you get into multiple conversations and someone gets all your bandwidth , doesn’t mean you didn’t like the one you kind of forgot about |
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but in fairness so did he, on the video chat it was all “omg it’s you, I’m so sorry” and lots of 
