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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To cut a long story short, when I was stuck in traffic the other day a woman roughly around the age of 50, (but so fit!) was so forward and gutsy that she just asked for my number while she was walking at side of my truck with her dog.i gave her my number and im just wondering if this was you would you of messaged by now? This happened at about half 2 on Tuesday, I hope she gets in touch because I've been thinking about her, and anyone that forward is defo my type on a mental level, and she is just my type in terms of looks but I can't see her ever messaging if she hasn't already, touch wood because I've been pining for her, I got it bad man.
So has it been too long, is she playing it cool or is she never going to text? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She might be waiting until the weekend .. she might have changed her mind .. it might have been a dare .. or she might have lost the number! who knows?
If she hasn’t contacted by the end of the weekend it’s not going to look very promising to be fair … but you never know! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't think I was a dare I think she just siezed the moment, maybe she'd had a few cherries and now they've worn off has decided not to bother, I don't think she'd been drinking thou, can't get her out my mind when in laid in bed at night, sad I know but I can't help it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did you give her the right number? You might have been nervous and got it wrong.
Your 1 might look like a 7, and done lucky ‘wrong number’ is in a hot date with her right now  
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh man don't say that, she was so forward it was such a massive turn on, she clearly knows what she likes and how to get it, she was at least 15yrs older than me but I don't give a shit I'd snog her right in the middle of the high street for everyone to see |
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By *aresseTV/TS
over a year ago
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Do you have her number ? Maybe she lost yours ? But you may have to accept she threw the number away or had second thoughts . if you know she was walking along that street, though , unless you were only there as a one off maybe there’s a chance you’ll see her there again ? I’m not suggesting stalking by the way but it’s not totally impossible you’d see her again and a bit of cheeky banter rather than desperation might just win the day ? You never know , good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheeky banter is my middle name, so if I see her again which is possible because I go that way at least twice a week roughly at same time too but im still just kinda hoping she gets intouch, if not by end of weekend then I'll resign myself to the fact that she probably won't, I havent felt like this about anyone for a long time, there's a chance I might not even like her if we get to know each other but from our very short interaction and her forwardness I fell head over hells, and believe me im very fussy for a bloke, I've regected at least 3 women since joining this site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, can we all pretend we are the women. And can we pretend that she actually fancied me and wanted to get to know me. Would you of text or rung by now?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't take her number, she just took mine"
Never just give someone your number...swap numbers right there and then, that way they can't escape....wooohhaaahahhaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, can we all pretend we are the women. And can we pretend that she actually fancied me and wanted to get to know me. Would you of text or rung by now??"
Personally if I'd had the balls to ask for your number I'd certainly have used it by now. As mentioned, you might see her again, see what happens if you do. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of the women on here are taking the piss you know, they are genuinely realistic answers, just because it’s not what you want to hear, doesn’t mean the answers are wrong or unrealistic.
To answer your question, I think she may have either put it down somewhere and forgot about it, or maybe something happened like a family emergency and she’s not got around to it!
Go back there, park up for half an hour and see if she walks by…. That’s what I’d do!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok well thanks for your input people im just going to hope she gets in touch, I was literally half asleep then thinking about her again looool ffs I got it bad, im not going to go park up and hope she walks down the street that's Abit weird for me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, I'll get over it eventually, it gave me an ego boost at the very least, sweet dreams im off to bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok well thanks for your input people im just going to hope she gets in touch, I was literally half asleep then thinking about her again looool ffs I got it bad, im not going to go park up and hope she walks down the street that's Abit weird for me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, I'll get over it eventually, it gave me an ego boost at the very least, sweet dreams im off to bed"
Bit weird that you're so attached to someone who literally just came up and asked for your number tbh. I'd get it if you'd been on a few dates or slept together, but "having it bad" and thinking about her all the time when you spoke to her for just about long enough to write your number down is a bit... Odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok well thanks for your input people im just going to hope she gets in touch, I was literally half asleep then thinking about her again looool ffs I got it bad, im not going to go park up and hope she walks down the street that's Abit weird for me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, I'll get over it eventually, it gave me an ego boost at the very least, sweet dreams im off to bed
Bit weird that you're so attached to someone who literally just came up and asked for your number tbh. I'd get it if you'd been on a few dates or slept together, but "having it bad" and thinking about her all the time when you spoke to her for just about long enough to write your number down is a bit... Odd. "
It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok well thanks for your input people im just going to hope she gets in touch, I was literally half asleep then thinking about her again looool ffs I got it bad, im not going to go park up and hope she walks down the street that's Abit weird for me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, I'll get over it eventually, it gave me an ego boost at the very least, sweet dreams im off to bed
Bit weird that you're so attached to someone who literally just came up and asked for your number tbh. I'd get it if you'd been on a few dates or slept together, but "having it bad" and thinking about her all the time when you spoke to her for just about long enough to write your number down is a bit... Odd.
It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective "
That's actually kind of scary tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok well thanks for your input people im just going to hope she gets in touch, I was literally half asleep then thinking about her again looool ffs I got it bad, im not going to go park up and hope she walks down the street that's Abit weird for me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, I'll get over it eventually, it gave me an ego boost at the very least, sweet dreams im off to bed
Bit weird that you're so attached to someone who literally just came up and asked for your number tbh. I'd get it if you'd been on a few dates or slept together, but "having it bad" and thinking about her all the time when you spoke to her for just about long enough to write your number down is a bit... Odd.
It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective "
90% of men never have women show interest? Love to see that research!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"….
It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective
That's actually kind of scary tbh"
This is why I stick to self serve. … |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective
That's actually kind of scary tbh
This is why I stick to self serve. …"
I bet you tell it to take your “unexpected item” right up its filthy “bagging area”! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok well thanks for your input people im just going to hope she gets in touch, I was literally half asleep then thinking about her again looool ffs I got it bad, im not going to go park up and hope she walks down the street that's Abit weird for me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, I'll get over it eventually, it gave me an ego boost at the very least, sweet dreams im off to bed
Bit weird that you're so attached to someone who literally just came up and asked for your number tbh. I'd get it if you'd been on a few dates or slept together, but "having it bad" and thinking about her all the time when you spoke to her for just about long enough to write your number down is a bit... Odd.
It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective
90% of men never have women show interest? Love to see that research! "
Probably comes from Sydney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"….
It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective
That's actually kind of scary tbh
This is why I stick to self serve. …
I bet you tell it to take your “unexpected item” right up its filthy “bagging area”! "
And then I don’t bother putting it in a bag at all, just leave my mess everywhere for someone to clean up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok well thanks for your input people im just going to hope she gets in touch, I was literally half asleep then thinking about her again looool ffs I got it bad, im not going to go park up and hope she walks down the street that's Abit weird for me, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, I'll get over it eventually, it gave me an ego boost at the very least, sweet dreams im off to bed
Bit weird that you're so attached to someone who literally just came up and asked for your number tbh. I'd get it if you'd been on a few dates or slept together, but "having it bad" and thinking about her all the time when you spoke to her for just about long enough to write your number down is a bit... Odd.
It’s only odd to you because your a woman
Imagine being a guy that literally, never has a woman show interest. In their entire life. That’s 90% of men
I’ve fallen for women on Asda checkout becayse she smiled and says have a nice day
Try to see things from outside your perspective
90% of men never have women show interest? Love to see that research!
Probably comes from Sydney "
Bien sur!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I've not had a serious reply yet, don't know why I bothered asking the question"
Just try to be at the same place n same time again but maybe not in traffic n see if she walks that way as part of her routine!! N go from there
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I've not had a serious reply yet, don't know why I bothered asking the question
Just try to be at the same place n same time again but maybe not in traffic n see if she walks that way as part of her routine!! N go from there
Good luck "
This is solid advice. Stalk an area praying and hoping she visits again
For real though, she probably collects 20 numbers a day and picks the hottest one. Be thankful you were at least in the running! And better luck next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I've not had a serious reply yet, don't know why I bothered asking the question
Just try to be at the same place n same time again but maybe not in traffic n see if she walks that way as part of her routine!! N go from there
Good luck
This is solid advice. Stalk an area praying and hoping she visits again
For real though, she probably collects 20 numbers a day and picks the hottest one. Be thankful you were at least in the running! And better luck next time "
Oh jesus christ this is starting to sound like an origin story 
Fair enough if you're going through there as part of your route, but do NOT stalk any area looking for a woman!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I've not had a serious reply yet, don't know why I bothered asking the question
Just try to be at the same place n same time again but maybe not in traffic n see if she walks that way as part of her routine!! N go from there
Good luck
This is solid advice. Stalk an area praying and hoping she visits again
For real though, she probably collects 20 numbers a day and picks the hottest one. Be thankful you were at least in the running! And better luck next time
Oh jesus christ this is starting to sound like an origin story
Fair enough if you're going through there as part of your route, but do NOT stalk any area looking for a woman!!! "
Didn’t see the sarcasm. Bless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I've not had a serious reply yet, don't know why I bothered asking the question
Just try to be at the same place n same time again but maybe not in traffic n see if she walks that way as part of her routine!! N go from there
Good luck
This is solid advice. Stalk an area praying and hoping she visits again
For real though, she probably collects 20 numbers a day and picks the hottest one. Be thankful you were at least in the running! And better luck next time
Oh jesus christ this is starting to sound like an origin story
Fair enough if you're going through there as part of your route, but do NOT stalk any area looking for a woman!!!
Didn’t see the sarcasm. Bless "
Oh. No, I didn't  |
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