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over a year ago
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I'm not a guy, I have checked, but is it really that hard?? You are on a site full of women that are horny to some degree, yet it amazes me how many guys just don't get how to act on here.
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That’s fair! The verifications have been over quite a few years though. I do seem to send out an awful lot more messages now than I used to in trying to find a meet. Please don’t get me wrong I’m very aware people may not be attracted to me at all, which I totally respect. I’m just finding it more and more difficult to even get a conversation going on here |
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"I’m sorry to hear that. I know there’re a lot more fake profiles on here than there used to be, but it seems nobody even wants to talk anymore"
People generally don’t have the time just to chat if it’s not going to lead anywhere.
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I totally understand what you’re saying about how some people act. I’ve heard some bad stories, and I’ve seen some of the things people say in the chat rooms. Maybe the art of conversation has gone? |
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"I totally understand what you’re saying about how some people act. I’ve heard some bad stories, and I’ve seen some of the things people say in the chat rooms. Maybe the art of conversation has gone? "
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"Surely I’m not the only one finding this site really difficult now? Don’t get me wrong it’s always been tough for single guys, but it’s near impossible now….. or it’s just me! "
its just you sorry but I do OK  |
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"Surely I’m not the only one finding this site really difficult now? Don’t get me wrong it’s always been tough for single guys, but it’s near impossible now….. or it’s just me! "
I’m finding that. Been here before but because I’m back and now unverified it’s absolutely impossible |
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"I'm not a guy, I have checked, but is it really that hard?? You are on a site full of women that are horny to some degree, yet it amazes me how many guys just don't get how to act on here.
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How should a man act on here? |
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Diificult for everyone !! especially if you do have to work and can't do the last minute type of meets or even offer "Sex" on a plate ?? and like 99.9% of everything it's down to simple math's in the end ...  |
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"That’s fair! The verifications have been over quite a few years though. I do seem to send out an awful lot more messages now than I used to in trying to find a meet. Please don’t get me wrong I’m very aware people may not be attracted to me at all, which I totally respect. I’m just finding it more and more difficult to even get a conversation going on here"
Are you sending messages to profiles that suggest you are what they are looking for? |
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"That’s fair, though personally I’m aiming for it to lead somewhere. I just like to get a feeling for people first"
So are you looking for a relationship?
If that’s the case, it’s going to be harder. Speaking for ourselves, it’s only important that people we meet are genuine and we get along on some level. That they’re not complete dickheads.
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"I totally understand what you’re saying about how some people act. I’ve heard some bad stories, and I’ve seen some of the things people say in the chat rooms. Maybe the art of conversation has gone?
Op-use reply+quote so people know you’re responding to them "
Thank you! Shows my lack of use of the forums! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It must seem ridiculous to al the single guys that struggle to get meets but as a couple we also find it very rare to actually get halfway decent guys to meet with us.
Usual routine..
Yous lookin to meet.
Not immediately.
Time wasters!! |
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"That’s fair, though personally I’m aiming for it to lead somewhere. I just like to get a feeling for people first
So are you looking for a relationship?
If that’s the case, it’s going to be harder. Speaking for ourselves, it’s only important that people we meet are genuine and we get along on some level. That they’re not complete dickheads.
Not looking for a relationship just looking for it to lead to a social or more. Like yourselves I like to get along with people on some level
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"It must seem ridiculous to al the single guys that struggle to get meets but as a couple we also find it very rare to actually get halfway decent guys to meet with us.
Usual routine..
Yous lookin to meet.
Not immediately.
Time wasters!!"
but don't you think sex is a momentary thing you're either in the mood or indifferent? |
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"It must seem ridiculous to al the single guys that struggle to get meets but as a couple we also find it very rare to actually get halfway decent guys to meet with us.
Usual routine..
Yous lookin to meet.
Not immediately.
Time wasters!!"
I’ve heard a lot of people say this. That’s kind of what I mean about the art of conversation been dead. I find it fun getting to know people and flirting |
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I think it *should* be tough for single men. As someone once said, men are scared women will laugh at them; women are scared men will kill them. Women are inundated with offers from unsuitable men and owe it to themselves to choose carefully.
Having said that, I've been here less than a month and have already had some beautiful interactions with delightful women, so it's not impossible. |
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"Surely I’m not the only one finding this site really difficult now? Don’t get me wrong it’s always been tough for single guys, but it’s near impossible now….. or it’s just me!
I’m finding that. Been here before but because I’m back and now unverified it’s absolutely impossible "
I feel for you on that one as you’re caught between a rock and a hard place. My best suggestion is go to a club if you can and gain verifications there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That they’re not complete dickheads
That’s me out then 
Haha have you got a big nose though??? I’m shallow like that "
Debatable. You’ve seen my face. You can decide |
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"I think it *should* be tough for single men. As someone once said, men are scared women will laugh at them; women are scared men will kill them. Women are inundated with offers from unsuitable men and owe it to themselves to choose carefully.
Having said that, I've been here less than a month and have already had some beautiful interactions with delightful women, so it's not impossible."
Well put and fair play to you! |
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"I think it *should* be tough for single men. As someone once said, men are scared women will laugh at them; women are scared men will kill them. Women are inundated with offers from unsuitable men and owe it to themselves to choose carefully.
Having said that, I've been here less than a month and have already had some beautiful interactions with delightful women, so it's not impossible.
Well put and fair play to you! "
Thank you, but I did very carefully say 'interactions'. Pretty sure no one is going to actually have sex with me, but some great conversations have made me feel very lucky. |
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"I think it *should* be tough for single men. As someone once said, men are scared women will laugh at them; women are scared men will kill them. Women are inundated with offers from unsuitable men and owe it to themselves to choose carefully.
Having said that, I've been here less than a month and have already had some beautiful interactions with delightful women, so it's not impossible.
Well put and fair play to you!
Thank you, but I did very carefully say 'interactions'. Pretty sure no one is going to actually have sex with me, but some great conversations have made me feel very lucky."
Haha! Love the response. I’m sure if you’ve got the interactions going then the action will soon follow….. I’ve got my fingers crossed for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That they’re not complete dickheads
That’s me out then
Haha have you got a big nose though??? I’m shallow like that
Debatable. You’ve seen my face. You can decide
I can’t remember  "
I’ll pretend to be all mysterious now. Does that do it for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It must seem ridiculous to al the single guys that struggle to get meets but as a couple we also find it very rare to actually get halfway decent guys to meet with us.
Usual routine..
Yous lookin to meet.
Not immediately.
Time wasters!!but don't you think sex is a momentary thing you're either in the mood or indifferent? "
You might do. Lots of people don't want to have sex with a stranger on the spur of the moment. Personally I don't open my legs at the drop of a hat because some guy is horny. |
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"It must seem ridiculous to al the single guys that struggle to get meets but as a couple we also find it very rare to actually get halfway decent guys to meet with us.
Usual routine..
Yous lookin to meet.
Not immediately.
Time wasters!!but don't you think sex is a momentary thing you're either in the mood or indifferent? "
It certainly is for a lot of guys.
The trouble is that if you said yes meet us in an hour they’d probably have a quick wank then lose all interest anyway.
Fantasists with the immediacy of children. |
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"I’m sorry to hear that. I know there’re a lot more fake profiles on here than there used to be, but it seems nobody even wants to talk anymore"
Yesterday I got a msg from a guy telling me to fuck off and I shouldn't have a list of "demands" on my profile. Now, as much as that's a rare occurrence, and I'm not going to tar everyone with the same brush... You do kind of wonder what's the point some days! |
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"It must seem ridiculous to al the single guys that struggle to get meets but as a couple we also find it very rare to actually get halfway decent guys to meet with us.
Usual routine..
Yous lookin to meet.
Not immediately.
Time wasters!!but don't you think sex is a momentary thing you're either in the mood or indifferent?
You might do. Lots of people don't want to have sex with a stranger on the spur of the moment. Personally I don't open my legs at the drop of a hat because some guy is horny. "
me neither but sex is a thing of the moment for many eg the mood your in, how much time you have, how you look, where you are etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sorry to hear that. I know there’re a lot more fake profiles on here than there used to be, but it seems nobody even wants to talk anymore
Yesterday I got a msg from a guy telling me to fuck off and I shouldn't have a list of "demands" on my profile. Now, as much as that's a rare occurrence, and I'm not going to tar everyone with the same brush... You do kind of wonder what's the point some days!"
I'm not meeting and a few men have messaged just to tell me off for it. FFS how does it affect them if you have demands or I'm not meeting?! |
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"That they’re not complete dickheads
That’s me out then
Haha have you got a big nose though??? I’m shallow like that
Debatable. You’ve seen my face. You can decide
I can’t remember
I’ll pretend to be all mysterious now. Does that do it for you? "
A man of mystery with a big nose is exactly what I’m looking for  |
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"I’m sorry to hear that. I know there’re a lot more fake profiles on here than there used to be, but it seems nobody even wants to talk anymore
Yesterday I got a msg from a guy telling me to fuck off and I shouldn't have a list of "demands" on my profile. Now, as much as that's a rare occurrence, and I'm not going to tar everyone with the same brush... You do kind of wonder what's the point some days!"
Sorry to hear that. Some people just cannot play nicely. Plus I’ve just read your profile and i cannot see what he’s complaining about |
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"Surely I’m not the only one finding this site really difficult now? Don’t get me wrong it’s always been tough for single guys, but it’s near impossible now….. or it’s just me! "
Don't despair! I've got a meet tomorrow with a lady who hit me up out of the blue last week! It can happen as suddenly as that mate  |
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Unless you're expecting a meet every weekend or something 
