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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A long term FWB relationship yes. I have done a few times. A proper relationship nooooooooo. But that goes for anyone I meet anywhere. I don’t want one. "
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person."
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person.
Lock him in a chastity cage when you're not together until you learn to trust him. "
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I don't want another relationship with anyone ever, but if I really liked someone I met here I wouldn't mind something more like fwb. It wouldn't put me off because they were on here, I'd probably prefer it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person.
Lock him in a chastity cage when you're not together until you learn to trust him.
they wimp out of long term chastity "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person."
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I don't see why not.
My boundaries are sky high and he or she would have to be pretty phenomenal. But not because of hooking up, because I can't imagine anything I want less right now than a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, if I didn’t already have a LTR that is. Or if I did and we were poly. Or I wanted to live a double life! "
Or a long term romantic in love 3 way
Who believes in that ? Is not impossible is it ? |
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"No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person."
I understand what you mean, but is that not all men? Let's assume all men in the UK knew fab existed, I'd guess 50% of them would have been on it at some point in their life.
One thing I think about being here is that you're already being more honest with yourself than most of your mates.
I think it sets you up for having very clear, open and honest communication in a relationship. I don't imagine if you met someone in real life you'd discuss your fab journey? |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't want another relationship with anyone ever, but if I really liked someone I met here I wouldn't mind something more like fwb. It wouldn't put me off because they were on here, I'd probably prefer it."
Same for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person.
I understand what you mean, but is that not all men? Let's assume all men in the UK knew fab existed, I'd guess 50% of them would have been on it at some point in their life.
One thing I think about being here is that you're already being more honest with yourself than most of your mates.
I think it sets you up for having very clear, open and honest communication in a relationship. I don't imagine if you met someone in real life you'd discuss your fab journey? "
Hi …
I tried to explain that to people . We free spirits are not nessecerily sluts , or swingers , what we are is more honest then u lot out there …
Me personally I rather be honest and lose then cheat to keep it . I can’t pretend . I explained …
Doesn’t fit in the head … oh well . I tried explain ..
50% ? I would say more .
When Fabs found me on POF n I got here I felt like … wow !! where have I been all my life ?
Not cause of greed , but cause of being discriminated for being a FFM lover .
On fabs everyone is normal and more freak as better . Respect ^^
Honesty and no one discriminate anyone …
Freedom . And that is beautiful n l love it .
Freedom … people think freedom means shag everyone . They don’t reach it .
I tell them . No . Freedom is u be honest and do whatever u like , then u r free . No rules . No masks . And I need that .
And it doesn’t matter what u up too . Is all labels xx is all the same : NSA , relation … whatever , is all the same …
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I wouldn’t want a monogamous cohabiting situation again. Maybe fwb+? A few of us have said on several threads that would suit us.
I’ve never been a jealous or possessive type but I hate being lied to or made a mug of.
I’ve long thought polyamory would suit me well but frankly it’s hard even meeting one person that would suit me and I them |
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"I wouldn’t want a monogamous cohabiting situation again. Maybe fwb+? A few of us have said on several threads that would suit us.
I’ve never been a jealous or possessive type but I hate being lied to or made a mug of.
I’ve long thought polyamory would suit me well but frankly it’s hard even meeting one person that would suit me and I them "
Yeah, a small group of close friends with benefits (like, emotional intimacy of a good friend plus fucking) would suit me perfectly. |
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"I wouldn’t want a monogamous cohabiting situation again. Maybe fwb+? A few of us have said on several threads that would suit us.
I’ve never been a jealous or possessive type but I hate being lied to or made a mug of.
I’ve long thought polyamory would suit me well but frankly it’s hard even meeting one person that would suit me and I them
Yeah, a small group of close friends with benefits (like, emotional intimacy of a good friend plus fucking) would suit me perfectly."
Yep same here |
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Your absolutely right and it has given me the confidence to talk to guys on and off fab more openly about what I want especially sexually. Some people are not so open but I appreciate open conversations and honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just want a fwb someone I can trust and have good times with. Couldn't live with anyone but I do like the social side as much as the sex side of it. A part time lover would be good  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Of course, why not? I don't think you need to get into games of withholding sex etc, have sex with people you want to because you enjoy it. If a relationship develops or not, you're being true to you.
Most relationships I've been in have been when I haven't been looking for it, things happen and you meet someone. And it clicks. Dicking or not. |
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Interesting how any time a man answers this question with a no, on the basis he wouldnt want to get into a relationship with a woman from here, he gets hammered.
Yet looking through this thread so far i see zero condemnation of several women who have effectively said the same thing about men they meet on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting how any time a man answers this question with a no, on the basis he wouldnt want to get into a relationship with a woman from here, he gets hammered.
Yet looking through this thread so far i see zero condemnation of several women who have effectively said the same thing about men they meet on here"
Unsurprising to me! Fab is full of white knights. And women tend to stick together! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
Yes, i am living that life now, tomorrow it's 15 years since we moved in together ...  |
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"Interesting how any time a man answers this question with a no, on the basis he wouldnt want to get into a relationship with a woman from here, he gets hammered.
Yet looking through this thread so far i see zero condemnation of several women who have effectively said the same thing about men they meet on here"
I wouldn’t meet a man who met loads of others for a fwb thing either. Condemn me |
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"Interesting how any time a man answers this question with a no, on the basis he wouldnt want to get into a relationship with a woman from here, he gets hammered.
Yet looking through this thread so far i see zero condemnation of several women who have effectively said the same thing about men they meet on here
I wouldn’t meet a man who met loads of others for a fwb thing either. Condemn me "
Hey, im not going to condemn you. I agree with you
But I think ill be waiting a long time to see anyone condemen you though. If only you had a cock |
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away?
Yes, i am living that life now, tomorrow it's 15 years since we moved in together ... "
Love a happy ending. Kinda like our story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having left here to have a “Vanilla” relationship with someone, I’d say I doubt it.
I was soon back on here!
I’m no longer capable of having a normal relationship because unless his sexual thirst matched mine, it wouldn’t last 5 minutes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It almost happened for me but there was trust issues on both sides due to us meeting here so it didn’t work out. I’m monogamous and not a swinger or poly so if I met a single guy here they’d have to also be monogamous and we’d have to both leave the site for it to work out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It almost happened for me but there was trust issues on both sides due to us meeting here so it didn’t work out. I’m monogamous and not a swinger or poly so if I met a single guy here they’d have to also be monogamous and we’d have to both leave the site for it to work out."
Ditto, which is why I find by think I’d meet someone on here! |
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
I met G on here, within 3 weeks we were a couple. Been together 5yrs |
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"Interesting how any time a man answers this question with a no, on the basis he wouldnt want to get into a relationship with a woman from here, he gets hammered.
Yet looking through this thread so far i see zero condemnation of several women who have effectively said the same thing about men they meet on here
I wouldn’t meet a man who met loads of others for a fwb thing either. Condemn me
Hey, im not going to condemn you. I agree with you
But I think ill be waiting a long time to see anyone condemen you though. If only you had a cock "
If only. I’d never leave the house  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away?
Yes, i am living that life now, tomorrow it's 15 years since we moved in together ...
Love a happy ending. Kinda like our story "
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"No. I don’t think so, personally anyway. There are lots of couples on here that show you can, but I don’t think I can get past the idea that really men on here mostly want to sow their oats far and wide, and not just be tied to one person."
Whatever applies to men here applies to men outside fab. |
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
Why not
At least you know you have similar attitude towards sex |
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
Most definitely. |
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
I could ..and have done |
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"Of course, why not? I don't think you need to get into games of withholding sex etc, have sex with people you want to because you enjoy it. If a relationship develops or not, you're being true to you.
Most relationships I've been in have been when I haven't been looking for it, things happen and you meet someone. And it clicks. Dicking or not."
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t say for on here but I did fall for a FWB and needless to say got burnt in the end, I guess it’s not something you plan but man does it suck when it goes bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. We met on here, its the weirdest in the sense that qe have conversations that would normally get one of us a slap lol, but also the most honest relationship I've ever had. I've never been happier
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
Depending on the ability to see their profile or not.  |
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"Do you think you could get into a longterm relationship with someone you meet here if you found someone you really liked after meeting and sleeping with eachother straight away? "
Cherry and I are a couple who met on here. We both knew pretty quickly that this was going to end up a long term and committed thing.
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