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Do you let your pets in bed?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don’t have any pets, but it seems strange to me why you would let a cat or dog in bed. I love dogs, but the hair annoys me so sharing a bed with a dog would be hell for me.
Do you have pets?
Are they allowed into your bed?
Thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So to those that allow their pets in bed. What do you do if you fancy some sex with your partner?
Do you kick the pet out of the room, or just ignore that they are there? |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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I will probably be in a minority but I have two cats and their place is on the floor in the living room in the colder months rest of the time in the extension , garden , garage no way are they allowed on the beds or furniture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So to those that allow their pets in bed. What do you do if you fancy some sex with your partner?
Do you kick the pet out of the room, or just ignore that they are there?"
They usually sit and judge 
Sometimes they think its a game of chase +kill 
Its put a few people off  |
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"So to those that allow their pets in bed. What do you do if you fancy some sex with your partner?
Do you kick the pet out of the room, or just ignore that they are there?"
He only really comes in for about 30 mins. Cats mostly sleep in the day and he mostly sleeps on the cat tree or on the sofa. If I want some peace I can feed him then he goes for a nap after  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to get into bed one night and the dog was lying on it rather than his own bed on the floor. I told him to get down and go to bed. So he got off our bed, walked across the room, opened the door and made himself comfortable on the Kingsize bed in the spare room...
He's not spoilt, just over indulged! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t have any pets, but it seems strange to me why you would let a cat or dog in bed. I love dogs, but the hair annoys me so sharing a bed with a dog would be hell for me.
Do you have pets?
Are they allowed into your bed?
Thoughts?"
Get a hairless dog then, like a Chinese Crested, they are largely bald, with just a bit of hair round the head, neck and tail, but it’s more like feathering than actual hair.
I’ve had cats for years, current ones like to lie on top of me and next to me, or under the fleece cover, the one on top will come in underneath the duvet if it’s cold enough for her.
Have had a dog too but she preferred her own beds (she had 3, one under my bed, and one in the corner, and one in the living room |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as I love my cat I prefer him down stairs, even more so now the weather is wet. Wet paws and fur are not for my bed "
Is your cat wet 24/7.
I always think that people who prefer their cats to sleep away from them, don’t really love them at all, as cats love company especially when sleeping |
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"So to those that allow their pets in bed. What do you do if you fancy some sex with your partner?
Do you kick the pet out of the room, or just ignore that they are there?"
Just shut the door and chuck them some dreamies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure my Labrador would love to sleep on my bed but he's not allowed upstairs. I don't mind having a snuggle with him on the sofa though "
Lucky Lab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So to those that allow their pets in bed. What do you do if you fancy some sex with your partner?
Do you kick the pet out of the room, or just ignore that they are there?
Just shut the door and chuck them some dreamies."
What about the pets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as I love my cat I prefer him down stairs, even more so now the weather is wet. Wet paws and fur are not for my bed
Is your cat wet 24/7.
I always think that people who prefer their cats to sleep away from them, don’t really love them at all, as cats love company especially when sleeping "
Not 24/7, when it's raining.
He wakes us up at silly o'clock for cuddles or food, he's in and out like a yoyo as he has more of a social life than me with his friends who sit out side and meow and sometimes follow him in. He is often a dead weight on the bed you can't move when just wanting to change sleeping position.
The wet paws and fur was just a little bug.
My cat also picks when he wants company which is when you often find us snuggled on the sofa together. To say I don't love my cat would be far from it. |
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"I don’t have any pets, but it seems strange to me why you would let a cat or dog in bed. I love dogs, but the hair annoys me so sharing a bed with a dog would be hell for me.
Do you have pets?
Are they allowed into your bed?
Thoughts?"
Hell no, that's all kinds of dirty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I always used to let my lab up on bed.
But I would always clean his paws when he came inside, and wipe his bum. 
Still gross I know but doggy cuddles have a very special place in my heart. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Most certainly.
It may be an idea for those struggling with heating bills this winter to rethink their stance on how to stay warm if they are against pets on bed and sofa, the heat and warmth given off from even a small dog or cat when you and your pets are wrapped up in a blanket or under covers is extremely effective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most certainly.
It may be an idea for those struggling with heating bills this winter to rethink their stance on how to stay warm if they are against pets on bed and sofa, the heat and warmth given off from even a small dog or cat when you and your pets are wrapped up in a blanket or under covers is extremely effective."
Heard it all now!
Get three dogs two cats couple of gerbils and sleep with them ......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As much as I love my cat I prefer him down stairs, even more so now the weather is wet. Wet paws and fur are not for my bed
Is your cat wet 24/7.
I always think that people who prefer their cats to sleep away from them, don’t really love them at all, as cats love company especially when sleeping
Not 24/7, when it's raining.
He wakes us up at silly o'clock for cuddles or food, he's in and out like a yoyo as he has more of a social life than me with his friends who sit out side and meow and sometimes follow him in. He is often a dead weight on the bed you can't move when just wanting to change sleeping position.
The wet paws and fur was just a little bug.
My cat also picks when he wants company which is when you often find us snuggled on the sofa together. To say I don't love my cat would be far from it. "
Put like that makes sense 
My cat goes out anywhere between 8.30 am and 12pm, and is back in usually before dark. She is in all night, she doesn’t have 24hr access to outside. She doesn’t usually bring her BF back, the last time I saw him she beat him up |
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My dog used to sleep on my bed, down by (or usually on) my legs through the night, but he'd always scoot up to say good morning when I woke...I'd give anything for one more morning snuggle now he's gone 
But Kaitonel is right, they make fantastic hot water bottles when it's cold |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Most certainly.
It may be an idea for those struggling with heating bills this winter to rethink their stance on how to stay warm if they are against pets on bed and sofa, the heat and warmth given off from even a small dog or cat when you and your pets are wrapped up in a blanket or under covers is extremely effective.
Heard it all now!
Get three dogs two cats couple of gerbils and sleep with them ......... "
I'm guessing you don't understand how body heat works,and huddling together to stay warm.
Dogs and cats don't regulate their body heat in the way we do and at a higher temp, they are essentially little furnaces and you will gain far more warmth laying next to a dog or cat than you would another person. It's simple science and fact, and low wit mockery won't change that. |
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"I don’t have any pets, but it seems strange to me why you would let a cat or dog in bed. I love dogs, but the hair annoys me so sharing a bed with a dog would be hell for me.
Do you have pets?
Are they allowed into your bed?
Thoughts?"
I thought we gave up sleeping with animals when we moved out of the caves. I can think of few thinks that turn my stomach than sharing sheets with a four legged thing. |
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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago
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We used to allow our(36kilo) dog in bed, but we got a second dog and with both there was no room for us. So now no dogs allowed on the bed. It is so nice not feeling hair settle on your face everytime you adjust the duvet. |
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"He's one for you
Would it put you off meeting or even sex if you went back to someone's house and there was dog cat, whatever else hair everywhere in their bed? "
I always warn people, tell them not to wear black and hang their clothes up... The choice is theirs.
I wouldn't be able to sleep in a bed where a dog slept though, I'm allergic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My cats are allowed in the bed. Trying to keep them out at this point I’d redundant.
I will never allow a dog in my bed. It’s not how you train a dog effectively. If you want them to understand the food chain, they need to know they sleep below. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My cats are allowed in the bed. Trying to keep them out at this point I’d redundant.
I will never allow a dog in my bed. It’s not how you train a dog effectively. If you want them to understand the food chain, they need to know they sleep below. "
That’s not how you train a dog effectively? Really?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most certainly.
It may be an idea for those struggling with heating bills this winter to rethink their stance on how to stay warm if they are against pets on bed and sofa, the heat and warmth given off from even a small dog or cat when you and your pets are wrapped up in a blanket or under covers is extremely effective."
Me and my daughter discussed this and I said that when it gets really cold, I will shout "throw another cat on"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr has cats, one in particular will jump up on the bed and really snuggle with you, he cuddles up and usually will snuggle his face up on your arm. It's absolutely gorgeous. Really makes me melt. Hes a soppy bugger.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My cats are allowed in the bed. Trying to keep them out at this point I’d redundant.
I will never allow a dog in my bed. It’s not how you train a dog effectively. If you want them to understand the food chain, they need to know they sleep below.
That’s not how you train a dog effectively? Really? "
It’s worked for every dog my family and I have ever owned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always had cats on and in bed - currently diwn to one at the moment but there was a time there were 11 furry fellnes.
I draw the line at lettimg the horses in though |
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.. I lived for those precious moments of pure love 
Anyway I have one that comes in about the same time every morning demands the same spot, very snuggly, total princess 
LvM
