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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair your bio kind of implies that’s what you’re looking for so I can understand the confusion.
However yeah. It’s not instashag is it? You have to be prepared to put in the ground work and get to know someone before they’ll be prepared to meet… if they’re not prepared to wait then move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When men just assume you want to meet instead of just wanting a chat "
Your profile says you're looking for something regular? Perhaps make it clearer with exactly what you're looking for. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Op do you mean when the first message is a request to meet ,I delete those.If I've never spoken to someone I'm not gonna want to meet them.
Or is it they assume you're meeting because you've chatted?.if I chat to anyone I always tell them I'm happy to chat ,but can't promise a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op do you mean when the first message is a request to meet ,I delete those.If I've never spoken to someone I'm not gonna want to meet them.
Or is it they assume you're meeting because you've chatted?.if I chat to anyone I always tell them I'm happy to chat ,but can't promise a meet."
I do that - delete it the opening message is just asking for a meet. Why would I ever meet some total stranger? Head wobble that people think someone might meet from an approach like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op do you mean when the first message is a request to meet ,I delete those.If I've never spoken to someone I'm not gonna want to meet them.
Or is it they assume you're meeting because you've chatted?.if I chat to anyone I always tell them I'm happy to chat ,but can't promise a meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women? |
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"This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women? "
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women?
Yes "
Thought so! 
It’s a service I provide that attracts them all so the other local men get all the interesting convos |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women? "
Yo |
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"This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women?
Yes
Thought so!
It’s a service I provide that attracts them all so the other local men get all the interesting convos "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate my profile as says “not meeting” in big letters in several places, and they still try their luck  "
I get guys telling me how fun I sound. Clear proof guys don't read. |
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"This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women? "
Oh I get these! They initiate the conversation then expect you to do all the work. Once it becomes clear they're boring/distracted/whatever I block them |
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"This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women? "
I get that off some blokes, then it’s like shit text tennis…. I delete in the end and keep deleting any further messages |
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