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How nerve racking is a first social?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a couple or a single? I kind of got off on the adrenaline feeling but my other half is the oppersit. Advice for her to overcome it and pluck the courage to do it ? |
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Mine was a unique one as it was a party at a swingers club.
I was scared and my heart dropped when the first room I walked into was 90% old men.
Thankfully it didn't stay that way and I ended up having one of the best nights I've ever had. |
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I don’t feel anything when meeting people socially first time in the sense of nerves over excitement .
Only thing that is in my mind is hopefully we get along and not wasted each other’s time but worst case you have a drink make amicable small talk 5/10 min and then part ways . Or you just leave immediately if they are not the person in pics
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"I don’t feel anything when meeting people socially first time in the sense of nerves over excitement .
Only thing that is in my mind is hopefully we get along and not wasted each other’s time but worst case you have a drink make amicable small talk 5/10 min and then part ways . Or you just leave immediately if they are not the person in pics
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Yeah same, it's just a thing that's happening. Cool as a refrigerated cucumber  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am a bit of a loner by circumstances in my hunger days so these things are a challenge for me but you have to go out of your comfort zone to get anything out of life don't you?"
That's very true |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Remove all pressure, let her and the people you're meeting know that a social is just that, a social nothing more will happen and she is in complete control of any further interaction. "
Exactly this and she will have you there so it shouldn't be too nerve racking .The longer you leave it the worse the thought of it can be though. |
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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago
Croydon |
I find socials fine as long as you go in there with zero expectations as to the outcome bar having a chat and drink.
Seen it before where some seem to think it's going to be more than that, and act rather inappropriately |
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