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Question for straight women (hypothetical, of course):
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mind if the only way you could meet or message straight single men at all is if you had to initiate the approach/conversation?"
some of us are old school.. I not going to initiate. Personal preference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m no woman, but I’m sure loads would, and do, via their filters.
But some *definitely* like the attention, you know those types in your local updates that have a weekly “6,000 unread messages had to bulk delete, please message again” update and end up in a continual cycle of bulk deleting ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mind if the only way you could meet or message straight single men at all is if you had to initiate the approach/conversation?"
Yep. I'd mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mind if the only way you could meet or message straight single men at all is if you had to initiate the approach/conversation?"
No I wouldn’t, In fact I’m considering deleting my profile and opening a new one where I block all men so I only I can make the first contact. Avoids unwanted messages for me that way. I think even if I block now on this account all the men who have already contacted me can still do so? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not me personally. I have filters, still get a lot of messages yes but that’s what happens when you’re a woman on sites like this.
If I want to initiate conversation I will though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mind if the only way you could meet or message straight single men at all is if you had to initiate the approach/conversation?
No I wouldn’t, In fact I’m considering deleting my profile and opening a new one where I block all men so I only I can make the first contact. Avoids unwanted messages for me that way. I think even if I block now on this account all the men who have already contacted me can still do so? "
The men who you replied to can still message you when you block all men. It's why so many women don't reply.
If you didn't reply to them they can't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mind if the only way you could meet or message straight single men at all is if you had to initiate the approach/conversation?"
If the man has a crap profile he likely won't get messages either way. |
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also, I can’t really be bothered 
