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over a year ago
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"OP if I’m reading a profile I don’t want my knickers on their third wash cycle by time I finish it. Just a tip.  "
I was 'huh?'... Then looked no scroll  |
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
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That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A better variety of pics required but the two you have are good 
Blurb starts off apologetic, lose the rants bit, and the history of the lass who’s now dead 
oh and the ‘don’t use my pics’ bit .. if they’re gonna use them then they will whether you say that or not
And it is long, but hey, that’s me doing the pot, kettle, black thing.
It is quite descriptive which is good, didn’t see the old one so no idea how improved it is
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"OP if I’m reading a profile I don’t want my knickers on their third wash cycle by time I finish it. Just a tip.
this made me "
It gave me a laugh too & it just goes to show how hard it is to please people. I read a lot of couples & ladies profiles and most complain that mens profiles are crap and too short plus too many dick pics when they're not needed ? So like dj'ing you can't please all the people all the time |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps. "
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want to get the sense of the man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You do you.
It is your shop window and whatever you put in might put off one person, it may attract another.
Once you stop trying to be what you think others want you to be and just be you, success will follow...
#wisechai |
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"You do you.
It is your shop window and whatever you put in might put off one person, it may attract another.
Once you stop trying to be what you think others want you to be and just be you, success will follow...
#wisechai "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and while the pics aren’t bad, maybe lose the clutter a bit. Is that a pair of pants on the floor? And a shirt hanging on the door handle?
Trust me, women notice these sorts of thing!  |
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps.
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want t get the sense of the man. "
I'll take that on board. But selfies are difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh you won't target the collective as such. Just trying to keep it short, to the point and be yourself "
This
Mine is basically utter drivel but like me it’s short and conveys something. That and men don’t read anyway. Do you. It’s just very wordy. |
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps.
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want to get the sense of the man. "
Sorry but the suit looks too big for you in my opinion. Plus i'd prefer to see more casual clothing.Mrs. |
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps.
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want to get the sense of the man.
Sorry but the suit looks too big for you in my opinion. Plus i'd prefer to see more casual clothing.Mrs."
Lol I couldn't get into 4 weeks ago so I'm chuffed if you think it looks to big. |
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"Can I be honest..yes.
I looked and the first thing for me was it was too long
Ok I give up. I'll give it another rethink. God it's like being at uni again. Must write more succinctly. "
Don't give up ...where the fun in that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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u seem like a standup guy, and there’s been some sound advise from a lot of lovely peeps already with the being honest and wanting best for u.
listen to them all and try to make the minor changes to enhance your profile. above all, just be u and express what u want from site (be sincere).
best wishes. |
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"u seem like a standup guy, and there’s been some sound advise from a lot of lovely peeps already with the being honest and wanting best for u.
listen to them all and try to make the minor changes to enhance your profile. above all, just be u and express what u want from site (be sincere).
best wishes."
Thanks Lana I'll get to it later when I can concentrate. |
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"Can I be honest..yes.
I looked and the first thing for me was it was too long
Ok I give up. I'll give it another rethink. God it's like being at uni again. Must write more succinctly.
Don't give up ...where the fun in that!"
I meant tonight Anna bell x |
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"I don’t even read womens profiles…. What are my chances of reading a guys?  "
Lol @ Woody, sometimes I wonder why I read profiles in detail and try to respond accordingly. I prefer to chat in person. Must try and get to some socials but they are often on when I'm not available  |
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps.
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want t get the sense of the man.
I'll take that on board. But selfies are difficult. "
You set the phone or the camera on a tripod with a timer/clicker. I took one of me from overhead in bed and it came out quite well. |
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"Can I be honest..yes.
I looked and the first thing for me was it was too long
Ok I give up. I'll give it another rethink. God it's like being at uni again. Must write more succinctly. "
I'm not sure what your target audience is but if it's Gen Z they won't read anything that long.
Yes it is like at uni. I put it in a word counter and it came up with over 500 words. Given that this is Fab I would say stick to 300-400 words.
Personally, You can take a photo of your chest and head without showing your face so that takes care of describing yourself. Take off the blurb about verifications and don't tell the women what to do with their body hair from the contact interaction. If she really likes you she will acquiesce to your reasonable preferences. No need to talk about how far you will travel in the bio. Just my pointers. My bio is a work in Progress so I'm just saying what I like to see in men's profiles and no so much what I actually have in mine. |
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps.
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want t get the sense of the man.
I'll take that on board. But selfies are difficult.
You set the phone or the camera on a tripod with a timer/clicker. I took one of me from overhead in bed and it came out quite well."
My phone doesn't have a timer , that I could find. Checked all icons. |
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"Can I be honest..yes.
I looked and the first thing for me was it was too long
Ok I give up. I'll give it another rethink. God it's like being at uni again. Must write more succinctly.
I'm not sure what your target audience is but if it's Gen Z they won't read anything that long.
Yes it is like at uni. I put it in a word counter and it came up with over 500 words. Given that this is Fab I would say stick to 300-400 words.
Personally, You can take a photo of your chest and head without showing your face so that takes care of describing yourself. Take off the blurb about verifications and don't tell the women what to do with their body hair from the contact interaction. If she really likes you she will acquiesce to your reasonable preferences. No need to talk about how far you will travel in the bio. Just my pointers. My bio is a work in Progress so I'm just saying what I like to see in men's profiles and no so much what I actually have in mine."
Duely noted Mel thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps.
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want t get the sense of the man.
I'll take that on board. But selfies are difficult.
You set the phone or the camera on a tripod with a timer/clicker. I took one of me from overhead in bed and it came out quite well.
My phone doesn't have a timer , that I could find. Checked all icons. "
What you still using the classic Nokia |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Long innit?
Lol well I thought the more I let people know the easier it is for them to decide "
You will still get messages from non compatible users. I still get messages from short guys, meet now guys. Even though its on my profile its a definite no from me.
People simply don't read, sometimes it feels a waste writing anything, just let your pics do the talking.. |
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"Sorry profile is too long. I lost interest half way through so didn't read it all. And pics uninspiring.
That's interesting as I was told the naked and more explicit pics are best kept private. But thanks for your views. Every little helps.
You have a nice suit. That's all it tells me. Some nice torso shots, or hint of chest in an open shirt might be nice. I want t get the sense of the man.
I'll take that on board. But selfies are difficult.
You set the phone or the camera on a tripod with a timer/clicker. I took one of me from overhead in bed and it came out quite well.
My phone doesn't have a timer , that I could find. Checked all icons.
What you still using the classic Nokia "
Lol I wish. I.loved my.little Nokia but in today's market probably just as bad , Samsung A3 |
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"Long innit?
Lol well I thought the more I let people know the easier it is for them to decide
You will still get messages from non compatible users. I still get messages from short guys, meet now guys. Even though its on my profile its a definite no from me.
People simply don't read, sometimes it feels a waste writing anything, just let your pics do the talking.."
Feeling poorly at mo managed to pick up a cold over the weekend. But ill work on the gallery thanks |
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