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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In the past few weeks.
I have started to attend swinging clubs.
I have witnessed alot of 'creepiness' towards other fellow swinging club goers.
And that is making me feel alittle uncomfortable.
I am debating whether to continue going back to swinging clubs ever again?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you allow their creepiness to affect your enjoyment of going to clubs?"
Because it is not very nice to see other fellow swinging club goers feeling uncomfortable.
And feel that they have to leave because of certain individuals. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Hmmmm
Im getting a whiff of 'look at me, im not like the others' off this one I'm afraid"
Possibly a bit of white knighting.
As I said to the OP,he just needs to ensure that his own behaviour is impeccable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP.. this is nothing new.
The best thing that you can do is to ensure that your behaviour is impeccable. "
My behaviour and conduct is always 'impeccable'   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you allow their creepiness to affect your enjoyment of going to clubs?
Because it is not very nice to see other fellow swinging club goers feeling uncomfortable.
And feel that they have to leave because of certain individuals."
Clubs have protocols to deal with this type of behaviour. You just need to point it out to a member of staff or monitor and they will keep watch or intervene as needed.
You should also be careful about misinterpreting roleplay or scenes. It's not always obvious if something is part of pre-agreed limits or unwanted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following people around and making them feel nervous and uncomfortable.
And not taking 'NO' for an answer.
But, still persist invading in their personal space. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following people around and making them feel nervous and uncomfortable.
And not taking 'NO' for an answer.
But, still persist invading in their personal space."
You sure you wasn’t blocking entry to the toilets? |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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"Following people around and making them feel nervous and uncomfortable.
And not taking 'NO' for an answer.
But, still persist invading in their personal space."
I've been to clubs on my own and with partners and never had people who persistently tried their luck.
What did the club staff do when they were told that there were guest that weren't taking NO for an answer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have a word with the staff be discreet though no one should witness or experience untowards behaviour clubs should be a safe place for people to enjoy their selves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s always going to be at least one person who wants their moneys worth by invading spaces and sorting unwanted behaviours, report it to staff, then go off and enjoy your night.
Clubs are great places but due to the nature of the club, someone is always going to be a knob.
Don’t let it put you off, you can’t control how other people are going to behave, but you can control how it affects you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s always going to be at least one person who wants their moneys worth by invading spaces and sorting unwanted behaviours, report it to staff, then go off and enjoy your night.
Clubs are great places but due to the nature of the club, someone is always going to be a knob.
Don’t let it put you off, you can’t control how other people are going to behave, but you can control how it affects you. "
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Been to a variety of clubs on different nights and gay saunas. You’re not guaranteed that everyone is on the same page when it comes to acceptable behaviour.
Clubs or other venues in which ‘play’ is part of the evening will always get a variety of people with different expectations. Some will be very pushy others will be accepting of the boundaries of the club and patrons.
So my advice stay away or be a bit more assertive and bring it to the clubs attention. |
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