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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anyone really respond on here (Yes I am doing it now)?
I like to wink, don't like copy and paste, but possibly 1 in 10 messages get a response, so how many can you possibly personalise?
A wink is suttle and always welcome from me. |
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We read the profiles of all winks, but only wink a small percentage back.
We've had meets that have started with a wink.
We've returned hundreds of winks and they haven't followed up with a message.
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We give and receive winks. If we're 'winking' here it's us giving positive acknowledgement without the small talk (something lots here want to avoid)...we receive winks in a similar vein unless accompanied by a message elaborating on the 'winkers' feelings/sentiments etc.
And let's face it, many of us here enjoy a wink on a Saturday morning! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think they're a perfectly reasonable means of saying "heeeeey" and maybe starting up a dialogue.
Others think it's lazy, that's fine, but ya know, come on, as frankie says, calm down. |
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By *he HMFsCouple
over a year ago
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We wink if we are attracted to a profile to see if they return the wink, if so we will message. To be honest we thought this was the purpose of it, kinda like a soft way of showing interest. But doesn't seem to be the way a lot of people use it, like if we return a wink they don't message. So why did they wink us first? Are we doing it wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used correctly, they can be brilliant.
Profile 1 sends wink to show interest.
Profile 2 checks them out, doesn't appeal so ignores, or does appeal and so wink back.
Profile 1 takes the wink back as an invite to open conversation.
Then instead of sending copy and paste, or a simple Hi, or whatever, they spend a little time composing an attention grabbing message.
I don't get the viewpoint that they're lazy, I think that's either through a lack of understanding or entitlement.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have some and it worked out ok once.
What surprises us is people that wink and have no pictures and a “fill in later” bio
Usually just wink back for lols. |
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