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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone says they're leaving. You can guarantee they'll be posting for a meet several hours later...I think it's an attention thing.
Oh and while we're at it, please fab my pics to get me to the top of the hot pics. Please.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s just another form of attention seeking or to get messages. I know someone who has been threatening to leave for the past 2 years ! Still on here "
Now that's both funny and sad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all attention seeking, but not as annoying as the ones announcing “I’m back!” Like it’s a take that reunion press release. I’ve left and returned, never said a word publicly. Having said that if you verified me before ?? … |
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"It’s all attention seeking, but not as annoying as the ones announcing “I’m back!” Like it’s a take that reunion press release. I’ve left and returned, never said a word publicly. Having said that if you verified me before ?? … "
Nothing worse than a Take That reunion |
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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago
Norwich this week, usually Dundee and around |
These departure announcements reminds me of the lyrics from Pink Floyd:
"Goodbye cruel world, I'm leaving you today. Goodbye, Goodbye, Goodbye!"
The farewell echos and disappears into silence! No one there to listen, to care, to respond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“Oh Hun! Why are you leaving? “
“Well, my site supporter pass is running out…”
“Ahh don’t go.. I’ll pay for you..”
Let’s be honest, that’s what it’s mostly about .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“Oh Hun! Why are you leaving? “
“Well, my site supporter pass is running out…”
“Ahh don’t go.. I’ll pay for you..”
Let’s be honest, that’s what it’s mostly about .."
Well, now you mention it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because when I announce it, I want all the hotties to say “please let me have a ride before you go”.
You don’t have to read it, and respond. Just go about your day and ignore it.
Easy beans  |
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Here's a thought. People bang on about joining the fora, make friends that way they say, when so called friends have been made and they choose to start a new chapter in their life (who knows why they are leaving) the friends from the friendly fora then pile on and rip the piss out of their friend.... Nice work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“Oh Hun! Why are you leaving? “
“Well, my site supporter pass is running out…”
“Ahh don’t go.. I’ll pay for you..”
Let’s be honest, that’s what it’s mostly about .."
Cost of living crisis, condoms aren’t cheap, I’m leaving for 6 months - should save me £3 |
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"“Oh Hun! Why are you leaving? “
“Well, my site supporter pass is running out…”
“Ahh don’t go.. I’ll pay for you..”
Let’s be honest, that’s what it’s mostly about ..
Cost of living crisis, condoms aren’t cheap, I’m leaving for 6 months - should save me £3"
Shag bandit. |
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I like to respect. To some it gets too intense and addictive. Seen that happen and they just needed break for a while to recover. I sent best wishes to one and it was well worth as got to carry on off this site with her. Was sort of more intimate sex |
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"It's nice to say goodbye to peeps I've chit chatted with so I think it's cool! X
I've had people say goodbye to me privately. I think that's what I'd do if I leave - not make it a "thing""
I would deffo make an announcement! Lol but I am an attention seeker tbh! Not that I intend on leaving here! Till they carry me out in my box even then I've arranged for someone to make an announcement on my updates! Ha ha! X |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Procrastinating comes to mind. Message your friends and exchange contact details if you want go keep in touch then just go.
Better still, hide the profile as we all know they’ll. be back looking for friends to verify them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I beg them to stay and offer to shag them senseless.
I’m leaving …. 
Well helloooooo there....  "
Hi to you so what was it you were saying about if I was leaving ….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't care.
But maybe they hope someone who cares about them will reach out.
It always just reeks of being desperate for attention. But I guess you could say the same for many aspects on Fab. |
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I think should have some respect. We are all different with many different feelings and needs. As said earlier this site can get overwhelming for some and people sometimes just need a break. No need to judge them on their feelings and action. Think how you would feel if you were having mental health problems because you got addicted here for example and it took over you life. Known that happen to some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you see that on someone's status, what comes to your mind?
Me: this is not an airport, you don't need to announce departures.
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I'd say it it's attention seeking. Any time I've intermittently left, I've DMd the contacts or people that I want to remain in touch with and give them the heads up. Otherwise I'd leave without a trace. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think should have some respect. We are all different with many different feelings and needs. As said earlier this site can get overwhelming for some and people sometimes just need a break. No need to judge them on their feelings and action. Think how you would feel if you were having mental health problems because you got addicted here for example and it took over you life. Known that happen to some"
If people are feeling overwhelmed and their mental health is suffering- they don't usually want to court attention in my experience. |
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"I think should have some respect. We are all different with many different feelings and needs. As said earlier this site can get overwhelming for some and people sometimes just need a break. No need to judge them on their feelings and action. Think how you would feel if you were having mental health problems because you got addicted here for example and it took over you life. Known that happen to some
If people are feeling overwhelmed and their mental health is suffering- they don't usually want to court attention in my experience."
Don't you think that for some people having their existance acknowledged is important thought? Text a friend type concept? |
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One guy put on his status he was leaving the site at 8pm.
Around 9pm he messaged me so I asked why he was still about, he'd changed his mind, he'd leave in 2 days when his supporters pass ran out.
I asked if he thought 2 days would make a difference (his other statuses were always about how no one would meet and what a wastevof time it was) 
I even tried giving him profile advice but he wouldn't take it as he knew best what worked on a 'sex site'!!
He did leave 2 days later and then popped back up a few days later on a new profile with same cock photo as his profile photo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think should have some respect. We are all different with many different feelings and needs. As said earlier this site can get overwhelming for some and people sometimes just need a break. No need to judge them on their feelings and action. Think how you would feel if you were having mental health problems because you got addicted here for example and it took over you life. Known that happen to some
If people are feeling overwhelmed and their mental health is suffering- they don't usually want to court attention in my experience.
Don't you think that for some people having their existance acknowledged is important thought? Text a friend type concept? "
Posting that you're leaving on a forum post vs messaging a friend - quite different actions aren't they? As I said IME people whose mental health isn't great don't want to draw attention to themselves usually. Anyone I have seen write about it here has done so as a way to reach out to others. |
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"I think should have some respect. We are all different with many different feelings and needs. As said earlier this site can get overwhelming for some and people sometimes just need a break. No need to judge them on their feelings and action. Think how you would feel if you were having mental health problems because you got addicted here for example and it took over you life. Known that happen to some
If people are feeling overwhelmed and their mental health is suffering- they don't usually want to court attention in my experience.
Don't you think that for some people having their existance acknowledged is important thought? Text a friend type concept?
Posting that you're leaving on a forum post vs messaging a friend - quite different actions aren't they? As I said IME people whose mental health isn't great don't want to draw attention to themselves usually. Anyone I have seen write about it here has done so as a way to reach out to others. "
Am sure you are right in lot of cases. I have however seen some have problems and was not about attention. Ones I mainly know were people getting addicted to this site. One had many meets so had plenty of attention. They were spending many hours a day on here and neglecting themselves. In end they realised that |
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