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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening all 
When picking suitable play mates does it influence you if you can't see the verifications? Do people like to see them or not?
Would like to hear your views please  |
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"Evening all
When picking suitable play mates does it influence you if you can't see the verifications? Do people like to see them or not?
Would like to hear your views please "
I like to see them x |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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For me verifications are only a part of the overall pictures,in their numbers, in their detail and in the specific people who have given the verification. While there are a small number of verifications that would stop me from meeting the person on whose profile they are, overall I would say they are only a small part of my overall impression and decision process to meet. |
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"I like to see them, but I have to be honest, if they have loads it kinda puts me off...is that bad?.....gets my hard hat ready "
would it be better if there was more of a distinction between social meets and play meets i wonder? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i hide mine, had guys message people asking others id met for the more intimate details etc and i wasnt happy so hidden them since.
i'll have a nosey if they are available to read but its ublikely to sway my opinion of that person. that will be formed via conversations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I have repeatedly said before, I don't pay much attention to verifications, as I prefer to assess a gent's suitability via my own dealings with him, as well as to rely on my gut feel and instincts.
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"As I have repeatedly said before, I don't pay much attention to verifications, as I prefer to assess a gent's suitability via my own dealings with him, as well as to rely on my gut feel and instincts.
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So do you only meet those who hide their verifications on the basis that they presumably, like you, rely on gut feel and instincts, and therefore more likely to be a compatible meet? |
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As one of the myriad of males on here - I show mine. Mainly because a lot of people *do* use it as a yardstick to measure my reliability by.
Personally, I put give more credence to 'in person' verifications rather then webcam (as I see the latter as irrelevant as it only shows a face to the viewer - nothing about what they are like as a person/potential meet).
I'm with Pearl - I try to judge people based on what I read/find out about them in PMs/chat etc. |
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