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Would people rather good fuck and go or more of a frienship/relationship
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely "long term".
The only reason i came back to FAB was because of long term relationships with couples. If that didn't exist, i wouldn't be here to post this reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.
No dick sucking though."
I'll grab my coat  |
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I’m actually looking for a relationship so wouldn’t meet with anyone unless there was potential for that. I’m often told to ‘get real’ and that I don’t belong here by disgruntled men who are angry I’m not gonna fuck them but I like sharing risqué pics so here I am! Obviously also on conventional dating sites |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.
No dick sucking though.
Running out the door as I type..!  "
Don't mind sloppy thirds do you? |
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"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.
No dick sucking though.
Running out the door as I type..!
Don't mind sloppy thirds do you? "
No lol I may beat the other two there …! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here? Bit of both really, one to one meets tend to be with people I want to get to know over a longer period, but last couple of visits to a club have been more spontaneous…  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK interesting, so if u meet once and you fuck but not feeling it after. your happy to just fuck and go but if there was more to it, you would be happy to continue building a "relationship" type thing |
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Not quite fuck and go but fuck, quick chat, few drinks and go. Maybe meet again at another party, holiday or club, certainly not long term.
Be terrified of introducing you into our circle of vanilla friends.
So, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't think many would want to just fuck and go with you   but I'm getting the vibe more people are happy to build a relationship/friendship than just fuck and goes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've made a few friends via the site that I'm realistically never going to have sex with. But I've also had a few off the cuff meets with one off folk that whilst I've enjoyed it I'm not going to have a repeat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week. "
That sounds like alot of work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of good fucks making love in a lovely sexy friendship . Turning to relation would be spot on ^^
All - inclusive :
Breakfast
Self service all day
Supper
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week.
That sounds like alot of work
I was thinking that.  "
U need see the beneficial side of it :
No diesel , no drinks , no meals , no condoms … saves u a lot . Is a big benefit . |
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Depends , I think friendship relationship is the main goal for most . Sex is always better with a connection . There is however a need for the fuck and go be it a fantasy or just to get it out you system .
I would think people men in particular would take what they can get |
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"Depends , I think friendship relationship is the main goal for most . Sex is always better with a connection . There is however a need for the fuck and go be it a fantasy or just to get it out you system .
I would think people men in particular would take what they can get "
Why’s that then ?? |
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"Depends , I think friendship relationship is the main goal for most . Sex is always better with a connection . There is however a need for the fuck and go be it a fantasy or just to get it out you system .
I would think people men in particular would take what they can get
Why’s that then ?? "
Men generally don’t need a connection to have sex . Speaking from experience even with no connection mentally or physically I could still have sex .
The connection that leads to friendship / relationship keep you long back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not quite fuck and go but fuck, quick chat, few drinks and go. Maybe meet again at another party, holiday or club, certainly not long term.
Be terrified of introducing you into our circle of vanilla friends.
So, "
I get this ! Time a place for everything!!
and the cross over does not work
Ideal and reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Give me a solid friendship and dates please.  "
Don’t need say please … is my pleasure x x
Loads of sweet love and sexy friendship
“ … solid ….. solid like a rock … …”
Love your hips x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Long term/fwb.
I can’t stress enough how little interest I have in one night stands. "
If u repeat the same night on a loop like Dr Who did locked in that tower inside a pocket clock …
Is not such a bad thought ^^ . Trying different positions …. Back to yesterday everyday ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Long term/fwb.
I can’t stress enough how little interest I have in one night stands.
If u repeat the same night on a loop like Dr Who did locked in that tower inside a pocket clock …
Is not such a bad thought ^^ . Trying different positions …. Back to yesterday everyday ^^ "
Given how tragic that episode is, I’d suggest that’s a terrible analogy  
I’d hate it more, having to repeat saying “no fuck off” every night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely friendship for us. We aren't looking for NSA. "
This is where I get confused. I favour fwb, but either party is free to walk away at any time, therefore NSA? I'm so confused... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On this site I’m not looking for any kind of relationship. Maybe a casual friendship would be ok, but it’s not something I’m actively seeking.
I’ve found in the past that people tend to get a little too attached if you meet too often, so I tend to keep my distance. |
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"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week. "
I think that's a valid point.
What is a friend?
To us it's someone we trust, who know our personal business (up to a point ) know we can rely on each other for help and support, usually a friendship built over many years, happy to introduce them as a trustworthy, non gossiping, non drama queen type of friend.
Not just a work colleague or God forbid a Facebook friend.
So for us to answer candidly it would have to be happy for fuck and go and maybe extend to a multiple meet type of person but do love the excitement of meeting and getting naked with strangers.
So outside our normal life. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Definitely friendship for us. We aren't looking for NSA.
This is where I get confused. I favour fwb, but either party is free to walk away at any time, therefore NSA? I'm so confused..."
Friendships can and do end when one or both party's decide. NSA means there was no friendship in the first place. |
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"Regardless of what the forums answers are, I perceive people still use this as a hook up site. 
*just my opinion. "
It’s just casual hookups one off for me mostly. Odd occasion someone comes along you get on with more but it disappears quick enough generally I find .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Long term friendship/FWB and being honest if it was to progress to more that would be fine by me.
Having said that I have a couple of FWB scenarios where it will not progress beyond that for a variety of reasons and it suits both parties.
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Couple of drinks, chat, fuck for a couple of hours. Then go.
I'm not looking for fwb, friends or relationships. If I do make a friend or two along the way, fine. The more I know someone, the less I want to have sex with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I have read quite few profiles, and I have not seen a single person seeking for friendship only. I came across few gils looking for a proper relationship.
Let be honest with ourselves, this is a site for sex!!! But we are social being. Sex will always come first; no one will decline friendship with the right person.
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"More of a friendship but I wouldn't really call it friends with benefits. It's just a thing isn't it? Hard to describe. Any way, yeah. Not into NSA at all."
Yup!same here...I don't see the point of it. |
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Friendship’s and connections.
We’ve tried pushing ourselves to be a bit more fuck and go this last year but it’s just not us and hasn’t happened.
We recently spent a whole evening with 100+ naked gorgeous sexy people and didn’t instantly fancy any of them which really hit home how much we need to get to know people first.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to find a relationship with another swinger. I know there are women on here looking for the same, so you never know. Hopefully we'll find each other and live dirtally ever after lol"
I met a guy from another site looking for a relationship. After a few dates he tells me he’s into the lifestyle and is looking for a lover to share it with. What are the chances!? Was never any mention of it in either of our profiles. Not rushing it, but new couple profile on the way! |
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